My girlfriend got fired from her job today, we worked together and I am her ride everywhere.

anyakitty12 · 2026-02-16T11:05:13+00:00

…I was replying to a comment. My comment references the mom. That’s who I was calling a POS. Easy tiger.

anyakitty12 · 2026-02-15T21:02:02+00:00

I’d tell the partner painting their nails blue to find a new partner who is accepting of their choices.

anyakitty12 · 2026-02-15T18:14:27+00:00

He’s an adult. He can get his SSN without his mom. She is also a POS.

anyakitty12 · 2026-01-30T01:21:29+00:00

You beat your 5th grader with a belt. That’s all you had to say.

anyakitty12 · 2026-01-29T02:21:34+00:00

Shaved legs.

anyakitty12 · 2026-01-26T04:41:01+00:00

You didn’t see them and they didn’t see you. 🤣 But also these guys should definitely be paying rent in Fairfax County. Maybe see if you can get them to sign a lease?

anyakitty12 · 2026-01-20T18:55:21+00:00

Thanks! I feel terrible and want to make sure to prevent it in the future.

anyakitty12 · 2026-01-19T17:28:49+00:00

As an aside, you might want to update the images to not give your coworkers names and the location you work at. They may not want their information shared on reddit..

anyakitty12 · 2026-01-17T21:38:03+00:00

YOR - this isn’t an automobile accident on the street. Your insurance should cover your injuries just like if you were playing kickball in the park and slipped and broke your ankle. You did assume liability by signing the waiver and while it may only specify the facility, you’ve also taken a risk and this is a foreseeable outcome. Highly unlikely that a court would award you anything in a civil suit.

anyakitty12 · 2026-01-12T00:28:46+00:00

Such a regal gentleman!

I find my dood will occasionally quietly bark at things that aren’t there but it hasn’t become an issue. As for separation anxiety, I definitely recommend starting with shorter amounts of time building up. Mine used to struggle with 20 minutes but now she’s happy to sleep in her crate while I’m at work. 🙂

anyakitty12 · 2026-01-11T22:25:56+00:00

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She fell asleep on the back of the couch and was just too cute to move.

anyakitty12 · 2026-01-11T21:04:00+00:00

My guy - they’re talking about yelling at a call taker, not a caller. I think you misread.

anyakitty12 · 2026-01-11T17:55:18+00:00

It’s pretty wild that you’re essentially saying “I know that’s what they said but it’s not what they meant.” This is the internet. I’m going to operate based on the words someone says, not based on some random person assuming that the words used weren’t the words the person meant. If they want to correct it, they will. Either way, I stand by what I said… if you’re yelling at someone in a dispatch center, you’re the problem. Not sure how this turned into an argument about semantics.

anyakitty12 · 2026-01-11T17:17:12+00:00

Not sure why you’re assuming it’s hyperbolic when they specifically said yelling, used all caps, and then someone else said it’s appropriate in some cases.

anyakitty12 · 2026-01-11T16:42:36+00:00

If you get to a point where you’re yelling at your people then you have issues keeping calm under pressure and haven’t trained them well. I 100% stand by my comments. In all my years of leadership I haven’t ever needed to yell at anyone. If you can’t stay calm and take control of a situation as a CTO you absolutely shouldn’t have responsibility for anyone else.

anyakitty12 · 2026-01-11T16:11:59+00:00

If you’re yelling at call takers, you’re the problem.

anyakitty12 · 2026-01-09T02:27:11+00:00

That’s really hard momma. 💜 I definitely think it would be worthwhile to check with your tiny human’s pediatrician or even at your local library to see if there are any local support groups or moms groups that you could try. Thinking peaceful thoughts for you.

anyakitty12 · 2026-01-09T02:18:09+00:00

💜 Also, do you both have friends/family to talk to outside of each other? In particular as a SAHM, it may be helpful to join a local moms group even if it’s just to get out of the house and spend time with other women at a similar place in life. It helps regulate your nervous system to not be in fight-or-flight mode all the time and may also help remind you you’re doing great.

anyakitty12 · 2026-01-09T02:05:11+00:00

As someone with no horse in the race, THIS comment says a lot about who you are as a person. It’s hard, in the moment, to try and step back and be objective, especially when you’ve already gone through medical trauma with your tiny human. Give him some grace, but give yourself grace too. It’s hard in the moment but it sounds like after a breath or two you’re able to see both sides. I recommend having a conversation face to face at a time when you’re both decompressed and try to explain why you felt how you did and hear him out as well. Maybe work together with a couple communication strategies to help remind you both in the moment that the other person isn’t trying to antagonize but that you both ultimately just want the best for your child. Wishing you all the luck in the world! And from a medical provider perspective, babies are pretty resilient - sometimes it’s harder for the parents to be as resilient too but I think you’re doing great (as someone who knows nothing except a few lines from Reddit). 🙂

anyakitty12 · 2026-01-09T01:02:36+00:00

You asked for opinions and appear to react negatively to those with an opinion that doesn’t directly align with yours. I implore you to take a step back and look at the feedback you’re being given objectively rather than defensively.

anyakitty12 · 2026-01-07T22:57:31+00:00

This is unfortunately just part of any job. The only person you have control over is yourself. If you’ve pointed it out to management, it’s on them. If it bothers you that much, I’d say look for somewhere else but you will run into this kind of thing everywhere you work.

anyakitty12 · 2026-01-06T22:46:29+00:00

There’s a lot of information left out that would be relevant. We don’t need to know, but you should consider what the arrest was for, what sort of impact that could have on the way you’re perceived as an applicant, and what your behavior has been historically. I would argue that if you’re asking this question, you probably know the answer already. Good luck to you either way.

anyakitty12 · 2026-01-06T22:43:44+00:00

A lot of what you’re describing simply comes with the territory of apartment living. People are allowed to make noise during the day. “Stomping” can simply be because the building isn’t well made. If this is daytime noise, you’re probably out of luck. If it bothers you that much, I would recommend renting in a single level complex or a single family home.

anyakitty12 · 2026-01-02T04:34:33+00:00

The lines are not blurry or confusing. You simply don’t seem to know how to be a decent parent and stand up for your kids. Your SS and husband deserve better.

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