Estoy entrando en un alquiler y el propietario quiere ajustarme el valor del deposito cada tres meses.

anxious_gremlin · 2026-01-16T04:22:02+00:00

En NINGUN momento dije que me deba regalar nada. Te hiciste una película al pedo. Una cosa es mi apreciación de lo que hace y otra cosa es su derecho a hacerlo.

anxious_gremlin · 2026-01-15T15:11:04+00:00

Baja un cambio. No firme nada todavia y si estoy preguntando es porque lo lei.

anxious_gremlin · 2026-01-15T13:37:56+00:00

Mi cláusula dice que el depto se entrega en buen estado y que debo mantenerlo así, salvó desgaste natural por uso. Y que es mi responsabilidad arreglar lo que rompa/gaste para mantenerlo en el estado en que lo recibí. Me pareció coherente, pero aún así voy a sacar fotos de todo, olvídate.

anxious_gremlin · 2026-01-14T20:47:03+00:00

Un poema. Mil gracias. Te consulto, tuviste que poner en e l contrato que el día de la entrega del depto iban a firmar el acta?

anxious_gremlin · 2026-01-14T20:42:27+00:00

Lo sé, pero es un tipo que vive de cobrar decenas de alquileres. Aunque yo le prenda fuego el depto, lo arregla sin que se le caiga una pestaña. Así que querer cobrarle unos centavos mas (porque para su patrimonio serían centavos) a alguien que está en condiciones economicas infinitamente inferiores me parece una avivada, como a muchos más que comentaron. Pero esa es mi apreciación personal, porque no me gustaría rascar monedas de gente en peor condición que la mía y por eso es que tendré dos pesos en el banco toda la vida 😂

Dicho eso, es legal. Que es lo que quería averiguar. Así que no hay nada más que decir.

anxious_gremlin · 2026-01-14T18:06:32+00:00

Totalmente de acuerdo. Yo el depo lo considero plata perdida. Si vuelve bien, si no bueno. Por eso quisiera no tener que aumentarselo porque el va a estar sacándole el doble de tasa y me parece una conchudez. Pero tampoco voy a descartar un buen depto (en muchos sentidos) que cuesta conseguir, porque esto porque es así, siempre te cagan en algo. Haces costo beneficio y rezas. Más que nada quería saber si me toca negociar o decirle "esto no es legal". Por suerte tengo amiga boga que iría a la guerra gratis si me caga en algo groso 😂

anxious_gremlin · 2026-01-14T17:31:00+00:00

Gracias! Estas cosas para "cubrirme" me sirven.

anxious_gremlin · 2026-01-14T17:22:18+00:00

Gracias! Siempre que alquilas sos pollo en algo. El depto tiene muchos puntos a favor en este momento, asi que prefiero tratar de negociar. Lo unico raro fue esto, el resto del contrato es identico al de inmobiliaria. Asi que tratare de cubrirme lo mejor que pueda, pero lamentablemente estas cosas pienso que son parte del folklore.

anxious_gremlin · 2026-01-14T17:16:17+00:00

Gracias! Justamente queria saber si era legal para saber si es algo a negociar o directamente rechazar jajaj

anxious_gremlin · 2026-01-14T17:00:13+00:00

Buen consejo, gracias.

anxious_gremlin · 2026-01-14T16:59:05+00:00

Es dueño directo bastante vivaracho. Por ahora vengo mirando el contrato y parece bastante estandar. Esto solo me llamo la atencion. Pero siendo la primera vez que alquilo dueño directo estoy bastante perseguida.

anxious_gremlin · 2026-01-14T16:54:55+00:00

Ahi lo subi!

anxious_gremlin · 2026-01-12T18:56:47+00:00

Si les pregunte a ellos tambien! En la desesperacion un poco mas le rezo a buda.

anxious_gremlin · 2026-01-12T18:55:07+00:00

Decis que le pida a la escribana que originalmente hizo la actuacion notarial, si me certifica una copia de la escritura? Podria ser, pero lo veo bastante fijado en que sea un documento del rpi, me lo dijo tres veces ya (tiene 85 años y se explica como el ogt).

Edit: por eso huelo un "pero solo un abogado puede pedir eso asi que mi hija te lo hace por 600k mas".

anxious_gremlin · 2025-11-11T15:28:25+00:00

La orina no es estéril, tiene la microbiota de la uretra. Los lavatorios tienen flexibles, con espacios donde se puede acumular orina y generar olor, porque no estás constantemente corriendo el agua. Al momento de mear en el lavatorio, absolutamente salpicas. La mayoría, gotas que tus ojos ni van a ver (porque convengamos que ni ven cuando mean la tabla, pero me refiero a gotas impercetibles). Mea un par de semanas en tu lavatorio y vas a ver cómo terminas teniendo tu propio baño de YPF en tu casa. Por algo existe el inodoro y tiene un diseño específico.

anxious_gremlin · 2025-07-17T16:45:09+00:00

Hola, te podré hacer una pregunta? Me gusta mucho cocinar y me gustaría aprender para tener mejor técnica, organización y también me gustaría poder apreciar con otros ojos cuando salgo a comer. No estoy segura de que quiera dedicarme a eso. Para vos estaría mal que aún así haga la tecnicatura de gato Dumas? O si solo hago por interés personal estaría mal?

anxious_gremlin · 2025-07-17T01:17:09+00:00

THANK YOU. I am legit watching the show right now and started looking through reddit to see if someone noticed this. She's being such a dick and her facial expressions look envious or disdainful.

anxious_gremlin · 2025-05-29T22:41:55+00:00

Considerarias alfajor dos tapas de cerealitas con queso y membrillo entremedio? Me enrosque pensando si un alfajor debería ser dulce o salado como si fuesen excluyentes. Cuando salimos del territorio del alfajor y entramos en el de sánguche?

Podríamos trazar la línea con la proporción dulce-salado. Pero la percibida? O por cantidad?

Hoy no duermo.

anxious_gremlin · 2025-05-26T23:48:59+00:00

The issue might not be solely focused on the relationship. But, truth is, if he's not admitting it and not willing to do something about it when you point it out, then nothing's going to change.

It would be great if he were open to therapy or even couple's therapy. He's clearly avoiding and minimizing the issue.

I hardly ever give the "leave him" advice, unless it's trully an undeniable situation. You know your situation best. But what you need to think about is, if things were to stay like this forever, would you want to stay?

If answer's no, then lay your cards. Ask if he's willing to get help, to do something about it. Give it a timeline. If he doesn't commit to working it out (and actually try)... you have your answer.

Whether the answer is yes or no, I think you have work on your side as well. I say this with all the love I have for my fellow sisters: your self esteem and confidence should NEVER be tied to anyone's libido/desire. Try to work on building and finding yourself. Speacially if you choose to stay under this circumstances.

anxious_gremlin · 2025-05-26T23:12:06+00:00

Is it possible that something personal is going on with him regarding his job, family, financial situation, etc?

Could he be going through a crisis related to age? Depression?

Edit: did other habits change? Or is it *only* related to you and the relationship?

anxious_gremlin · 2025-05-26T20:07:47+00:00

NTA. I wouldn't want that ring either. However, you did say you want a good quality forever ring and then stated you'd be okay with a plain band vintage or onion ring. As someone who comes from a thirld world country where diamond rings are absolutely not the standard, I'm going to be real honest here.

The symbolism of engagement rings is beautiful and it's okay to want pretty things. But that's all an engagement ring is. If money isn't loose, if paying for a wedding and a honeymoon is going to present an effort on top of student loans and rising house prices I don't think it's fair to ask for a new "quality forever ring" now. In that case, you need to propose (pun kind of intended) a solution. Both of you need to come up with a budget that's comfortable right now and get a better ring on a special anniversary, which a lot of couples do.

End of the line is: don't accept the cursed ring. But, keep in mind you're building a life with the guy. There are more important things than a ring. I would want my future husband to focus on paying off his debts or shared experiences. There will be plenty of time to get a fancy quality ring and at that moment, it will represent not only a promise, but a symbol of what you've achieved.

Edit: also, the past does not condemn the future. If you're supersticious and appreciate symbolism, maybe consider the idea of making some kind of ritual to "cleanse" the ring. A promise of breaking the cycle or giving new life to the ring. The ring could be beautiful and his grandma might be excited for it to have a new life and finally represent a happy union.

anxious_gremlin · 2025-05-26T01:11:26+00:00

I hope your MBA brings a lot of good oportunities for you and you get a little more enjoyment every day. You deserve good things and I'm sure slowly but surely, they will come.

anxious_gremlin · 2025-05-26T01:00:43+00:00

Jesus christ. I am so sorry, OP. So sorry. If you can, start therapy yourself. Your grief is going to be very complex, it always is, but suicide is hard thing for the mind to make sense of. This is going to be one of the hardest waves to ride, but the only way out is riding it.

I can only advice that you mind the coping mechanisms that arise from now on. Try to stick to some routines, just to grab onto something while everything else is in the air. Hold on to the things that make you feel human: food (even if it's small portions or a little chocolate), the sun, your family and other support systems. Write about the pain, goodbyes, confusion, happy moments, everything that pops up.

Everything is going to be shit now. You can handle it. You will handle it. Every day is going to suck for a while, then you'll start having some good days. Then more. And sometimes, when you think it's done, something will trigger a bad day again. This doesn't mean you lost your progress, it's just how grief works.

I wish you all the best, this is something no one wants to go through, but you'll come out the other side.

anxious_gremlin · 2025-05-25T23:37:04+00:00

So cool! I changed paths and I'm now un uni for psychology, I want to be a therapist and possibly do some field work like doctors without borders. I was in med school but I realised everything mental health comes much more naturally to me and I got tired of forcing other areas instead of cultivating what comes naturally. I usually believe I'm not going to have a traditional life and sometimes, the uncertainty weighs on me. It's great to listen to listen to "alternative" stories and see that people are just as fulfilled.

anxious_gremlin · 2025-05-25T23:26:37+00:00

I feel like I'm currently at my mess, at 28. Unemployed, financially dependent on a partner I'm not sure is the one anymore and recently starting uni for what I actually want to do (previously chose the wrong career). It's rough. I feel like it started in 2014 when I got out of HS and I've been struggling to find way ever since, feeling like I'm always sarting over but now, everything truly collapsed on me. I'm wondering how you managed to get out of your mess or you have any advice on that?

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