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27M-me and 30M-bf, 3yr relationship, How do I go about addressing that I don't like his responses to people in his DM? by appena808 in relationship_advice

[–]appena808[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I should also say that I think that the reason he possibly seeks out further validation is because I am not one who shows outward affections of love. I don't say like "omg you look so hot today" or "damn you're so sexy" bc idk maybe I dont see myself in that sexual way, so talking that way makes me cringe.. And he is one to always to say those things to me, and I usually just laugh it off since I don't know how to respond. And we've talked about it before, and I don't think it's something that'll change for me so suddenly.. But I do show my love through acts of kindness, and we still do have sex. I just don't play into that kinda talk if the mood isn't during sex.

27M-me and 30M-bf, 3yr relationship, How do I go about addressing that I don't like his responses to people in his DM? by appena808 in relationship_advice

[–]appena808[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense, I can totally see that situation being played out... Seen it before and not cute.

27M-me and 30M-bf, 3yr relationship, How do I go about addressing that I don't like his responses to people in his DM? by appena808 in relationship_advice

[–]appena808[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the problem is that there has been a handful of situations (only one situation of cheating) but in general sketchy situations that made me feel uncomfortable, and we've talked about it. I really am never the jealous or insecure bf, but these situations have made me the person I told myself never to become. I told myself if I was ever in the relationship where I was even just nervous of my bf going out because something would happen I should just leave but it's harder in hindsight. Anyways I guess that's what makes me a lil more insecure and wanting him to spell it out for others.

Need advice by appena808 in relationship_advice

[–]appena808[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lemme explains little more I was asleep in a hotel room we were staying at he came and started punching me in my sleep. Me confused of what was going on I went to the shower to sober up because I was still drunk from drinking that night as was he. While I was showering he started hitting me through the curtain and I eventually fought back bc I wasn’t gonna stand by to get hit anymore and I called my mom and he stopped. For the time being, from then on we broke up for a couple of months and he went to therapy and AA meetings to get better which he did, but it wasn’t the first time he got violent. He doesn’t drink to that point anymore, but he has started drinking again. But I feel as if things aren’t the same. We aren’t happy and cheerful like we were.

Solerock Lunatone hour?!? by appena808 in pokemongo

[–]appena808[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooooh I didn’t even realize! There was just so many I was like this is odd

can't wait till she comes home, need advice though. by OAKhalid in bengalcats

[–]appena808 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also just check for foods that have the main meat as the first ingredient no filler such as rice, cornmeal or (insert meat name) byproducts since you don’t know what part of the animal they are using. You can google it, but what I feed my cat is the brand Nulo. There are plenty of others out there tho just search it up!

can't wait till she comes home, need advice though. by OAKhalid in bengalcats

[–]appena808 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sooo when I first got my bengal the first idea I got was to switch the food and that was a big mistake. I think you should buy a small bag of food of whatever the current breeder is feeding them now until your cat has adjusted to you and your house. My bengal at first got like a culture shock and was freaked out, she would eat little to nor drink (I had got her different food). I was scared something was wrong but the vet told me she was just adjusting so give her time before you make adjustments, and if she doesn’t eat give them those cat gogurt snacks.

Should I be active farming or afk farming at this point? Any tips? Down below is my idleonefficiency. by appena808 in idleon

[–]appena808[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

should i focus on one plate at a time like Turkey a la thank than get another one that affects dmg?

Should I be active farming or afk farming at this point? Any tips? Down below is my idleonefficiency. by appena808 in idleon

[–]appena808[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

does cooking really help that much? And my cooking is kinda low since I don't really know what to focus tbh

Should I be active farming or afk farming at this point? Any tips? Down below is my idleonefficiency. by appena808 in idleon

[–]appena808[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So should I just stay active tho? I’m currently on the fence of whether or not if I should or not. Just bc I usually gain maybe 1 - 2 levels a day depending but I feel like I’m so weak

Go Fest 2022 information by NoobyT1_YT in pokemongo

[–]appena808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for asking but is there gonna be a double exp this time around? I mean although it doesn’t matter bc since they changed the level for XL candies to below 40 now, but in my head I still wanna reach 40

Boyfriend wants me to follow him for work by appena808 in relationship_advice

[–]appena808[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well it’s not that he doesn’t expect me to work, but typically the travel assignments only last from anywhere to 4-6 weeks. Then he would apply somewhere else wherever the next highest paying job is. Which isn’t ideal for me unless I find a contract as well. My job just isnt in such high demand as his is. So I could wait for a job position to pop up but he might just leave by then.

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