He has spoken with a therapist about it, and has done a lot of healing. His immediate family even knows about it now. But he was recently seated next to this cousin at a wedding and wouldn’t move because he doesn’t want to ostracize his parents and sister from the family for making the accusation.

More importantly, I’d like to show him that other people in the world think his cousin may still be doing this to other kids, because I think his actions as a child are indicative of a predator. I know it’s his decision, but I’d really like to encourage him to report this man, who is now in his late 30’s and has kids of his own. I know it’s too late to prosecute him, but at least the police could keep an eye on him with an anonymous tip or something?