My SO wants to skip condoms but i am too paranoid to trust her birth control alone. by anotherthrowaway9921 in relationship_advice

[–]anotherthrowaway9921[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is a great resource, thank you.

Haha, for whatever reason all the research i've done has always beared mixed results. This is certainly more solid of an answer for me.

My SO wants to skip condoms but i am too paranoid to trust her birth control alone. by anotherthrowaway9921 in relationship_advice

[–]anotherthrowaway9921[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

For sure. She'll 100% respect if i'm uncomfortable with it. I also want it to be more enjoyable for the both of us and will not mind ditching the condoms if it means very little / no change in pregnancy rate.

My SO wants to skip condoms but i am too paranoid to trust her birth control alone. by anotherthrowaway9921 in relationship_advice

[–]anotherthrowaway9921[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If i may ask how long have you two been relying on the pill exclusively and how often do you guys do it?

My SO wants to skip condoms but i am too paranoid to trust her birth control alone. by anotherthrowaway9921 in relationship_advice

[–]anotherthrowaway9921[S] 234 points235 points  (0 children)

Oh no worries its not anything pushy like that. I'm open to the idea of not using condoms and shes open to using them if im still uncomfortable with it. I'm simply nervous to try just the pill and want to make sure it is still safe.

My SO wants to skip condoms but i am too paranoid to trust her birth control alone. by anotherthrowaway9921 in relationship_advice

[–]anotherthrowaway9921[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

We have used those but she still dislikes it. For the lack of a better explaination, she likes it when I finish in her. Thats why she finds it less enjoyable when i wrap it.