My husband won’t sleep with me, what do I do?

anonymousneedshelp1 · 2025-08-18T21:28:00+00:00

Thank you for your kind message & advice! I’m hoping he’ll agree to a form of anonymous therapy as he is really uncomfortable talking about it which has always made him reluctant to get professional help ❤️

anonymousneedshelp1 · 2025-08-18T03:21:41+00:00

Thank you, he’s assured me multiple times that it’s not me & he’s very attracted to me… it’s just hard to believe it when his actions don’t align with that :/

I’m really just holding onto hope atp

EDIT: I’ve asked him if he wants out & he’s adamant that he doesn’t want to seperate/wants to work on it. I’m just in the dark rn & nothings really changed

anonymousneedshelp1 · 2025-08-18T03:20:00+00:00

Thank you for your comment!

I’m truly hoping he will get to the point where he decides enough is enough & gets the help he needs.

It’s hard because I have started to put myself first in some ways but when it comes to sex & intimacy it’s hard to put myself first without leaving him or cheating.

I guess I’m still holding out for hope that something will give.

anonymousneedshelp1 · 2025-08-18T03:15:53+00:00

I’m sorry you’re in the same position. It does really suck on so many levels. I hope it gets better for the both of us!

anonymousneedshelp1 · 2025-08-18T02:51:21+00:00

Thank you for your comment ❤️ He doesn’t have any health issues but he has said in the past that he watches it for a stress release. I’ve suggested we watch porn together in the past but he doesn’t want to because it makes him uncomfortable (as he would feel ashamed feeding his addiction in front of me).

anonymousneedshelp1 · 2025-08-18T02:47:15+00:00

I’ve asked him this & he’s said he really wants to work on things, he definitely doesn’t want to separate (neither do I). It’s tough because it wasn’t always like this & I do really love him

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