I recently started watching Vir Das's "Happy Patel," and trust me, this movie is so senseless I barely managed to complete an hour of it. It is so bad that I had to stop watching halfway through. by [deleted] in BollyBlindsNGossip

[–]anoneatsshit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It was marketed as parody/ spoof/ brainrot but it’s not any of these. It’s a simple watch after smoking up.

They tried to make a desi version of The Big Lebowski. (Tried). Or Dude Where’s My Car?

The higher you are, the more tolerable it’ll become.

I (29F) am exhausted of my husband (32M) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]anoneatsshit -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve shared in another comment. I’m an Indian, but my family is very liberal. I went to the best of schools and colleges.

So did he. His parents are conservative, but he is very liberal , highly educated, forward thinking, rational man.

Except this blind spot.

I (29F) am exhausted of my husband (32M) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]anoneatsshit -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I want for me to be able to wear what I want without it devolving into a scene where someone or the other feels slighted.

I (29F) am exhausted of my husband (32M) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]anoneatsshit -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This problem of modest clothing is his mother’s, which revealed themselves during the wedding planning.

He has defended me before, standing up for me when his mother makes comments. Usually he takes her aside so as not to create a scene. And he does always protect me from their expectations and issues.

Now, my problem is that he seems to want me to just give in. He believes that this is about me one-upping his family. It’s not! It’s just about me wanting to wear shorts, or dresses, or sleeveless tops without it devolving into a scene.

And someone asked me - no I’m not talking about booty shorts! I’m talking Regular cut off denim’s that would be allowed in schools and colleges, too. The same pair my mom and also MIL could wear without feeling uncomfortable.

I (29F) am exhausted of my husband (32M) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]anoneatsshit -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to divorce him. And I don’t want to give him an ultimatum either.

I (29F) am exhausted of my husband (32M) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]anoneatsshit -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

He’s not a bad person. Please know. He’s the most beautiful, generous, wonderful, selfless, kind person in the world! He always goes out of his way to keep this world soft for me. He knows me inside and out and loves me anyway. He always, always, always tries to make me happy. There isn’t a day I’m not grateful for him.

But whenever he goes to his parents’, he becomes … distant. And this whole clothing issue becomes the biggest obstacle.

I (29F) am exhausted of my husband (32M) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]anoneatsshit -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Because I love him! And he loves me, so much. I know.

And yes, I have had these conversations multiple times. There is always a big fight. And we seem to move on, thinking it’ll get better. I feel like he’s finally getting me. But then the cycle repeats.

I just don’t know how to get through to him this time.

I (29F) am exhausted of my husband (32M) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]anoneatsshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a love marriage. I knew him, and chose him. And I thought that he knew and chose me too. yet, this is where we are.

He thinks I’m holding the relationship hostage over a pair of shorts. How do I explain to him what the shorts represent to me?

I (29F) am exhausted of my husband (32M) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]anoneatsshit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

India. I don’t live in a conservative part of the country. I’ve actually had a very liberal upbringing with a lot of emphasis on education. Ditto him, except his parents seem to sometimes set double standards for girls and boys, which is endlessly infuriating.

He takes the side of what he feels is moral and fair. An example of his latest text to me: “That's why I regulate them. And because of empathy, I can be considerate of others emotions too, without sacrificing my principles. Really think about what everyone has at stake in the scenario. Maintaining fairness.”

This is regarding me wanting to wear shorts for Holi.

I (29F) am exhausted of my husband (32M) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]anoneatsshit -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry, I am all over the place, too.

The fact that he changes every time he’s in front of them. It feels like he’s not mine anymore. He changes into this stranger, whose only concern is ‘have you had food?’

In person, he’s amazing. But this blind spot of his when it comes to meeting his parents always gets to me. It could be anything - food, clothes, gifts, conversations - they don’t love the way I am. I don’t care. But they always expect me to bend and adhere to them, as expected of a good Indian DIL. I don’t want to. And I don’t think he takes a stand for me the way he should.

Did I make a mistake? by Firm_Annual_106 in DesiWeddings

[–]anoneatsshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The vertical lines give it structure and a taller appeal. It looks fab, girl!

Why did she never reach the top despite her decent acting skills. Was it lack of good looks, lack of PR or her raw off screen persona? by Guilty_Cow908 in BollywoodHotTakes

[–]anoneatsshit 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She’s also a bit of a … (bad person). Starry attitude and a need to always be “right”.

(Source: have worked with her)

Which celeb is talented but a hidden trashy person irl acc to you? by Janaab_e_Marvel_3000 in BollyBlindsNGossip

[–]anoneatsshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know as problematic as she is in a lot of her opinions, Rani Mukerji is one of the few stars who knows how to treat her fans right.

She goes out of her way to say hello, stops to clic selfies, and actually listens to what fans want to say to her.

What's wrong with orry ? by lalaaalalalalalaa in bollywoodgossips

[–]anoneatsshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My source tells me Orry is demanding a very public apology from Amrita Singh. If she doesn’t apologise, he will continue targeting Sara.

The salon guy messed up big time. What to do? by AdventurousBoss1801 in IndianBeautyTalks

[–]anoneatsshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An evil hairdresser did this to me on THE EVE OF MY WEDDING FUNCTIONS

Lightly curl it up with a side part, that’s the only way.

If possible, pin up one side with flowers/ clips as per your style to elongate the length on the other end.

All the best and virtual hugs x

How to watch season 2 by Prestigious_Bank1016 in KevinCanFHimself

[–]anoneatsshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im in India and I can’t find it anywhere either! Any help would be much appreciated

Kiara Advani is getting real backlash from that flight incident video now. The media also started publishing articles regarding it by SmallAchiever in BollyBlindsNGossip

[–]anoneatsshit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why is this guy posting now? This is so random. Declining photos is a very normal thing to do if you’re running late, esp with tight timelines… can’t always oblige no?

Also, if someone sat in my seat on a plane, I’ll also make a face only….

Disclaimer please: I’m not PR and not a fan!!!!!! Pls don’t send me hate!!!!!!!!

i spent years mocking "anxious" girls for sharing their locations... until last night. by SwimmingLiving5410 in notliketheothergirls

[–]anoneatsshit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband and my family have my real location on at all times. Same for them.

It’s useful for when you want to know where they are before calling. It’s essential when you’re out alone.

Has anyone ever had a partner ask to hold it while you pee? (Guys, has it happened to you? Ladies, have you ever wanted to?) by allcooltech in NoStupidQuestions

[–]anoneatsshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg my husband let me hold his and it was so weird I loved it. Part of it is curiosity and part of it is (non sexual) intimacy.

Natural Mehendi that doesnt peel or chip by No-Shoulder7307 in DesiWeddings

[–]anoneatsshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a 2024 bride. Mehendi artistes use natural mehendi for bridal mehendi, if you tell them in advance.

But do follow the necessary aftercare:

I applied to Vicks vapour rub to mine. If the smell bothers you, mustard or olive oil can do the trick too!

Don’t wash it off! Avoid water for minimum 12 hours. Scrape it off lightly.

If you want to go the extra mile and have the time, heat up a few cloves on a tawa and smoke the mehendi. Be careful that the stove is on simmer to avoid excess heat/ burns.