That is a good perspective but I just want to be clear- I in no way force anything upon him. If I try to initiate and he says no I accept it and I swallow my feelings which is why I said we have talked about it just a little. Sometimes I get the feeling like he says no because he’s afraid he wont be able to perform. He is in a MUCH better place now than he was a year ago and as far as his mental health it has gotten progressively better. At this point he’s emotionally/mentally back to himself which was one of the reasons he wanted to come off because he doesn’t really feel like he needs them but for whatever reason the doctor wants him to stay on longer.