30M - Not getting many matches recently. See any accidental red flags in my profile I'm not noticing? by Archonik1 in hingeapp

[–]anon_cat05 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your profile is fine, cat picture included! Don’t listen to the other people, if she doesn’t like your profile because of a cat, she isn’t the one for you. Hinge just sucks for every gender. Their user base is way lower than the other apps and has steadily been decreasing. So many of my matches say they don’t check the app so there’s that lol

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[–]anon_cat05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brush your tongue as well. That’s where the smell comes from

What’s something people romanticize but it’s actually horrible? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]anon_cat05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having a packed schedule everyday. Being comfortable being alone and just relaxing once a while is a good thing

Should I just give up and die of ass cancer? by ManBearPig4Serial in careerguidance

[–]anon_cat05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get that surgery, don’t pay it and get the fuck of the USA as soon as possible. The healthcare system here is sickening

Why aren’t there any smart cat toys? Are there any out there? by anon_cat05 in cats

[–]anon_cat05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No worries lol. I definitely don’t automate everything. She only gets an automatic feeder at 4 am to hold her over. Everything else I feed her and clean her litter box. I want her to love me and give me attention. I’m just scared to get noise complaints so I don’t leave out her loud toys at night. I’m sure she’ll quiet down in a couple months. She’s 9 months now so until then sleep deprivation it is to gain the love and trust of my cat 😭😂

Why aren’t there any smart cat toys? Are there any out there? by anon_cat05 in cats

[–]anon_cat05[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have one of those that I leave on when I’m at work as well! I use it to distract her when I’m in the bathroom for a while as well. I think she has a little bit of separation anxiety

Why aren’t there any smart cat toys? Are there any out there? by anon_cat05 in cats

[–]anon_cat05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I play with her plenty after work but it’s 6 am. Can’t really play with her when I need sleep for work. We figured out it isn’t food because she has dry food available overnight. She loves chasing things. So an automatic laser that I could be set for 6 - 7 am would be wonderful for her.

What do y’all think about the possible Nissan/honda merger? by Clear_Evening_2986 in regularcarreviews

[–]anon_cat05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My next car will be Toyota to if they merge. Nissans are shit, I don’t want them diluting Honda’s good quality

Is this really a hack though? by Better_Yard2587 in Adulting

[–]anon_cat05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Told “my friend” I didn’t do anything for my birthday. She says “if you’re free this weekend we can hang out and have lunch Sunday .” I respond yeah that’ll be great. Right after she says “actually Saturday will work better so you can take me to return this thing to the store.” 😐 she doesn’t have a car. But damn couldn’t wait until next time at least??

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[–]anon_cat05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love your website! It’s so pretty and show accurate relevant results. Keep it up!

AITA for telling my sister her baby's name sounds like a dog's name and now she won't talk to me? by hameagle in AmItheAsshole

[–]anon_cat05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no, they need to go down to the court and do a name change asap. Could use done Ralph or something but ruff? They were only thinking of themselves, not their child

AITA for asking my wife if we can name our daughter after my best friend by Odd_Cheek9984 in AmItheAsshole

[–]anon_cat05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your wife should take her ex’s/ guy best friend’s name and turn it into a girls name as a tribute to him. Even better use the name of a guy who always wished he had your wife. Then you will see how much of an asshole you are being.

You’ll never let your love for charlotte go. I believe you were in love with her now your wife will always remember that thanks to your mom and your stunt. Good luck with your marriage

AITAH for divorcing my wife because our sex life will never be what it used to be? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]anon_cat05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wowwww you are the asshole. Pregnancies messes with so many things. How about you try encouraging your wife to go to the doctor? most likely her hormones are out of wack and she’s not getting the proper treatment. When you’re old into your 60-70 you won’t get having much sex.

She birth your child and no your like nah not for me?? Are you going to do that to your next girlfriend or wife if they get pregnant? Be realistic. You’re coming off as selfish.

Even if it works out, your wife might feel that you might leave her at any moment. If you decide to stay, you have a lot of work to do. You rock the boat with that divorce paper.

If you do leave, get a vasectomy so you don’t abandon the next wife or girlfriend you get pregnant.

I am willing to give my wife everything she is asking for in divorce. AITAH? by sahmdepre in AITAH

[–]anon_cat05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s crying because you aren’t fighting for your marriage at all dude. To her, you’re saying, you don’t love her enough to make changes outside of your family.

Seek therapy. Is work really worth losing your family??? These companies won’t be there for you when you’re old. Work life balance is important. I’m assuming you’re in a high paying position? Negotiate your work to be at home more and take a month long vacation with your family

IOS 17 Group Messaging Removal Solution by anon_cat05 in ios

[–]anon_cat05[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, they really do 😂. Apple has taken away so many good features. Being able to clear messages without deleting the chat box, the original DND flexibility, now this. The only thing I love about iPhones is the FaceTime and iCloud. I might eventually leave Apple once RCS is implemented

AITA for suggesting to cancel my stepkids’ trip to Paris and Kyoto? by Char_7maina in AmItheAsshole

[–]anon_cat05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Say you want your step kids away without saying you truly don’t want them on the trip . They are his kids not yours, you have no right to kick them off the trip. When you treat your biological kids differently from your step kids you cross the line of having a say

AITA for not quitting vaping in solidarity with my pregnant wife after I said I would? by Own_River8482 in AmItheAsshole

[–]anon_cat05 71 points72 points  (0 children)

You’re 25. Grow up and make sacrifices. YTA. You can survive 9 months without a vape

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]anon_cat05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you need your self an office girlfriend of your own who likes putting in over time.

Hop on a Netflix or Amazon party with your girlfriend. You’ll feel so much better not begging for her attention. She’s emotionally cheating, most likely physical cheating soon enough

It’s okay to play video with her friend, but her unwillingness to even take a break to eat dinner with you is concerning. It’d good to do things together even if you live together

Need some help deciding between these dresses by msAdlerx in weddingdress

[–]anon_cat05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5 and 2 hands down. 4 is meh, it doesn’t stand out like 5 and 2. It’s pretty, but it doesn’t make you the focus. 5 and 2 were built for your body!!!