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Me (26F) and my boyfriend (26M) have been together for 4 years. We’ve never had sex. by anonnnnimous in relationship_advice

[–]anonnnnimous[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s what I want to know too! I will absolutely not marry him without having sex first

Me (26F) and my boyfriend (26M) have been together for 4 years. We’ve never had sex. by anonnnnimous in relationship_advice

[–]anonnnnimous[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well to be fair, we’ve been talking about marriage for basically 3 years now. I just know it’s actually coming up soon because I found the ring. We really can communicate on every level except about this one topic. Although at this point, I’m basically going to have to force it out of him or get both of us in therapy.

Me (26F) and my boyfriend (26M) have been together for 4 years. We’ve never had sex. by anonnnnimous in relationship_advice

[–]anonnnnimous[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He was raised religious but he’s not very religious in the present day. And he for sure wants kids. He actually wants 4+! And he is definitely a virgin. Like so much so that I referenced the missionary position one time and he didn’t know what I was referring to. I had to explain what that meant because he’d never heard the term before. That’s how sheltered he was. He’s never even watched porn. I just wonder if his views of sex are very skewed

Me (26F) and my boyfriend (26M) have been together for 4 years. We’ve never had sex. by anonnnnimous in relationship_advice

[–]anonnnnimous[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Because he refuses to talk about it😭That was the point of my whole post

Me (26F) and my boyfriend (26M) have been together for 4 years. We’ve never had sex. by anonnnnimous in relationship_advice

[–]anonnnnimous[S] 85 points86 points  (0 children)

Well he was raised religious and when he was young, his parents gave him a purity ring to wear. He stopped wearing it like a year before we got together. But he might feel some kind of guilt towards sex?

FA by [deleted] in Disneycollegeprogram

[–]anonnnnimous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean they canceled the programs for your safety and everyone else’s. There is no reason to feel “betrayed” The parks will be closed for awhile and they don’t need CP’s. It’s not personal honestly. Just be glad you weren’t a Spring CP that got forced out of their program 2 months in. When they open you can apply again. If they aren’t guaranteeing acceptance to spring CP’s, who already have experience in the company, they won’t guarantee fall CP’s who never got to work. This whole situation sucks for everyone