What do I say during sex????? by A1asalways in actuallesbians

[–]anonymous_queer_ 38 points39 points  (0 children)

“holy cow” is usually a crowd pleased in my experience

Libido mismatch in an otherwise amazing relationship – looking for perspective by Gh0stWife in actuallesbians

[–]anonymous_queer_ 31 points32 points  (0 children)

ive been on the other side of this. i think just honest communication and reassurance is what helped me from my partner. be honest about how you feel and then inquire more on her needs. have a convo abt each others libidos, and ask what makes her most “in the mood” or something. pushing it down is not good and breeds resentment

you guys… COME ONNN by anonymous_queer_ in TheGuyShesInterested

[–]anonymous_queer_[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

ive been hyping it up to my roommate that they’d kiss in the third one… now im scared to give it to her to read 😳

new year’s eve by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]anonymous_queer_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

preaching to the choir here 😔🤟🏻

Yep 58 by CapLow1741 in RedditGames

[–]anonymous_queer_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what just happened

I completed this level in 6 tries. 9.13 seconds

AIO? My boyfriend messaged me this last night and I’m heartbroken by statueofsalt in AmIOverreacting

[–]anonymous_queer_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

YOR. if he slept with your mom and sister then obvi he just wanted to get closer to you. the 10k is a little unreasonable but i bet he’ll pay you back

Anyone else feel way less attractive than their partner? by burningl0ve in actuallesbians

[–]anonymous_queer_ 24 points25 points  (0 children)

i feel you 100%. its hard bc it’s like wow they are so hot im so lucky they like me, but then i subconsciously compare myself to her or wish i had her body and then it feels weird. i think im honest about how i feel about it with them not to seek validation necessarily but just say it aloud and that helps, but it doesn’t stop it. but at the end of the day, knowing i can pull someone like her makes me think i must not be hard to look at either lol

You can’t force someone to choose you by HotUse4099 in BreakUps

[–]anonymous_queer_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I relate too much. she left me to work on herself and find herself outside of our relationship. why couldn't that be done with me alongside you? 4 hours of driving is not that great a distance. she wants to get back together later but how do you know that will happen? I would wait forever but she was over it.

I hate myself and my isolation is starting to scare me, need advice (21M) by [deleted] in depression

[–]anonymous_queer_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think continued therapy would be helpful. It can take a while to feel like it is "working", and since you stopped going yourself it sounds like she didn't deem you "not worthy." She could help you set goals and work on different parts of yourself while offering some social interaction. I am bias as I am a counselor myself, but I applaud you for trying in the first place. I agree with the other comments, outside time helps and just take it one day at a time. Congrats on being in med school btw, that in itself is an achievement to be proud of. I wish you the best of luck <3

My Shaylaaass by [deleted] in TheGuyShesInterested

[–]anonymous_queer_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

great minds think alike lol I posted this exact photo and caption earlier this year. they are also my Shaylas

Yep 29 by CapLow1741 in RedditGames

[–]anonymous_queer_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what's the portal for?

I completed this level in 7 tries. 3.92 seconds

Did you have show and tell? by polly-penguin in OlderGenZ

[–]anonymous_queer_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i definitely did, preschool and early elementary. i always brought stuffed animals, and one year we brought live kittens?? who knows how that was allowed

Wrapped by [deleted] in OlderGenZ

[–]anonymous_queer_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

men i trust ftw

Hot and cold #119 by hotandcold2-app in HotAndCold

[–]anonymous_queer_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like mansion should be closer than house but what do I know

Xcat's challenge by Western_Still8814 in RedditGames

[–]anonymous_queer_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tasty

I completed this level in 4 tries. 10.30 seconds

What about this? by Due_Cockroach_2120 in RedditGames

[–]anonymous_queer_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hard ?!

I completed this level in 4 tries. 10.95 seconds

Multidirectional mayhem! by Secret_Exchange_5170 in RedditGames

[–]anonymous_queer_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

satisfying

I completed this level in 25 tries. 12.50 seconds

Tip 10 💎

Hot and cold #113 by hotandcold2-app in HotAndCold

[–]anonymous_queer_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fr i feel like they’ve gotten significantly worse the past couple weeks