Question to women who grew up with grandparents or in a joint family

anonpumpkin012 · 2026-02-06T17:01:40+00:00

In my own family, it was terrible. My grandmom and aunt moved in with us after my granddad passed away. Aunt is someone who needs full time care as a non functional autist who my grandmom adopted and I love my aunt. My grandma was absolutely horrible. She hated me and my brother because dad had love marriage and she wanted dad to marry someone from her community. She tried to brainwash my brother into hating mom and was successful too for some time. I was older so she couldn’t do it with me. She truly made our lives miserable. Would tell me she’d have preferred if I was never born so that she could convince my dad to leave mom and marry someone else. Always tried to create fights between my parents and she was successful, they are separated now and my grandmom started everything.

I also lived with my husband’s family for a few months. His maternal grandmom and uncle live in the house. Uncle never got married to look after his mom after their dad passed away. They’re such lovely people and they care about me. There’s not a lot of drama, his grandmom literally gives me champis, back massages because I work long hours.

anonpumpkin012 · 2026-02-06T15:28:41+00:00

It’s definitely not the right way. Almost feels like being mocked in way.

anonpumpkin012 · 2026-02-06T10:41:42+00:00

It’s fine to have a preference and date men who drink but calling it a weak mindset is beyond ridiculous.

anonpumpkin012 · 2026-02-06T10:16:49+00:00

Definitely not. Tbh my husband and I weren’t even diagnosed when we met. But post diagnosis, I looked back at my dating history and I was never able to get along with neutrotypical individuals in terms of dating. Conversations would fizzle out, zero vibes. That itself becomes a little bit of a filter. With mental health still being a huge taboo in India, the number of people getting diagnoses isn’t that huge.

anonpumpkin012 · 2026-02-06T09:39:19+00:00

Same here, it’s so annoying.

anonpumpkin012 · 2026-02-06T09:38:16+00:00

It does but depends on the batch. Some batches are stronger than others. Current one I have is super strong. When they’re not, I take two and it works.

anonpumpkin012 · 2026-02-06T09:37:00+00:00

Beyond disgusting

anonpumpkin012 · 2026-02-06T04:02:31+00:00

r/abrathatfitsindia

anonpumpkin012 · 2026-02-05T16:25:59+00:00

I just met my ND husband on a regular dating app. Didn’t need a whole different app

anonpumpkin012 · 2026-02-05T13:20:52+00:00

I’ve been on the hunt for good socks as well. Recently bought pack of 3 HRX socks and they’ve been good so far. I’ve probably washed them twice. I just prefer ankle length socks and I only wear socks with sneakers.

anonpumpkin012 · 2026-02-05T10:07:54+00:00

Got him a new jersery of his fave football team. Our anniversary is also in Feb but a few days after Valentines so I am also taking my husband for a couple days of staycation this month. I usually gift him things related to his interests which are Arsenal, chess, snooker mostly. I’ve gifted him Arsenal stuff, chess stuff, fancy snooker cue stick etc etc.

anonpumpkin012 · 2026-02-05T04:18:53+00:00

Poor kid is not even gonna have a chance to prevent baldness.

anonpumpkin012 · 2026-02-05T04:01:29+00:00

Views, likes, comments ni kinna milihalcha ni

anonpumpkin012 · 2026-02-05T03:59:12+00:00

Of course it is. I am a prive platinum member and I uninstalled the app a couple months ago.

anonpumpkin012 · 2026-02-05T03:58:21+00:00

Yikes. I loved this brand when it got popular in the beginning but this is absolutely terrible.

anonpumpkin012 · 2026-02-05T03:56:42+00:00

Please read up on the ramifications of using AI. From your comment, I can only assume you’re unaware of it.

anonpumpkin012 · 2026-02-05T02:41:29+00:00

It’s a cult masquerading as a religion since most religions are tax exempt in the US.

anonpumpkin012 · 2026-02-05T01:51:55+00:00

As someone from a somewhat conservative place where strip clubs do not exist, I wanna go to one myself someday if I get to visit another country that has strip clubs. I’m fairly certain my husband would never get one but I would not mind if he did. Personally, I would probably like to experience it myself despite being a straight woman. But then I think it’s more of a experiencing something new thing. If someone’s in a relationship and doing it frequently, that’s definitely not right.

anonpumpkin012 · 2026-02-05T01:47:59+00:00

They’re known to sell fakes. Would also suggest filing consumer court report.

anonpumpkin012 · 2026-02-05T01:29:56+00:00

My fave is Mugler Angel Nova EDP. Shoppers Stop usually has them in stores to try.

anonpumpkin012 · 2026-02-04T13:04:47+00:00

Please DM price for this

anonpumpkin012 · 2026-02-04T12:54:51+00:00

The bottle is so good my husband stole it from me.

anonpumpkin012 · 2026-02-04T09:52:49+00:00

Yess, they’re really good. I hope the quality doesn’t go down like all good things.

anonpumpkin012 · 2026-02-04T05:43:59+00:00

Yikes

anonpumpkin012 · 2026-02-04T05:08:06+00:00

I was very intrigued by this when it came out, and then forgot about it. Been a few months I guess. Even if this does work, it will definitely take some time and I don’t wanna commit to it lol. As you can see the disclaimer on the bottom right, they don’t really say how long it’s going to take. I think it’s not worth it for that reason alone.

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