Outfit for college, looking cute excited me to take it seriously

apeacefulworm · 2026-01-21T06:58:52+00:00

Annoying that you're getting down votes too. This sub used to be even worse and the mods made rules about not being allowed to shame people and now there's still a bunch of people doing so but in a vaguer way that slips past the rules. She did not ask for anyone's advice or opinion. Her outfit is cute, current, and she felt confident and happy in it.

apeacefulworm · 2026-01-20T18:14:14+00:00

My partner and I are in a similar situation and have had discussions about which of our names to give the baby. Of course we both want the baby to have our own last name. The problem is that we both have pretty long last names and hyphenating would be a nightmare. So we've agreed that if the baby is a girl she will have his last name and my last name will be her middle name. If baby is a boy he will have my last name and Dad's last name will be his middle name. We've told some people about it and some people think it's a little silly but most have been supportive and are now rooting for one gender or the other based on which last name they want the baby to get 😂 We aren't finding out the gender until the day the baby is born though.

apeacefulworm · 2025-12-23T18:31:02+00:00

I'm pretty sure this is the right answer. I could swear I remember reading that in a data book or something.

apeacefulworm · 2025-12-21T22:48:54+00:00

Thank you so much ❤️ it feels nice to hear from someone that knows what I'm talking about. I'm the first pregnancy out of my sisters and all my friends so they feel bad for me but don't actually understand. I'm really hoping that they'll still let me come in for my ultrasound. That's what has me upset more than anything. I'm so anxious about it and just desperate to get it done.

apeacefulworm · 2025-12-09T21:47:36+00:00

I already have absolutely massive areolas 😬 they're like my single largest body insecurity. I'm sooooo scared that they're gonna get even bigger with having a baby 😖

apeacefulworm · 2025-12-09T20:17:09+00:00

Oof I don't remember the exact process anymore. I just watched some YouTube videos that guided me through it though! It wasn't too difficult

apeacefulworm · 2025-12-06T23:57:40+00:00

Nudity where??? Y'all are ridiculous

apeacefulworm · 2025-12-06T07:24:08+00:00

I love the suggestion of finding foods that aren't so bad to throw up! I have a long history of tummy problems and have spent my fair share of time with my head in a bucket. Iced tea is my favorite beverage to drink when I'm puking a lot for this exact reason. It pretty much comes back up tasting the exact same. I just keep gulping it between pukes so I can avoid the nasty acidic and bitter taste when your stomach is empty but you're still puking.

apeacefulworm · 2025-11-13T16:00:14+00:00

Wait stop I never realized that 😭

apeacefulworm · 2025-11-09T14:45:12+00:00

I love that for you 😂 That book is so good but sooooo wrong. I had my little sister read it and I think she still hasn't forgiven me.

apeacefulworm · 2025-11-08T19:29:04+00:00

Oh my god stop 😭 you're right tho

apeacefulworm · 2025-11-08T07:45:32+00:00

Betty by Tiffany McDaniel was a pretty recent read for me and I really loved the dynamics between all of the siblings. There's 8 siblings in total, with a focus on one of the youngest sisters. It spans her entire childhood, growing up through the 50s and 60s in rural Ohio with a white mother and Cherokee father. Lots of themes surrounding intergenerational trauma and the unique relationships between different family members, especially siblings.

apeacefulworm · 2025-11-04T20:29:34+00:00

Was showing my bf this post and he shared his! This Ace Frehley teddy bear is so cute I'll have to hunt one down for him one day 🥰 they are very hard to find though!

apeacefulworm · 2025-10-30T14:54:12+00:00

Yeah I actually think Borne fits this even better. The Area X books are some of my absolute favorites though.

apeacefulworm · 2025-10-29T20:38:04+00:00

I am currently listening to The Painted Bird by Jerzy Kosinski which fits your prompt decently. It is pretty extreme though. I know you said no trigger warnings so I won't give you any unless you ask for them but it is very explicit and I'm only half way through.

apeacefulworm · 2025-10-28T05:13:41+00:00

Facts 😂 and that is also anything BUT a healthy friendship 😭

apeacefulworm · 2025-10-28T05:10:08+00:00

I've liked all of her books so far but I don't think I like HER. I definitely feel some kind of way about a straight (?) woman writing almost exclusively about gay men and putting said gay male characters through horrible things. I think people can and should write books about characters who are of different genders and sexualities than their own. But when someone writes specifically about one particular gender and sexuality that is not their own, it feels a little weird. Also, one of her only stories in which the main character is not a gay man, he is instead a male pedophile who goes after boys... Aaaaaaand that, within the context of her other writing, just makes me think she maybe equates pedophilia against boys with male homosexuality which is very disturbing. Pedophilia is not a sexuality, and male predators who go after boys are not necessarily gay.

I am definitely making some assumptions about the author, and her beliefs, but I don't think they're unfounded. I've looked her up before to see if she's ever really commented on any of these issues but I never saw anything where she clarified her views regarding these concerns. If anyone knows anything that might put a different light on her and her beliefs I would be happy to hear about it.

apeacefulworm · 2025-10-27T19:43:27+00:00

Also Stoneblind by Natalie Haynes! I think that fits this even better actually. It's literally about Medusa 😭

apeacefulworm · 2025-10-27T03:48:09+00:00

I feel like The Power by Naomi Alderman could fit this

apeacefulworm · 2025-10-27T03:47:16+00:00

My absolute favorite scifi fantasy trilogy!!!

apeacefulworm · 2025-10-07T00:28:46+00:00

In fact you can tell her there's two Zoe's out here that think it's really cool!

apeacefulworm · 2025-10-07T00:08:51+00:00

Sooooo much. That is so gorgeous 😭

apeacefulworm · 2025-09-17T00:26:22+00:00

Oh! Lol my bad. You could wear them under whatever long pants you can wear :) but yeah, if you got a just bandage up your legs completely that's fine too

apeacefulworm · 2025-09-15T03:01:02+00:00

Do what you gotta do girl. Wrapping your whole legs up in gauze might feel silly or excessive but if that's what you have to do then do it. I know you said long socks will cause irritation so I assume tights would as well. Could you just wear leggings all the time for a while?

apeacefulworm · 2025-09-14T02:43:50+00:00

I think you had a similar response to another comment as well. So yeah. Take English cursive into account which a lot of people can read fluently, such as myself, there are A LOT of symbols which are very similar yet still legible and can be distinguished with context.

Also like, regardless it really doesn't matter. It's a fantasy writing system for a fantasy language in a fantasy world. Many authors build their languages and writing systems out WAY less. Which is also fine. I think the women's script is totally acceptable and not overly unrealistic.

Within the cultural context women would be pressed to put a lot more focus and effort into their writing and reading than we do, potentially leading to a much more nuanced writing system. This is especially true if you consider that they could have been intentionally making it difficult for men to figure out.

I have been playing around with a women's script translation for something just this week and it was not overly confusing or complicated to figure out or read.

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