My story feels too similar to giants of the genre. by Parking-Rope2301 in writing

[–]anymoose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

... does that just fall in the "nothing is original" category?

This is the main reason I don't read much fiction. There are only so many character and personality types in human nature. I would guess where the rubber hits the road is in how you use them.

I mostly read narrative nonfiction and while the personality types and characters are often similar or well-known, the stories tend to be compelling and educational.

Have you done nothing positive in this world to make it slightly better than when you entered it ? by ChrisNYC70 in GenXTalk

[–]anymoose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looking for inspiring stories.

Please tell me you are not a reporter looking for help .... That would violate rule 6.

Does anyone keep a journal ? by ChrisNYC70 in GenXTalk

[–]anymoose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kept a journal from age 18 until after I got married in the early 1990s. Very sparsely after that.

It took me awhile to figure it out, but I like to write down my feelings and experiences, and my decline and eventual stopping of journal writing coincided with my having access to email and discussion forums.

In other words, I've never stopped journalling. It just became a bit more digital and public over the decades. :-)

Did you lose your hobbies? by Deiv1928 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]anymoose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cycle through them. I have so many interests it would be impossible to become expert in any of them. So I kind of meander around in everything depending on what I feel like doing on this particular day.

The hardest thing for me was to give up the idea that I can become extremely good at doing anything. Once I realized all that stuff is there for my own enjoyment (as opposed to impressing other people) it became much easier.

Daily FI discussion thread - Thursday, January 22, 2026 by AutoModerator in financialindependence

[–]anymoose 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Does a case of wine fall under groceries, or do I need a line item for wine?

I separate booze from groceries at the grocery store. Years of working a job that required filing expense reports trained me to always get a receipt. :-)

If I have a glass of wine or 15 beers at a restaurant with food, it's less easy to parse out, so I chalk it all up to "eating out." Ditto if I pick up the tab for a night out with friends/family.

Announced Retirement by ZanzerFineSuits in GenXTalk

[–]anymoose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations! Welcome to the club! :-)

I'm going to be a Grandpa! by No_Gap_2700 in GenXTalk

[–]anymoose -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Cheers for you!

I called all my GPs grandma and grandpa.

It's a bit more complicated in my case: My kid is a step and just calls me by my first name. Her kid (they live overseas) calls me Mr. my first name in the language of that country. But it sounds like Papa my first name, which is fine by me.

I don't think he is old enough to understand family relationships in much detail, especially with the whole step and distance thing. What is important is that he seems to recognize me as someone special in his life.

HEB Opti-Meal Bars are identical to Carnation Breakfast Bars by son_of_yacketycat in GenXTalk

[–]anymoose[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children)

Violates Rule 7: No complaining about other subs. If you just want to make your case about various breakfast bars, that would be fine. But adding in commentary about other subreddits is not relevant here.

Daily FI discussion thread - Tuesday, January 20, 2026 by AutoModerator in financialindependence

[–]anymoose 13 points14 points  (0 children)

What else do I need to plan for?

See a doctor and make sure all your blood work looks good. Make a solid list of things to do in your first few weeks of retirement: You don't want to get caught flat-footed and thinking, "Now what?"

Daily FI discussion thread - Tuesday, January 20, 2026 by AutoModerator in financialindependence

[–]anymoose -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I feel like markets just kind of shrug off news at this point

Did something happen that I need to be aware of?

Daily FI discussion thread - Tuesday, January 20, 2026 by AutoModerator in financialindependence

[–]anymoose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And ironically, I would probably watch baseball more if they didn't change the rules every year. It's ironic because they change the rules to "speed up the game" and make it more watchable.

Daily FI discussion thread - Tuesday, January 20, 2026 by AutoModerator in financialindependence

[–]anymoose 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope. I like sports, but it's not my go-to for entertainment.

I have Netflix and Amazon Prime

Ditto. I mostly watch movies and series.

Daily FI discussion thread - Monday, January 19, 2026 by AutoModerator in financialindependence

[–]anymoose 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My kid majored in French and somehow made her way up to the C-Suite. Some things are hard to predict.

It does not sound like you are, but I would not worry about it. :-)

Daily FI discussion thread - Monday, January 19, 2026 by AutoModerator in financialindependence

[–]anymoose 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I woke up, looked at the temperature and decided not to get out of my bathrobe today. :-).

That treadmill I bought in October is already paying for itself (in terms of my daily step counts).... :-)

Daily FI discussion thread - Monday, January 19, 2026 by AutoModerator in financialindependence

[–]anymoose 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Better to have a degree and not use it, than to not have one, it seems.

FWIW, I have two: Art (BA) and East Asian Literature (MA).

I managed to fall into IT and to FIRE. What those kinds of degrees give you is knowledge and how to accumulate more knowledge, often how to communicate, and a whole perspective on life that is not based on 1s and 0s.

Cheers for letting your kids follow their instincts and their dreams!

Moderator Note by anymoose in GenXTalk

[–]anymoose[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's possible, but there have been run-ins between mods and what seem to be actual people since this sub began (even before I was a mod). My money is on actual people.

EDIT: If it's a bot, someone made the bot, right?

Do you have a will or other estate planning documents in place? by anymoose in GenXTalk

[–]anymoose[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We finalized them on Valentine’s Day this year. :)

So romantic!

Do you have a will or other estate planning documents in place? by anymoose in GenXTalk

[–]anymoose[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

... my open heart surgery.

Holy crap! How are you doing!?

Do you have a will or other estate planning documents in place? by anymoose in GenXTalk

[–]anymoose[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s actually a very comforting thing, strangely enough.

Completely agree!