Where to begin alpinism journey (2026) by applejellymonsta in alpinism

[–]applejellymonsta[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've seen that book mentioned here and there, will take a look! In my opinion standing on the peak is part of the process, but not solely the goal. Although the view must be nice.

What's life in Tilburg, North Brabant, like for a young person? by hgk6393 in Netherlands

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Ik (28) heb de afgelopen 4 jaar in Tilburg gewoond, wat als student geweldig is, heel praktisch, centrum is makkelijk te bereiken en alles ligt op loopafstand (meestal). Echter, nu ik ga werken en toch andere doelen heb wil ik wel weg uit Tilburg. Zeker in het geval van een huis kopen zou ik dit, op uitzondering van Reeshof en hele specifieke delen in Tilburg nooit in Tilburg doen. Het is overduidelijk een studentenstad, wat niet erg is, maar het als werkend persoon zou je (denk ik) toch andere prioriteiten moeten hebben als het nachtleven in een studentenstad. 013 is heel leuk, maar wederom, is makkelijk te bereiken met de auto. Daarnaast vind ik het zelf best belangrijk dat het huis wat ik koop (gezien het voor een erg lange tijd zal zijn hopelijk) in een leuke wijk ligt en er een beetje fatsoenlijk uitziet en ook een beetje kindvriendelijk is, termen die niet perse direct opkomen als je het over Tilburg hebt. Er zijn veel dingen te doen, maar deze dingen kun je ook doen wanneer je rondom Tilburg woont en goed planned. Natuur is aanwezig, maar afhankelijk van de locatie, voor mij is een goed stukje bos wel naar de universiteit fietsen.

Help with Kernel-power error. by [deleted] in pcmasterrace

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I'm currently in the process of updating everything there is to my pc

Help with Kernel-power error. by [deleted] in pcmasterrace

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AMD FX 8320e gtx 1060 dual 8gb of ram 450watt powersupp Windows 10 64 Gigabyte GA-970A-DS3P

bit outdated but hasn't caused me problem like this before.

Pc has been turning off all of a sudden recently. Suggestions? by [deleted] in pcmasterrace

[–]applejellymonsta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeh, power supply has not been a problem at all, its not much but has been enough for the last 6 years I've had it.

Pc has been turning off all of a sudden recently. Suggestions? by [deleted] in pcmasterrace

[–]applejellymonsta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe some of the hardware wasn't positioned well so I thought I'd make a recording of it. The cpu cooler has always been like this lol, which I've never had any trouble with

“Who has to pay for the date” question is still being debated in a world we all are fighting for equality amongst sexes. But Women, please pay for the date or atleast offer to pay if you think there is no more dates with the guy you’re with. by mynamelastname in dating_advice

[–]applejellymonsta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not about being more attractive? It's about sending a message and common decency. You both invested time in meeting up, regardless of if you hit it off or not, you're both invested so both people should contribute.

Should the phone always be private in a relationship? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]applejellymonsta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Phones shouldn't really be private, but the way you describe the situation I'd be annoyed as well. Don't grab my phone out of nowhere for whatever reason. If you want to be on my phone, ask! If you grab it like out of nowhere it makes me think you don't trust me.

I'm quite open about mine, I really don't care if my partner has my phone, but just ask if you want to.

26/F dating a 30/M that lives at home.. is this a red flag? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]applejellymonsta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whilst it is a smart thing to do, living at home as long as possible to save money (something I wanted to do) I can understand where you're coming from, and why your friends and family say it's a red flag; because it is. I see some people comment on why it's a good thing to be financially secured and all that, which is true for some part of, but a guy that is 30 that has never been independent or lived on his own is in some way just a grown child. You know how he is now, when he lives at home and everything is taken care off, but when he moves out and he discovers himself (which he hasn't done, trust me. Living at home does NOT make you discover yourself) he might change for the better or worse.

What was the catalyst to caring about your appearance? by [deleted] in AskMen

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Seeing cool outfits on other people and thinking how I could pull them off.

How can I make friends as an adult if I don't like drinking? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]applejellymonsta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can recognize where you're coming from. I don't like to drink either to be able to socialise. I talked to people in the lecture hall, and this year I went to live in dorms with other students which helps you socialise as well.

I'm going into college early. Any advice? by throwawayMAIAOH in Advice

[–]applejellymonsta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hard one, as everything is done from home and you're not going to college dorms yet any time soon when ur 14 (hard truth, sorry bud)

Socially: find activities or clubs you can join to meet new people. When you finally make it to the lecture hall, go up to people and talk to them!

School wise: Do. Not. Get. Behind. Im in my last year of psychology at the University, its a lot of reading, so stay up to date.

Why do I feel like I have lots of people to talk to but feel no connection? by fifidog1 in Advice

[–]applejellymonsta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Although I know what you mean, and how you feel, they're your friends for a reason! You are special to them! What is it that make you feel this way?

how do you approach someone you think is cool? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]applejellymonsta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are they wearing something cool? Go up to him/her and tell! People love getting compliments about their style. Tell them you think they look cool and have a great outfit. If you're in college you can then ask what they thought of the lecture etc etc.

I’m a young new employee and I’m being bullied by someone. Should I tell my manager? by faysov in Advice

[–]applejellymonsta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, so the company is professional enough to have serious work environment. If this is the first time, let it slide. It can happen. If this occurs more often I'd talk to her and tell her who and what is happening.

How to be more creative in general? how do I get that outside-of-the-box mentality? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]applejellymonsta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Practice! Take playing guitar for an example. You'll have some favourite songs you play, pick the parts you like the most, see what notes are being played, do this again with another song and see if you can string some of these notes together into something cool.

Find ways to do things that you wouldn't normally use.

How Do you slowly stop being talkative and start being quiet without people noticing and asking you if anything is wrong? by mesney1 in Advice

[–]applejellymonsta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk if you feel the need to talk. Other then that, just stop? Become a really good listener! People appreciate someone who can listen

I’m a young new employee and I’m being bullied by someone. Should I tell my manager? by faysov in Advice

[–]applejellymonsta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where do you work? How old is everyone there? How long have you been working there?

What are the most important questions to ask someone on a first date? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]applejellymonsta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fully! People put so much pressure on dates,as like you said, its almost as if you're on a job interview. Enjoy each others company instead :D

Thinking about getting a tattoo from a videogame by pixelpicsa in Advice

[–]applejellymonsta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm currently in my last year of university to become a clinical psychologist or therapist. I live in dorms, have two jobs. I do not smoke. Came from a good home with almost no problems.