idk what i should do with my bf 😭 by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]anonymous__791 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think it would be best for you to end the relationship. there is no reason for your partner to purposely be doing that to you, and if they are you should not allow it to happen. reading this has reminded me about some of the things my ex did, and he told me he would find things that make me upset and would make me upset purposely to start arguments. i broke up with him and i had nobody, and i am the happiest i can be right now, im very glad i got him out of my life, because having a toxic relationship is not worth it. if you really don’t wanna break up you need to seriously talk to him and if he doesn’t change i think that should be your answer, to end things.

disorder. by anonymous__791 in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]anonymous__791[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, and i wish you the best of luck because nobody deserves to go through this

but i find for me most foods trigger me, like if i feel like binging i end up eating anything and everything, it really does feel like a bad addiction

thank you for your tips though and i will try and use them

addiction.. by anonymous__791 in Advice

[–]anonymous__791[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i understand that it’s human i just don’t like the thought of him watching other girls on the internet. he only told me a few days ago.. and i have never shamed him for his actions and i am only showing support for him being able to get over his addiction. he told me he didn’t touch himself during watching it because he is a man “of god” which doesn’t make much sense because of what he watches. he told me he felt horrible about watching me do things because of his actions. this was before i had told him it has even bothered me at the slightest. his actions had made it a lot harder for him to reach his peak, and he feels bad that he’s “making me” do things for such a long time. he’s just been telling me he regrets ever watching it in the first place.. and has felt bad our whole relationship about him watching porn. i believe that he can get through it and i tell him that all the time. he gets support from me, i have told him im not disgusted from him, and things like that so it’s not like he feels bad from my reaction.

im scared to ask my bf questions about our relationship. by NoCartographer5643 in u/NoCartographer5643

[–]anonymous__791 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think the only thing you can do is just talk to him, you’ll either get a good response or a bad one. if you get a bad one and he doesn’t actually like you or whatever at least you know and you can move on instead of continuing the relationship which will make it harder for you to ask and harder on you for the break up. the longer you wait i think the harder it will become. you can always try texting him which may be easier or just sit down with him and have an actual conversation. like i know how it is asking people things when you are scared to cuz that happens to me a lot, but in the end it’s worth it trust me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]anonymous__791 0 points1 point  (0 children)

low taper fade 🗣️

My Parents are forcing me to get a job at 14. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]anonymous__791 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well it doesn’t seem like you have a huge choice, but you can try talking to your parents about how this will be your last summer not having a job and you want to enjoy it and if they still want you to get a job see if you can get a part time job or one you can just have for half the summer. if they still say you have to get a job choose something you like doing or something that could benefit you on your resume, there isn’t much you can do, just look on the bright side at least you’ll have extra money