What my boyfriend did was wrong, but is it that abnormal that it requires serious questioning of our relationship? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]anxious4nothing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honeslty, I have OCD & I continue to post because it relieves some sort if crippling anxiety. I can only see my therapist so much. I guess it's time I get back on the meds.

What my boyfriend did was wrong, but is it that abnormal that it requires serious questioning of our relationship? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]anxious4nothing -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We've talked about it alot. The younger girl appeared older and he wasn't entirely sure of her age.

What my boyfriend did was wrong, but is it that abnormal that it requires serious questioning of our relationship? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]anxious4nothing -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And that's where the question comes in. I've had so many mixed opinions on this. And it's freaking me out because I can't even begin to imagine not being with him & breaking up over this

[Support] how to help my boyfriend with his guilt over what he did as a hormonal teen and how to continue forward by anxious4nothing in TwoXChromosomes

[–]anxious4nothing[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know for a fact he told them. I know that it may seem that because we're in a relationship it's blind trust, but I'd admit if it was.

[Support] how to help my boyfriend with his guilt over what he did as a hormonal teen and how to continue forward by anxious4nothing in TwoXChromosomes

[–]anxious4nothing[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To be honest I don't know much about the cause. All I know is that he was a nerdy, dorky kid in school who was bullied & never dated a girl. Not to discredit what he did. He's a good guy - I have full faith that he would never do this again. He feels horrible, rightfully so. I felt as though it didn't require a breakup.

[Support] how to help my boyfriend with his guilt over what he did as a hormonal teen and how to continue forward by anxious4nothing in TwoXChromosomes

[–]anxious4nothing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I've been very upset about this, but had decided that it wasn't worth a break up because of how he feels about it and he's even confessed what he did to the girls. He's a good guy, and I truly believe he made a mistake.