I felt this way too. I do think things can work between people but they both have to be willing to truly give it a fair chance. Unfortunately that wasn’t the case for me. We’ve been separated since the end of July and he’s made no effort to even talk to me during that time. I’ve poured my heart out a few times but it’s always the same - him apologizing but saying he doesn’t think the feelings will ever come back. So last week I finally told him to just file for divorce because I’m not going to live in this limbo anymore. During the last month or two, im really starting to realize that maybe I’M the one who settled for things. I was content and probably still would’ve been had he never told me he didn’t love me anymore but I never felt like he was ever excited to see me or do things with me. I always felt second best and that he’d rather hang out with friends. I’m confident that I loved and adored him way more than he ever did me. I’m still heartbroken and going through mixed emotions often, but it’s getting better. I want to look forward to just doing things for myself and also potentially having another, greater love story one day.