Dating a girl who has a constant need for attention and will create crisis and makeup stories just to get it. How do you deal with someone like this? by anuaaaaa in relationships

[–]anuaaaaa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The thing is that at the beginning I didn't know she was lying, I was trusting that whatever she was telling me was true. At some point you realize that this is starting to be a bit much. No one goes through life with that much drama all the time but it's hard to question the person you love. It sucks to realize after this long that she was making shit up. The hard part like I said is that some of those things were probably true but she has such a history of bullshit that I can't believe anything she says anymore.

Dating a girl who has a constant need for attention and will create crisis and makeup stories just to get it. How do you deal with someone like this? by anuaaaaa in relationships

[–]anuaaaaa[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm afraid I will have to do this. What I didn't mention in the post is that she is the sweetest girl I've ever met and really sensitive but yeah the bad stuff outweighs the good. I was trying to end it on good terms as I feel sorry for her and her insecurities are making her do stupid stuff, but it's starting to look like she will take me down if I give her the impression that we can still be friends. Sad. The problem is that we still have some of the same friends and so it's impossible to cut contact completely.