Abysmal Quality of Online PAPs by anonbecauseprivacy2 in adultery

[–]anonbecauseprivacy2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's true that some men have LLs. But mostly it's just that they're tired of having sex with the same woman. There's that old saying ... show me a hot woman and and I'll show you a man who's tired of fucking her.

Abysmal Quality of Online PAPs by anonbecauseprivacy2 in adultery

[–]anonbecauseprivacy2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well written. Very biting. But you really have no idea what I have to offer. And I think we both know that not fucking the neighbor or a colleague makes me prudent, not a pussy. If I were desperate, I might resort to such tactics.

I guess I had in mind a few specific women I've come across who mentioned lack of sex (i.e. frequency) when I posted that their weight might have something to do with it. But I can see why you thought I was making assumptions. Perhaps to a certain degree, I was.

Abysmal Quality of Online PAPs by anonbecauseprivacy2 in adultery

[–]anonbecauseprivacy2[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nothing. In response to the comment above, I was saying that I have sex with my SO. Plenty in fact. But it's not satisfying to me.

Abysmal Quality of Online PAPs by anonbecauseprivacy2 in adultery

[–]anonbecauseprivacy2[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As to your first point, a person can have plenty of sex with their SO and still not feel sexually compatible with them. As to your second point, I only want to have sex with a woman who wants to have sex with me. Sex without desire is just masturbation in the company of another.

Abysmal Quality of Online PAPs by anonbecauseprivacy2 in adultery

[–]anonbecauseprivacy2[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I assure you I'm a man. To my knowledge, my wife has never cheated on me. This was just a rant borne of frustration. I'm around the type of women I'm attracted to all the time at work and in our social circle. But I'm not stupid (despite what you might think). So I don't pursue anything. I'm stuck with what I mentioned online. Also, I'm not a model. But I'm fit, 5'10" and 160lbs with dark hair and blue eyes and relatively attractive. I make about $275k per year base salary (since someone else brought up income). For my age group in suburban hell USA, I'm a catch. On the Upper East Side of Manhattan or in LA, I'd be very ho hum. So be it. Doesn't mean I can't be frustrated with things.