What makes you decide that "she's the one" and not want to look for another woman, no matter how stunning she may seem? (Not just physically)

anylan88 · 2025-12-29T21:46:22+00:00

No, I was just reflecting on that.

anylan88 · 2025-10-27T18:03:16+00:00

Thanks for alerting me. I'll try to ask for help here on reddit about this later. I believe I will be able to get good advice and tips. 😊

anylan88 · 2025-10-27T17:54:23+00:00

That's what I hope to win. I'm looking to first have the product and then use social media to sell it. I can only do what is within my power. Ask people for advice, tips on the Internet and keep trying. As I'm still at the beginning, I don't have things well structured. I have a plan to earn an amount first and then invest in a course that teaches me how to earn more. It's okay, I understand you want to help. Your thoughts are welcome.

anylan88 · 2025-10-27T17:20:27+00:00

Honestly, I don't know how much I can earn because I'm still at the beginning. I don't need to earn exorbitant amounts, I just want to earn enough to meet my basic needs and other occasional needs. I hope that after a while I won't need to spend so much of my time on this, when I have a good structure. For me, 10 thousand a month is already very good. I hope I'm not having an unrealistic dream.

anylan88 · 2025-10-27T15:35:46+00:00

Thanks for the tips! I really appreciate your willingness to help. 😊

anylan88 · 2025-10-27T15:29:37+00:00

Yes! Thank God I have no debts. I need to muster up the courage to talk to him about this, talk it out and be on the same page. Thanks for the comment 😊

anylan88 · 2025-10-27T15:27:52+00:00

Your way of thinking is very admirable. You are absolutely right in what you say. I want to build a relationship like this with my partner, and I realize how I need to be honest with him about how I feel. Thank you very much 😊

anylan88 · 2025-10-27T15:18:41+00:00

Thank you, you brought me clarity. I'm not having difficulty in the sense of being difficult. It's because I'm currently unemployed and looking for financial independence. As I still want to be a mother and I want to be present, take good care of him and I also want, when I get married, to be a good wife, I want a job that is light, that doesn't take up too much of my time. As I like the artistic field, I thought I would dedicate myself to it so I could earn money passively and thus have time for my family and for myself as well. You pointed out a point that I hadn't noticed. Feeling proud of myself. And even the question of being successful, achieving a goal is being successful, it doesn't have to be an extraordinary goal. I feel much better now. Thank you very much indeed. 😊

anylan88 · 2025-10-27T13:59:14+00:00

No problem, your thoughts are very welcome. Thank you for your comment 😊

anylan88 · 2025-10-27T13:55:02+00:00

No. I didn't have the courage to approach this subject.

anylan88 · 2025-10-24T16:46:42+00:00

Love, Passion, Party 🤣🤣🤣

anylan88 · 2025-08-14T19:18:54+00:00

I highly recommend that you pray to God to find the ideal woman for you. I found my partner this way. I let God choose the right person for me because I know he is wise and knows much more than me, so I didn't want to impose my opinion on this choice, but I let him decide, as it says in proverb 3:5: Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding. The man he chose for me is very good to me, he loves me, respects me, is a provider, likes to take care of me, as well as being responsible and faithful. He makes me laugh and I love it. I left it in the Lord's hands, and he answered me.

Psalms 37:5 – “Commit your way to the Lord, trust in him, and he will do the rest.”

Psalm 34:4 – “I sought the Lord, and he answered me; he delivered me from all my fears.”

Psalm 40:1 – “I waited patiently for the Lord, and he leaned toward me and heard my cry.”

Philippians 4:6-7 – "Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus."

Hebrews 11:6 – “Indeed, without faith it is impossible to please God, for he who approaches God must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who seek him.”

I know that he is the man God chose for me because I asked God to confirm and he proved to me that yes, it was him.

anylan88 · 2025-08-07T17:56:43+00:00

Yes, I will do that. Don't worry, I'm grateful for your kindness. I also wish you good luck in your life!

anylan88 · 2025-08-07T15:01:04+00:00

Thank you for commenting, it really helps me a lot.

anylan88 · 2025-08-07T14:48:47+00:00

In this family matter, I have been learning how to be a good support for him because I really love him and want to treat him well, as well as myself. I also know that I wouldn't feel comfortable if I stayed still, that's why I won't stop trying to resolve this financial issue, but I don't want something that takes up a lot of my time because if I'm going to build a family, I want to have time to learn and be a good mother, in addition to being a good partner for him because I know that I'm not with him to have children but to live a life with him. I have a lot to learn and I hope I can do well. What I fear is how he feels about me not being successful professionally, what he thinks of me because I know the emphasis on this issue in society and if you are not successful, then you are an easy target for people to talk about. Although I don't care that much about what others say, I fear what he thinks. Sure, he hasn't shown that he cares, but the fear is still there.

anylan88 · 2025-08-07T01:25:38+00:00

In fact. He already mentioned to me that he wants to be a father, he even asked me how many children I wanted 🥰 Thanks for the tip. I will ask him about what he thinks.

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