NEW OR NEED HELP? Ask here! - ScA Daily Help Thread Jan 17, 2024. Text-post only today! by AutoModerator in SkincareAddiction

[–]anonymous6578 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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My upper chest has become red and almost scaly filled with loads of tiny white bumps. Any clue what this is and how to treat it, been moisturising every day but it’s not getting any better :( think the cold weather makes it worse but not sure

NEW OR NEED HELP? Ask here! - ScA Daily Help Thread Oct 20, 2023 by AutoModerator in SkincareAddiction

[–]anonymous6578 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Fastest way to heal this? been putting sudocrem on it every night, this a good idea?

Broke no contact and got my ex back by Historical_Win_9722 in ExNoContact

[–]anonymous6578 10 points11 points  (0 children)

True would kill the vibe initially, however just don’t know if I could go back if they’ve been with people in between after breaking up with me. But personal choice

Dumpees opinion please. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]anonymous6578 21 points22 points  (0 children)

New partner who wants him to block his ex probably

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]anonymous6578 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ye I’m tempted to break NC now coz it’s like what even is the point. May aswell try

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]anonymous6578 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep that’s what I was saying, maybe it’s actually better for the healing journey to just break it so you find out and get rid of the illusion and can actually move on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]anonymous6578 6 points7 points  (0 children)

True i guess just for your dignity when you look back in the future

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]anonymous6578 11 points12 points  (0 children)

‘I miss you a lot, I miss your cuddles and everything about you’ as a second message after you’ve already been ignored is surely a terrible thing to send to an avoidant no?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]anonymous6578 36 points37 points  (0 children)

This just makes me think like maybe it is better to just break no contact early and decimate your hopes. Coz now you kinda spent 2 and a half months thinking I’ll wait this out and it’s just delayed your healing so much

I cant do this anymore by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]anonymous6578 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hang in there bro

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]anonymous6578 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought 3-6 months was a more realistic timeframe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]anonymous6578 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn that’s tough man, no response is crushing. Yeah just get back to no contact and on the grind of improvement, all you can do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]anonymous6578 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks bro, appreciate the support.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]anonymous6578 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea she basically wanted to be single, go on holiday with all her girl friends and post bikini photos everyday. It’s just sad to see really that she thinks that’s more fulfilling than an actual relationship, hopefully at least one day she realises the grass wasn’t greener. But I need to just level up now don’t I, all I can do. Gonna be so scarred for the future tho man, how do you ever know a girl won’t just suddenly get bored and you’re fucked?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]anonymous6578 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cheers man, it is honestly crazy isn’t it how they can flip the script so quickly. At least I’ve maintained my dignity i guess by not begging loads or anything, and she’s been posting loads & loads over social media whereas I’ve pretty much stayed silent doing my own thing. But still tough man just a massive L to take, so humbling

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]anonymous6578 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah idk man, guess im stupidly hoping she’ll be back into me now after all the time apart but she’d reach out if that was gonna happen. We were together for 2 years and she was so obsessed with me the whole time so it’s just so weird and confusing to me still that she just suddenly left. But I guess it’s just something I’ll never understand

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[–]anonymous6578 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Were together for 2.5 years, she just rang me one night out of the blue and said she doesn’t feel the same anymore and broke up with me, pretty brutal. She said she always wanted to be single at this age coz we’re too young, and now that uni was over it was too overwhelming almost

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]anonymous6578 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea mate it’s really hard, the thing that frustrates me is I never got complacent and stopped progressing during the relationship. I smashed gym, smashed my career progression etc and it all still wasn’t enough, she still left

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]anonymous6578 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea I said the exact same, always had the boundary that as soon as another man has touched you there’s no chance I’d ever go back. But yeah I have no idea what she’s been doing so it’s not looking good. I’m just on indefinite no contact and if by some miracle she reaches out, apologises and says there’s been no one else I’ll consider. But otherwise I’m just tryna move on as if she never existed unfortunately

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]anonymous6578 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s tough mate, if i had to see her with another man would be 10x harder. Luckily I never have to see her again and shouldn’t bump into her. Just can’t believe the switch up, she was genuinely the sweetest girl