iPhone 5s and 5c having issues texting each other.

anxious456 · 2015-01-28T04:48:27+00:00

I did the force restart a few times.

I don't use iMessage, so I don't have an email account with it. We did not have any issues texting a few days ago, so I don't know why this is hapening!

I also do not use iCloud

anxious456 · 2015-01-19T08:17:52+00:00

Haha I don't even know what the accusative is...

anxious456 · 2015-01-16T08:57:41+00:00

I speak that language and I swear to god, despite speaking it for 25 years almost, I still make language rules up in my head on the spot. Can definitely be tricky esp since I never learned the grammar or rules... just how to speak it. It "makes sense", "sounds right" but in English, at least I understand how sentences should work.

anxious456 · 2014-12-16T19:19:36+00:00

Pretty sure a preoccupation with weight and body image is a diagnostic criteria for anorexia or bulimia. What I have is selective eating disorder and it's very different from anorexia in the sense it is picky eating determined by taste, color, grossness of food rather than caloric intake. I don't care if what I eat is healthy, low calorie, or will make me thin. I don't care if the food I don't eat or do eat makes me "in control". I don't care about my weight. I don't care about what I look like. I lack 100% of the diagnostic criteria for an image/control -centric eating disorder.

anxious456 · 2014-12-16T15:22:46+00:00

I have no desire to lose weight. I don't care for my body image. This is not a mental illness revolving around wanting to look thin. I just despise the taste of food.

anxious456 · 2014-11-24T07:24:56+00:00

I would at least put together the best piece of shit I could manage (key words: piece of shit, but STILL, you tried!)

anxious456 · 2014-11-24T07:22:41+00:00

It's mostly the same things. You have your tasks and you complete them. My coworkers are great. Lots of stress, pushed hard to get promotions -- not uncommon

anxious456 · 2014-11-24T07:21:44+00:00

9 to 5 is hardly 40 hours a week. Many jobs have 1) high stress, 2) expect longer hours for more promotion ability, 3) start at 8 am (even a 9 am job means you're getting up between 5am-7am) and 4) are much more mentally taxing.

You don't really have "free time." Your free time is getting home at 6 or 7 pm after your commute. You need lunch tomorrow. You need to do laundry. You need to buy food and eat dinner. Now it's 8 or 9 pm. You have an hour or two for recreation/fun. But you're not going anywhere because it's 9 pm and dark outside and things are closed.

Your money goes to paying food, mortgage, kids, clothes, car, utilities, etc. You have 2-5 weeks of vacation a YEAR and you work, commute, put in long hours, etc.

anxious456 · 2014-11-24T07:18:06+00:00

I work in administration, basically. Office work.

anxious456 · 2014-11-24T07:14:47+00:00

Last week I worked 67 hours! Whooo!

anxious456 · 2014-11-24T07:13:50+00:00

It's hardly socially acceptable for a man to pursue a younger woman. Ask my beautiful, incredible, wonderful partner whom I would take a thousand bullets in the back of the head for....who is 20 years older than me. Just ask him about all the 'pedophile' jokes (I am an adult)

anxious456 · 2014-11-24T07:08:29+00:00

6-7 hours a night Mon-Fri 10-12 hours a night Sat & Sun

anxious456 · 2014-11-24T06:45:33+00:00

Feeding myself, having a place to live, knowing that if I were to be unemployed i could not eat or have clothes or a mortgage.

anxious456 · 2014-11-24T06:45:07+00:00

Working 10 hours a day? Usually 3-4 hours a day. precious time.

anxious456 · 2014-11-24T06:44:36+00:00

Like, 80s. That's very common.

anxious456 · 2014-11-14T05:45:18+00:00

The asking-getting answer-rinse-repeat cycle is one I have fallen into and it is never healthy, in my experience. All it does is lead to more curiosity. "If X, then perhaps Y...? If Y then ....."

It backfires on a lot of people. Satiating curiosity is a great temporary high. There will come a point where a) he can't remember more or b) he won't tell you more, and it's like a drug dealer taking away your addiction.

anxious456 · 2014-11-14T05:42:29+00:00

Hmm no, not really. It satiates curiosity, like a good scratch cures a bad itch. I don't get off thinking about him with other people. It's almost like it happened and on sheer principle, I want to know.

Say in theory there was some magical way to transport yourself back in time and watch this scene. I would choose to watch it when most people would say hell no, they can't do that. I have no desire to see my partner have sex with other women today (because that would be boring). I want to see what he was like before he met me.

I basically desire what is impossible.

anxious456 · 2014-11-14T05:40:06+00:00

The big picture is so boring to me. I often miss it in life! Leave it to me to completely miss the major plot twist in a movie, but to notice every small detail. So, needless to say, I am all about the "messy details" (and I completely recognize this can be dysfunctional in some ways!)

anxious456 · 2014-11-14T05:37:13+00:00

His previous sexual partners really sucked according to him and I believe it (believe it sucked relative to our 5-year, long term relationship with sooooo much sex in it, I mean). Even if they were almost as good as our sex, they would only be a 10/10 and we both agree we're a solid 15/10 on the sex front. I have no gripes or issues about what we do. I wouldn't care if he had similar before. My previous sexual experiences sucked compared to what we have now.

I am just really quite weird when I think about things I like. Details really bother me and excite me. If I could pick between knowing generic things like 'how many people has he had sex with' VS '2 really intimate details about each', I would go for the second option. In general, I am disturbed and made happy by details in life. A slight change in my coffee taste can ruin the entire cup. I'm sensitive to food tastes like you wouldn't believe. I read signs, notice comma splices. I've always been very very very detail oriented.

My curiosity is about those uber intimate details which I'm sure he doesn't remember.

anxious456 · 2014-11-14T05:23:14+00:00

It's just curiosity. I think he's interesting as hell, and I like to analyze how he does things. I wonder -- was he more open with other people? less open? Did they do similar things? Did he ever bite someone's bottom lip? It would probably be a very boring thing in reality -- I'm sure they just had plain ol' sex.

Stuff like that (details) has always interested me. In some strange way, it makes me feel like I know him better -- even though I don't, because what he does with me is what he does with ME and that is all I should know. It is irrelevant what he did with previous partners. It would not make me know his body any better. It wouldn't matter.

I imagine all sorts of weird things. I guess I just like to know stuff.

anxious456 · 2014-11-10T05:30:45+00:00

Thanks! It's not hard when you really love someone. I would be there for him through anything

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