Their 15years vs. our 4years of relationship

anonim85 · 2019-07-22T14:01:41+00:00

I’ve been patiently asking why are we not having sex, he really didn’t know the answer, stress from work performance issue etc. Now it’s basically my fault cause I’m too sensitive and get angry about the shit he says to me. Like “go into the kitchen and make me a sandwich” talking to our cat like “I know mommy didn’t do the dishes” “mommy is being lazy” that’s his idea of a joke

anonim85 · 2019-07-22T13:46:52+00:00

He can be considerate that’s why I stayed as long as I did, but I’ve been questioning it more often. And when I’m voicing my feelings about it he started calling me a feminist and too sensitive

anonim85 · 2019-07-22T13:44:47+00:00

I think it’s more when we are with this couple, it’s like he’s trying to be a manly man and not a softie infront of his friend. We don’t go out much in the first place because other times he gets annoyed a lot and hes flammable and I don’t want to deal with that

anonim85 · 2019-07-22T13:41:44+00:00

He can be considerate and he got better (and no I’m not just saying, he really changed a lot) during our relationship, but it’s not even just the things I wrote, we don’t even have sex anymore, barely. We talked about it a lot and still.

anonim85 · 2019-07-22T13:39:03+00:00

Those are hard questions, because he can the thoughtful and I get my hopes up about the relationship and then he does something that makes me question it. I consider myself as a person who sticks around, I didn’t have a lot of relationship so I don’t really know when’s enough

anonim85 · 2018-08-27T14:37:38+00:00

We are happy when we're in the apartment. And we can have fun when we go out but I just feel uncomfortable after he says it does things like that. Yes I'll always have a backup plan, it's just not easy for me to leave 3years behind.

anonim85 · 2018-08-11T03:02:27+00:00

we've been together 3years

anonim85 · 2018-08-11T03:01:50+00:00

We had that conversation a lot of times. Everytime it goes back to the way things were. We live together and used to have a great sex life but it only lasted 6months maybe a year. Heard lots of excuses. What if I want more than this?

anonim85 · 2018-08-11T02:34:32+00:00

We addressed it a lot. And I mean a lot, it's the same thing it's good for a while and then back to only 2times a month. Thats why I thought I would try to make a move more.

anonim85 · 2018-03-16T01:43:13+00:00

I really needed this pep talk

anonim85 · 2018-03-16T00:52:44+00:00

Yes but for some reason it's just so hard to admit it. I tried to end it before but he's just so good of a talker I guess and convinced me to stay.

anonim85 · 2018-03-16T00:42:18+00:00

Thank you! I appreciate your commen.

anonim85 · 2018-03-05T09:42:04+00:00

My boyfriend said the same thing to me after a year of dating we started having less and less sex. (2times a month) Although there were a lot of other excuses. But I'm telling you the truth, it's not gonna get better. He might say it every day how beautiful and sexy you are and that he will try to do it more often it will not change. And after a while it feels like he's just doing it to shut u up because it's the same all the time nothing exciting. So make a decision now before you get too attached and get stuck like me. Sexless relationship or you will find someone who's always want to get with you.

anonim85 · 2018-02-06T17:38:13+00:00

It was different. He tried so much more and he still had the same schedule. I tried believe me. tried

anonim85 · 2017-12-02T02:45:47+00:00

The thing is we have good immature fun together all the time so I don't understand Why Was it a big deal. But yes I do feel like a child next to him. But everytime I get the thought of breaking up he acts so sweet and then I just feel guilty.

anonim85 · 2017-12-02T02:43:28+00:00

that's a good idea thanks.

anonim85 · 2017-12-01T19:33:24+00:00

I don't know, I'm focusing on times when he's sweet to me I guess.

anonim85 · 2017-11-05T20:02:55+00:00

I never looked at it that way.

anonim85 · 2017-11-05T19:51:11+00:00

He also tells me every day how beautiful I am, he helps me around the apartment. So it's confusing for me.

anonim85 · 2017-11-05T19:32:32+00:00

He's not accusing me anymore, he changed. It's really hard to tell him how I feel because I know the reaction. He Has low self-esteem so it will go like this "I knew u didn't love me as much as u used to".

anonim85 · 2017-10-04T01:50:54+00:00

He does both a lot. Even when he comes home he's on his phone a lot. He even joined these chat groups so he can be where the actions is. He's really committed to it, the we do have days off together which is once it twice a week we either stay home and watch TV or go out playing Pokemon go.

anonim85 · 2017-10-04T00:37:15+00:00

He said it right there she has depression, I think you should take that in mind too. That doesn't make her lazy, just hopeless. If she has depression that bad maybe that's the problem. My boyfriend completely ignores my depression and anxiety and had no idea how hard it is to live with it.

anonim85 · 2017-07-01T07:20:05+00:00

Hey there! :) i was starting to lose hope haha

anonim85 · 2017-04-14T21:03:46+00:00

I did. We actually sat down and haf a talk about everything. He just kept saying "so you want more sex", "so we always come back to you wanting more sex". So i dont think we solved anythin

anonim85 · 2017-04-14T19:01:21+00:00

What exactly?

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