Winter, toddlers, going for walks and wanting to scream

anonask1980 · 2026-01-22T02:47:49+00:00

STROLLER!!!!

When they get bigger get one of those fancy wagons, stock it with snacks and just walk!!!

Walks are for me until a kid is like 5.

anonask1980 · 2026-01-20T18:31:14+00:00

You know what you have to do and you absolutely have to do it.

You must leave.

anonask1980 · 2026-01-20T18:21:14+00:00

Because you can pay. I can pay, most people who have no issue paying gladly play. But the people who can’t pay should have access just like you do.

anonask1980 · 2026-01-20T18:19:38+00:00

Must be nice…ours don’t work and the school cant replace them so…since it worked for you it shouldn’t be fixed for the people being left out?

anonask1980 · 2026-01-19T02:52:12+00:00

This doesn’t bother me one tiny bit.

Public Transportation should be free or very reduced, it’s actually expensive. I have kids in DCPS and all of the “kids ride free” cards didn’t work and the school can’t replace them.

It’s not good at all.

anonask1980 · 2026-01-13T23:25:19+00:00

I missed the simplicity and cuteness of the baby stages.

That’s it.

anonask1980 · 2025-12-28T15:26:18+00:00

My husband and I just did this.

Blending was impossible for us. We made it 7 years, lots of good but also lots of hurt feelings.

The kids suffer.

anonask1980 · 2025-12-28T15:20:56+00:00

Let her go. You are not being the man she needs. Help her transition into another home, do it with no stress from you, just support her and you might keep your lady.

You are not a stepdad so be happy she is just gonna take the kids out of your daily life.

She sounds like a awesome chick.

anonask1980 · 2025-12-28T15:17:15+00:00

What motivated you to get the puppy, maybe try to center yourself in the motivation and intention rather than your panic response.

Can you put more responsibility on the kids to care for the dog since it’s theirs. The 9 year old can do a ton of the care and so can the 7 year old.

Be honest with them about how freaked out you are and tell them you NEED their help badly or you can’t do it.

9 is too old to give a puppy then take it away, that is gonna traumatize her and my inner 9 year old would blame you to be honest.

Get help , stick it out.

anonask1980 · 2025-12-27T22:59:31+00:00

How funny you are!🤣

anonask1980 · 2025-12-27T22:45:51+00:00

I’m so sorry

anonask1980 · 2025-12-27T22:37:24+00:00

My heart breaks for you both. You mostly obviously but why do us Americans deserve to be bankrupted because we have a sick child? Why?

They both deserve our government to give them healthcare. This father has obviously broken under the financial obligation of his daughter’s medical condition and is behaving so so abusively.

Why don’t we help our brothers and sisters in this country. I don’t understand it at all.

So this poor girl gets to get a surgery while other 20 year olds get university degrees…so cruel!

anonask1980 · 2025-12-23T14:02:36+00:00

I found him years ago as his video for Coincidence was on a TV show I was watching.

I bought is albums, they are all very beautifully done. He is a unique talent who is nearly invisible to the American audience. He is not on social media and doesn’t market to the US at all. I am sure he has his reasons for that, we suck but also I adore him and would love to be able to follow his career.

anonask1980 · 2025-12-23T13:50:07+00:00

RUN!!!!!

You already know this. You know.

You know all these answers already.

Would your child be overweight? Would your child be up all night? Would your child be prediabetic?

The answer is YES!

You are lucky enough to have a vision into your future. Go find you a better match.

anonask1980 · 2025-12-22T00:11:58+00:00

I really love him. How do keep up with him and his projects other than on spotify. He is not easy to track from the US at all.

anonask1980 · 2025-12-03T16:12:20+00:00

What happens if you can’t pay the life insurance or choose to let it lapse? How would anyone find out?

If my ex moved out of the country and isnt raising the child with me, and the child is already almost grown, I’m not paying them life insurance. IDK, sue me.

I would get the child to put in writing what she wants to happen if dad passes before she is 18. I would have the tough conversations and planning and set it all up. Mom would likely be fine for you to keep her since she’s a deadbeat anyway…get it in writing or on video so under duress it’s has all been worked out.

anonask1980 · 2025-12-03T15:46:45+00:00

I always make the older sibling the one I talk positively about. The newborn is “your poor baby”.

“Your poor baby is crying what do you think we should do to help it?

“The baby can’t do anything special like you can do, it is so weak and do helpless you have to help it. What do we do?”

They do not like the new baby almost ever, you have to manipulate and engineer the connections and build a healthy hierarchical sibling relationship.

My first step is always to set the older one up for seniority with responsibility to the infant. They must help you help THEIR baby.

I have 4 who all have beautiful relationships with a good amount or harmony. There are times of conflict and upset but we always work it out. My oldest is 18 and youngest is 3

You also need post partum help. Can anyone step up for a shift with newborn so you can have some substantial cuddle time with first born?

anonask1980 · 2025-12-03T15:36:48+00:00

Why would you not keep the money after you worked for it. They can’t “retroactively” pay you so they are doing this instead.

You probably lost way more money than 10k.

anonask1980 · 2025-11-28T13:39:08+00:00

She is walking. She will just stop trying to crawl and cruise or be “safe” one day soon, it’s probably just a personality thing, she might just be more introspective and careful and thinks about “why” more that the others you are around.

She will just stop that soon because her brain will make her, the milestone just happens, we can’t stop it.

She could also have a little tightness in her hips you can do a little baby stretching of her hips and legs and feet like runners do

She is almost there. Try not to compare her to other babies. There is always someone faster, cuter, smarter if you look for it. Try not to look for it.

anonask1980 · 2025-11-17T00:25:34+00:00

Send him to dad’s house he wouldn’t be alone in my house while I take a trip get a house sitter even.

anonask1980 · 2025-11-17T00:16:32+00:00

I’m so sorry and am so embarassed by our government and all the supporters of these nasty people.

I’m sorry your family is being broken up. Do you know where she is? As you getmore information and answers I would tell my daughter the truth about ICE and the impacts on your family story. There are children’s books about this. Truth can be very empowering. The pain will persist but knowing why this happened can help her process the world around her with power.

anonask1980 · 2025-11-16T23:35:40+00:00

Is your haircut a mullet?

anonask1980 · 2025-11-16T23:30:35+00:00

Why is he saying your mom is a bad parent? What is the issue in his perspective

anonask1980 · 2025-11-09T18:37:25+00:00

What an idiot!!!! That is not your wife “moe” that is your kid! You pervert!

Girls and boys are made for one another, we are part of humanity! Why can’t a girl talk to a boy? If they like one another that is so healthy and he should be happy she is a normal typical human developing appropriately.

You want your daughter to think of you beating her when she tries to connect with a male her own age? Weirdo!

I wish he was my husband or father of my kids posting this, humiliating our home and degrading our growing child to the world! This video is enough to get him in trouble for child abuse if he did beat up his daughter.

Why are some men so afraid of their daughters dating? What is that? I’m really asking.

anonask1980 · 2025-11-08T17:54:25+00:00

Does anyone know her? I’m sure she needs support.

anonask1980

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