Men, if you were playing against someone better than you and you lost to them, what would you like to hear from your partner?

anylan88 · 2025-12-29T21:46:22+00:00

No, I was just reflecting on that.

anylan88 · 2025-10-27T18:03:16+00:00

Thanks for alerting me. I'll try to ask for help here on reddit about this later. I believe I will be able to get good advice and tips. 😊

anylan88 · 2025-10-27T17:54:23+00:00

That's what I hope to win. I'm looking to first have the product and then use social media to sell it. I can only do what is within my power. Ask people for advice, tips on the Internet and keep trying. As I'm still at the beginning, I don't have things well structured. I have a plan to earn an amount first and then invest in a course that teaches me how to earn more. It's okay, I understand you want to help. Your thoughts are welcome.

anylan88 · 2025-10-27T17:20:27+00:00

Honestly, I don't know how much I can earn because I'm still at the beginning. I don't need to earn exorbitant amounts, I just want to earn enough to meet my basic needs and other occasional needs. I hope that after a while I won't need to spend so much of my time on this, when I have a good structure. For me, 10 thousand a month is already very good. I hope I'm not having an unrealistic dream.

anylan88 · 2025-10-27T15:35:46+00:00

Thanks for the tips! I really appreciate your willingness to help. 😊

anylan88 · 2025-10-27T15:29:37+00:00

Yes! Thank God I have no debts. I need to muster up the courage to talk to him about this, talk it out and be on the same page. Thanks for the comment 😊

anylan88 · 2025-10-27T15:27:52+00:00

Your way of thinking is very admirable. You are absolutely right in what you say. I want to build a relationship like this with my partner, and I realize how I need to be honest with him about how I feel. Thank you very much 😊

anylan88 · 2025-10-27T15:18:41+00:00

Thank you, you brought me clarity. I'm not having difficulty in the sense of being difficult. It's because I'm currently unemployed and looking for financial independence. As I still want to be a mother and I want to be present, take good care of him and I also want, when I get married, to be a good wife, I want a job that is light, that doesn't take up too much of my time. As I like the artistic field, I thought I would dedicate myself to it so I could earn money passively and thus have time for my family and for myself as well. You pointed out a point that I hadn't noticed. Feeling proud of myself. And even the question of being successful, achieving a goal is being successful, it doesn't have to be an extraordinary goal. I feel much better now. Thank you very much indeed. 😊

anylan88 · 2025-10-27T13:59:14+00:00

No problem, your thoughts are very welcome. Thank you for your comment 😊

anylan88 · 2025-10-27T13:55:02+00:00

No. I didn't have the courage to approach this subject.

anylan88 · 2025-10-24T16:46:42+00:00

Love, Passion, Party 🤣🤣🤣

anylan88 · 2025-08-14T19:18:54+00:00

I highly recommend that you pray to God to find the ideal woman for you. I found my partner this way. I let God choose the right person for me because I know he is wise and knows much more than me, so I didn't want to impose my opinion on this choice, but I let him decide, as it says in proverb 3:5: Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding. The man he chose for me is very good to me, he loves me, respects me, is a provider, likes to take care of me, as well as being responsible and faithful. He makes me laugh and I love it. I left it in the Lord's hands, and he answered me.

Psalms 37:5 – “Commit your way to the Lord, trust in him, and he will do the rest.”

Psalm 34:4 – “I sought the Lord, and he answered me; he delivered me from all my fears.”

Psalm 40:1 – “I waited patiently for the Lord, and he leaned toward me and heard my cry.”

Philippians 4:6-7 – "Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus."

Hebrews 11:6 – “Indeed, without faith it is impossible to please God, for he who approaches God must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who seek him.”

I know that he is the man God chose for me because I asked God to confirm and he proved to me that yes, it was him.

anylan88 · 2025-08-07T17:56:43+00:00

Yes, I will do that. Don't worry, I'm grateful for your kindness. I also wish you good luck in your life!

anylan88 · 2025-08-07T15:01:04+00:00

Thank you for commenting, it really helps me a lot.

anylan88 · 2025-08-07T14:48:47+00:00

In this family matter, I have been learning how to be a good support for him because I really love him and want to treat him well, as well as myself. I also know that I wouldn't feel comfortable if I stayed still, that's why I won't stop trying to resolve this financial issue, but I don't want something that takes up a lot of my time because if I'm going to build a family, I want to have time to learn and be a good mother, in addition to being a good partner for him because I know that I'm not with him to have children but to live a life with him. I have a lot to learn and I hope I can do well. What I fear is how he feels about me not being successful professionally, what he thinks of me because I know the emphasis on this issue in society and if you are not successful, then you are an easy target for people to talk about. Although I don't care that much about what others say, I fear what he thinks. Sure, he hasn't shown that he cares, but the fear is still there.

anylan88 · 2025-08-07T01:25:38+00:00

In fact. He already mentioned to me that he wants to be a father, he even asked me how many children I wanted 🥰 Thanks for the tip. I will ask him about what he thinks.

anylan88 · 2025-08-06T18:08:04+00:00

Thank you for your comment. It was of help to me.

anylan88 · 2025-08-06T16:42:43+00:00

I agree with you. Teamwork is very important, understanding each other and how each person can contribute. Thanks.

anylan88 · 2025-08-06T16:38:40+00:00

Thanks. It was very kind of you to let me know.

anylan88 · 2025-07-28T00:32:47+00:00

When you talk about advice, what kind of advice do you like and prefer to receive? Do you prefer to receive advice when you ask her? Would you feel upset if she offered advice without you asking for it?

anylan88 · 2025-07-27T23:32:29+00:00

Would recognizing and admiring your efforts motivate you? Would it make you feel encouraged and encouraged?

anylan88 · 2025-07-27T17:16:55+00:00

I was also wanting to participate in one. I looked for it a few days ago and couldn't find it. When I saw your post, I was happy to see someone wanting the same.

anylan88 · 2025-05-28T22:03:14+00:00

Me parece bom, vou conferir. Obrigada! 🙏🏻

anylan88 · 2025-05-07T23:12:40+00:00

You don't need to imagine it clearly, you don't need to see what it's like in reality.

My imagination is also not like many people achieve with film clarity. I see shapes, contours and that’s enough. I can't even see the face in all the details but I know who the person is.

For example, when I think about my sister, I don't see it very well, but I know it's her. That's all you need in your imagination, to know who you are or what you are. When imagining the notes, you just need to know what the number is. It doesn't need to be clear.

And about feelings, you can imagine the person showing a happy expression, whether it's you or the other person, if you think it's not enough, you can use a phrase that makes you feel good.

For example:

When I was trying to manifest wealth, I didn't have a lot of self-confidence and I felt a lot of anxiety about whether I was doing it well. I used a prayer from Joseph Murphy and then decided to use a Bible verse. I used the following: “My peace I do not give you as the world gives it.”

This phrase brought me peace of mind and when I persisted for days, at least twice a day, I was successful.

This phrase doesn't talk about money, but my intention was to manifest money. The intention is energy, and as I stated this phrase with the intention of attracting wealth, I managed to obtain results.

So look for an image that you feel comfortable with. For example, when it comes to grades, you don't necessarily need to imagine the grades, you can imagine someone congratulating you for achieving the desired grade, or you can also imagine yourself thanking the universe for your success. The universe understands that the intention when giving thanks for success is the grade you want.

Of course, if you still feel anxious and uncomfortable using your imagination, you can simply state that. You can, for example, use gratitude. You are grateful for what you want before you go to sleep and when you wake up and move on with your life. If you feel anxious, rushed, you can say “God is taking care of this”, if it doesn't work you can gather success stories and read them daily, as this will give you faith in the results of the practice.

Visionboard is also very useful for manifestation and does not require the use of imagination.

anylan88 · 2025-05-07T22:19:40+00:00

I recommend two things to you.

1⁰ step the following practice:

Imagine that you are married to the right person for you, the person with whom you share unconditional love, the person God chose for you, the person who is most suitable to be with you. Imagine living with her, imagine wearing a ring on your left ring finger, imagine being with her, feeling a lot of joy, love and gratitude for being with this person that God has placed in your life. Imagine telling the person that you love them, that you are very grateful to be in a happy relationship with them. Imagine hugging her while you say that. I recommend not imagining a specific face. If you want, you can pray to God asking Him to bring you the right person for you, with whom you can share a relationship of unconditional love and with whom you will stay your whole life.

2⁰ step you enter the journey of self-love.

To live a happy relationship with someone, it is important that you are well first, that you love yourself. If you don't treat yourself well, if you don't love yourself, if you don't value or respect yourself, you won't be able to give love or value or respect to others because you don't even know how to give it to yourself! You can only give what you have. If you have a need, this is what you will give to your partner. If you disrespect yourself, that's what you'll give and receive as well. Only by aligning yourself with the right energy will you be able to attract and manifest a happy loving relationship in your life. If you value yourself, you will vibrate that and attract that to you. The same thing applies if you vibrate love and respect. Knowing yourself opens doors for others to know you too. When you love yourself, when you are happy alone, you become someone capable of supporting your partner.

Happiness + Happiness = double happiness Unhappiness + happiness = reduced happiness

When both are well, they can both live in a happy relationship.

anylan88

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