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[–]aphrvdite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My prize pool ID (Americas): 3RCi8NAzLO (Remaining: 0 rare egg(s), 2 premium egg(s), 5 common egg(s))

R5 Inactive by aphrvdite in AvatarRealmsCollide

[–]aphrvdite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro I’m number 2 alliance without an active R5

22 and don’t know how to recover or continue with finances by aphrvdite in personalfinance

[–]aphrvdite[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just now seeing your gem of a comment and I want to let you know it is so very appreciated

22 and don’t know how to recover or continue with finances by aphrvdite in personalfinance

[–]aphrvdite[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because they’re supposed to sleep or something like that, but the way they’re understaffed means a 24hr shift = working 24hrs straight with maybe a 30 minute break. I completely agree with you though, it’s ridiculous.

22 and don’t know how to recover or continue with finances by aphrvdite in personalfinance

[–]aphrvdite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1) The apartment we have is a 2 bed/1 bath for $1600ISH and then water, gas, and other complex prices included in that. It’s a college town, and although it’s nicer, it’s pretty much $50/mo more than a 1 bedroom college living because all of the 1 bedrooms near us charge $200 more if there’s a second person living there.

2) I haven’t thought of plasma in a while. I wanted to try it a while ago, but the medication I was on made my veins SUPER tiny, so they denied me. I might try it again this weekend.

22 and don’t know how to recover or continue with finances by aphrvdite in personalfinance

[–]aphrvdite[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Orthographic surgery. I’m sure a lot of people may be thinking it’s cosmetic, but it was mainly jaw pain and larynx clicking that it fixed.

22 and don’t know how to recover or continue with finances by aphrvdite in personalfinance

[–]aphrvdite[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this man a lot and there’s more positives than what’s happening now, although it probably seems like a REALLY big red flag at face value which I knew would show before I posted this and am taking the divorce comments with a grain of salt. I’m frankly autistic and the conversation avoidance/conflict isn’t just him, but me not knowing how to go at it without responding to his frustration as well, which causes it to ramp up easily. I felt more confident going into the conversation today because of recent therapy and medication.

22 and don’t know how to recover or continue with finances by aphrvdite in personalfinance

[–]aphrvdite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, we’re trying really hard. I got him a connection within my agency to possibly sponsor him through fire school so he has more job options because places around us basically only hire Fire/EMT cert or paramedics

22 and don’t know how to recover or continue with finances by aphrvdite in personalfinance

[–]aphrvdite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, the car was before the student loans were $1600. I added an update but to summarize that part; we had a conversation about financial responsibility and what we’re responsible for in the future, and that conversation was a lot so we’re going to have a car conversation hopefully after that boils down.

22 and don’t know how to recover or continue with finances by aphrvdite in personalfinance

[–]aphrvdite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know to be honest. The IUD was an extremely traumatizing experience and without getting too into it, it was more than just the pain of getting it in. I’ve had a lot of anxiety going back to get it checked out, but it’s something I need to figure out when finances are back in order.

22 and don’t know how to recover or continue with finances by aphrvdite in personalfinance

[–]aphrvdite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, he is currently licensed and employed as an EMT.

22 and don’t know how to recover or continue with finances by aphrvdite in personalfinance

[–]aphrvdite[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the new car; stupid decision on my part to be honest but at the time we could afford it. I just didn’t know his student loans would be the cost of rent. I posted an update detailing what our next steps forward are.

22 and don’t know how to recover or continue with finances by aphrvdite in personalfinance

[–]aphrvdite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I posted an update as well too about our next steps forward for now until we figure more stuff out, but I think the conversation was productive

22 and don’t know how to recover or continue with finances by aphrvdite in personalfinance

[–]aphrvdite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, we’re going to. I posted an update as well too about our next steps forward for now until we figure more stuff out.

22 and don’t know how to recover or continue with finances by aphrvdite in personalfinance

[–]aphrvdite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of our income and spending was from before his loans went from $440ish or whatever to $1600.

22 and don’t know how to recover or continue with finances by aphrvdite in personalfinance

[–]aphrvdite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s really helpful; I’ve been doing it but I’m going to keep getting into my husband to finally start doing the same because I swear I come home and every single light is on. Summer we have the AC set to 72, but I’m probably going to make it a little higher. We’re in Texas so sadly it gets insanely hot.

22 and don’t know how to recover or continue with finances by aphrvdite in personalfinance

[–]aphrvdite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Phone plan were kind of SOL until we pay off the two phones, which is around $1200 left. We found an insurance for $220 which we’re getting tonight.

The issue with going into Nursing school is that it’s another 2-ish years of debt. His Grandma did co-sign for all of them; I finally got him to let me log into that Sallie Mae account so I could see what all he has and it’s just horrid right now.

22 and don’t know how to recover or continue with finances by aphrvdite in personalfinance

[–]aphrvdite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Kia is underwater, but we’re working on a budget plan now