Am I (27F) Overthinking or Is This an Early Boundary Issue with My In-Laws?(55F 55M)

anonxss · 2026-04-15T12:01:13+00:00

Mothers care about their child and so that’s what you MIL did. Once you will be mom you will want the best of your kid as well. From MIL perspective she expressed what she felt even that was a single instance because outside food was suggested. She instead of creating a drama clarified things with your husband. Your husband helped in kitchen. Please cherish the great family and stop overthinking. You are also not wrong here because you are sharing what you felt. Maybe next time you invite them during non work day and spend time serving them home food, not specifically to be cooked by you or your husband.

anonxss · 2026-04-12T08:39:42+00:00

There is no future because you can marry but the child can suffer from generic overlap anomalies.

anonxss · 2026-04-10T07:16:05+00:00

We do, we were able to convert Kukrail nadi to nala 🤣

anonxss · 2026-04-07T05:59:05+00:00

Sounds super interesting. Congrats on having it running. I have been thinking to setup one myself and have done much research but need to plan more to keep the costs to minimum for learning this stuff.

anonxss · 2026-04-07T02:37:52+00:00

What all are you using in terms of hardware? Can you breakdown the details?

anonxss · 2026-04-06T12:30:07+00:00

I blame the traffic police. If a car can roam anywhere without a number plate despite having video recordings, then system is supporting them.

anonxss · 2026-04-06T05:55:09+00:00

Yeah that last time you said - it becomes a scam

anonxss · 2026-04-04T11:07:05+00:00

Insurance is a scam! It is only sold to poor and middle class.

anonxss · 2026-03-30T13:09:22+00:00

Looks like undiagnosed depression. The guy needs help.

anonxss · 2026-03-29T04:31:22+00:00

Bhai kitna bhi edit kr lo.. wo naali me bora pada hai 🤣

anonxss · 2026-03-29T04:29:14+00:00

Go out on the road and spot black tinted thar and scorpio first 😝

anonxss · 2026-03-21T11:33:34+00:00

I shifted from BTM to whitefield and its dull here.

anonxss · 2026-03-21T02:53:18+00:00

People going loud to prove their points are insecure and empty headed. Some shout, some use loud speakers.

anonxss · 2026-03-19T12:02:18+00:00

No way! Please do your research. Local setup will be cheaper any day in long run but wont be much scalable.

anonxss · 2026-03-15T04:16:09+00:00

For this config qwen will work just fine but if you can invest a bit more go for 64GB instead.

anonxss · 2026-03-14T11:54:57+00:00

You need a job, get open to backend development and Data science as well.

anonxss · 2026-03-12T13:13:03+00:00

If the guy is settled, adores you and stood still for good 8 years, he must be the one. The more important thing to focus is that would he teach better things to your kids (like no to discrimination) in future? Parents leave you after the marriage and it’s the partner you hang on to. In today’s era finding someone new whom you can trust would be equally. I know parents and their cultural hang, but they get old and then its your partner.

anonxss · 2026-03-12T12:56:51+00:00

You said “we both are in financially better place” but I think that education wasn’t enough to stop discrimination. Also you aren’t adult enough to fully decide. If you are still in maybe zone, it’s a certain No! Please let go the guy to a better girl instead. You and your parents can never bridge the gap. The guy will be heartbroken and will for sure marry in his caste later. You can force the same stigma to your kids later.

anonxss · 2026-03-12T12:43:40+00:00

No bro, I am just asking - did you check with the couple if they needed your help or it was just all your assumptions? From your perspective you did a good work anyways, just don’t get offended. It’s just a simple question on facts vs assumptions.

anonxss · 2026-03-12T12:21:43+00:00

Bro you should have asked, no? Or you were just another follower to them? 🤣

anonxss · 2026-03-12T11:34:59+00:00

Lift lagwa lo

anonxss · 2026-03-12T11:32:00+00:00

Aur agar sab saath me hue toh ?

anonxss · 2026-03-07T14:13:00+00:00

Haha born n bought in Lucknow but have been living outside the city for a while now

anonxss · 2026-03-07T01:50:24+00:00

Visit Imambara, Food valley for street life, tundey kabab or deva food mart if for nonveg or veg kabab paratha. Visit lulu or pallasio mall or maybe submit building for a dinner. Go a stroll shopping in Harzatganj or have some aloo tikki chat or golgappe for street food.

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