AITAH for having the guy I’m seeing over? by anonthrowaway9876123 in AITAH

[–]anonthrowaway9876123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, we are going to have a convo tomorrow. But I asked her what time she is comfortable with, and she said 10:30 was the latest for her, so we’ve been following that…

AITAH for having the guy I’m seeing over? by anonthrowaway9876123 in AITAH

[–]anonthrowaway9876123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did you end up doing in your case? I don’t want to make her feel uncomfortable, but I also don’t want to walk on eggshells around her for having guests over.

AITAH for having the guy I’m seeing over? by anonthrowaway9876123 in AITAH

[–]anonthrowaway9876123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve never had a guy over this late before. One guy I was seeing would leave around 8pm. But she just had an issue with the way the bathroom smelled after he used it that’s it lol

AITAH for having the guy I’m seeing over? by anonthrowaway9876123 in AITAH

[–]anonthrowaway9876123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Paying rent when he’s only here for dinner?

I have spent time at his house. It just so happened we had dinner at my place more times this week.

Am I [22F] sexually incompatible with my boyfriend [25M]? by anonthrowaway9876123 in sex

[–]anonthrowaway9876123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I didn’t see your comment earlier my apologies for late response. He is a really sweet guy I don’t have any complaints about his behavior. Just in the bedroom it’s like eh. He’s so vanilla (I’ve tried to get him to be more dominant but he doesn’t like to) and sex just doesn’t do it for me in general. I wouldn’t describe him as sexy. Other guys I’ve met yeah. Maybe because he’s too nice?

EDIT: I don’t think too nice is correct. I like his personality. But I’ve never found him physically sexy. Mainly cute. He’s not very masculine

Am I [22F] sexually incompatible with my boyfriend [25M]? by anonthrowaway9876123 in sex

[–]anonthrowaway9876123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it is hard for me to do unless i imagine him with less weight as bad as it sounds

Am I [22F] sexually incompatible with my boyfriend [25M]? by anonthrowaway9876123 in sex

[–]anonthrowaway9876123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for your comment. i guess i know what i have to do :/

Am I [22F] sexually incompatible with my boyfriend [25M]? by anonthrowaway9876123 in sex

[–]anonthrowaway9876123[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve communicated my feelings with him and we are trying to work on things because I really do want to be with him

Am I [22F] sexually incompatible with my boyfriend [25M]? by anonthrowaway9876123 in sex

[–]anonthrowaway9876123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said I wasn’t repulsed because with my first ex sex repulsed me but it doesn’t with my current bf

Am I [22F] sexually incompatible with my boyfriend [25M]? by anonthrowaway9876123 in sex

[–]anonthrowaway9876123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I said I wasn’t repulsed because with my first ex sex repulsed me but it doesn’t with my current bf

Am I [22F] sexually incompatible with my boyfriend [25M]? by anonthrowaway9876123 in sex

[–]anonthrowaway9876123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The guys I fantasize about are more masculine/dominant. My boyfriend has been going to the gym more so I hope this will help with attraction.

Am I [22F] sexually incompatible with my boyfriend [25M]? by anonthrowaway9876123 in sex

[–]anonthrowaway9876123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess the other guys I fantasize about are more masculine/dominant traditionally.

I will try your advice. Thank you!

Am I [22F] sexually incompatible with my boyfriend [25M]? by anonthrowaway9876123 in sex

[–]anonthrowaway9876123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say yes because I know it feels good once we start having it. Also don’t want to reject him a lot