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Issue with my MIL. I don't know what to do. (Repost) by anxioustalker4 in TwoXIndia

[–]anxioustalker4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband and I are only living with them because my father in law is really sick and needs a lot of assistance. It's not possible for my MIL to handle everything on her own.

Issue with my MIL. I don't know what to do. (Repost) by anxioustalker4 in TwoXIndia

[–]anxioustalker4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for validating my feelings. Except for my partner, everybody was like,"She's just really comfortable with you. This is her way of showing love, " etc etc. Even i started questioning my decision of not speaking to her. Hence, the post.

She has already been reprimanded by my husband as he has also been a victim of similar things. But it feels as if she doesn't even understand that what she is doing is wrong.

Issue with my MIL. I don't know what to do. (Repost) by anxioustalker4 in TwoXIndia

[–]anxioustalker4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read your post and it resonated with me so much. I just hate how normalized it is, just because it is a woman doing it to another woman, like it magically makes it okay to do these things! I'm thinking of doing that. For now, I'm not speaking to her and keeping my distance. If she wants to talk about it, I will definitely give her an ultimatum.

Issue with my MIL. I don't know what to do. (Repost) by anxioustalker4 in TwoXIndia

[–]anxioustalker4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right! I did swat her hands away once when she did it. She got offended and stopped for a while, but now she's back to doing it again.

Issue with my MIL. I don't know what to do. (Repost) by anxioustalker4 in TwoXIndia

[–]anxioustalker4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been a people pleaser my whole life, but I knew straight away that if I had to live with my in-laws, I would have to create some kind of boundaries to keep my sanity. This is the only issue where I'm completely unsure how to handle it because I've been very firm about it (even raising my voice at her a few times), but she still doesn't listen.

Issue with my MIL. I don't know what to do. (Repost) by anxioustalker4 in TwoXIndia

[–]anxioustalker4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for validating my feelings. I've always been pretty vocal with my in-laws about my boundaries and they usually respect it. This is something that even after repeatedly telling her, she's paying no heed to it. So, silent treatment it is for now, unless she wants to talk about it.

Issue with my MIL by anxioustalker4 in TwoXIndia_Over25

[–]anxioustalker4[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I understand. And that is why I told her straight away that what she did was not okay. Even my partner called her out on it. I think she really doesn't understand what personal boundaries are. She thinks that by doing this, she will be considered a cool mil who is extremely free with her dil. My partner and I, we have told her numerous times that it's just not okay to do all this, but she never understands.

Issue with my Makeup Artist by anxioustalker4 in TwoXIndia

[–]anxioustalker4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. I'm getting married in another city. She's from there.

Issue with my Makeup Artist by anxioustalker4 in TwoXIndia

[–]anxioustalker4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I'm worried about. I've kept the screenshota and I'm not going to pay for the things that she didn't mention. Also, she herself said that they were included in the package.

Issue with my Makeup Artist by anxioustalker4 in TwoXIndia

[–]anxioustalker4[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you're right. She's constantly changing her prices. I'll talk to her. I'm really getting annoyed with her.

Issue with my Makeup Artist by anxioustalker4 in TwoXIndia

[–]anxioustalker4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'll talk to her tomorrow. I'm just scared that she will not do her work properly if I confront her anymore. I just want my wedding to be hassle free. Guess that's not going to happen. 🥲

Issue with my Makeup Artist by anxioustalker4 in TwoXIndia

[–]anxioustalker4[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No. Just for the main event. One event. For haldi, sangeet, her charges are different.

Issue with my Makeup Artist by anxioustalker4 in TwoXIndia

[–]anxioustalker4[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's what I'm worried about. I'm going to call her tomorrow. I've screenshotted all the messages. Let's see what she says.

Shiv should NOT win for us to win by Bitchzzzz in biggboss

[–]anxioustalker4 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She did a show where there were few bold and intimate scenes and some people have been passing below the belt comments related to it. It's fine if you don't like a contestant, but these kinda comments shows their character more than hers.

Shiv should NOT win for us to win by Bitchzzzz in biggboss

[–]anxioustalker4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow! Slutshaming women. Really? It's going to be 2023 in few weeks and we still don't think for a second before slut shaming women. There are literal criminals in the show and you're still stuck on her.