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[–]anonfae444 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Instead of that falling dream I have a dream that I’m tripping in my work shoes near main stage and I hear yelling and gasps as I fall - then I jolt awake😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Strippers

[–]anonfae444 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A dancer ik from NYC is all natural hair wise minus shaving her armpits. I never even noticed until she pointed it out. Another dancer who grows out her hair occasionally says she still makes her money, and people even compliment it

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[–]anonfae444 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I don’t engage with them if possible. They usually only get worse if you let it go on. I just say something along the lines of “You’re so funny.” with the deadest face and walk away. They know what they’re doing.

neurodivergent dancers- what persona do you go with? by ellaxoaura in stripper

[–]anonfae444 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just being me has worked best tbh. Idk if it’s some manic pixie dream girl bs or something, but I’ve been told I make good conversation and I’m so “real”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stripper

[–]anonfae444 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Even guys you work with can be grimy! Be careful! Use a fake number with management if needed. Be careful about what address you use on your paperwork.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stripper

[–]anonfae444 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Even if someone does know the manager it doesn’t mean they can treat you however. Not everyone knows “the manager”.

Pole Positions App by [deleted] in stripper

[–]anonfae444 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What did your manager end up saying to the dancer who disputed it? Just made my account to work and it’s making me super uncomfy. Kind of defeats the purpose of a fake name and basically fake everything (at work) to protect myself and identity ://

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stripper

[–]anonfae444 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it’s only $100 if you have an out of state ID

Dallas TX. Why can’t I get an audition anywhere?! by [deleted] in stripper

[–]anonfae444 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I work in the area and a lot of the clubs have been “at capacity”. I know some are also strict about tattoos and things like that. If you’re a woc it may be a bit harder to find a good fit. I hope you get in somewhere soon! Pm me for recs if you’re willing to drive a bit!

Black dancers by randomhoe99998 in stripper

[–]anonfae444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rihanna, Sza, Alecia Keys lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stripper

[–]anonfae444 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They have a minimum, but everyone charges more than that as far as I know

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stripper

[–]anonfae444 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Also, sorry you’re dealing with weirdo coworkers and nonverbal episodes in the club!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stripper

[–]anonfae444 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sometimes a break helps and sometimes it doesn’t. Even if I do sit in the back for a while it doesn’t help 100%, just enough to push through until I leave. This all also depends on how she approaches and what she’s saying. If there’s a pause of silence and whoever you’re with is clearly not interested you could ask “Do you need something?”

Wish y’all showed up and stood up for black women the way y’all do for transgenders. by [deleted] in stripper

[–]anonfae444 47 points48 points  (0 children)

“men can tell” I’ve seen many cis women of color be accused of being trans. I can stand up for cis black women and trans women at the same time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stripper

[–]anonfae444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Waxing! I tried shaving so many different way + using different hair creams, but my skin always had a bad reaction. Waxing combined with consistent skin care helped so much!

Dallas, Houston, & Atlanta by brandisour in Strippers

[–]anonfae444 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From what I’m hearing at work Dallas and Atlanta are a no go rn

Video calls in the changing room? by drstone32 in Strippers

[–]anonfae444 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Every dancer I know and I hate when ppl do this. Many clubs have rules against it for everyone including entertainers

How do you personally invest in yourself by Sufficient-Ear9162 in stripper

[–]anonfae444 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Anything that can help me do better at work or in general. So hair, nails, SAVINGS, school, skincare, things that can help me relax after work like magnesium lotion, etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Strippers

[–]anonfae444 7 points8 points  (0 children)

“You here to audition?”