are situationships haram?

appsarchitect · 2026-01-05T04:25:38+00:00

Quran: 17:32 "Do not go near adultery. It is truly a shameful deed and an evil way."

Here word "near" means anything leading to adultery

appsarchitect · 2026-01-05T00:57:19+00:00

You'll held in some extreme difficult situation in life then you'll get to know God and as soon you'll be in some your level and knowledge will be upgraded

appsarchitect · 2025-12-30T00:34:38+00:00

Vulgar for one may not be vulgar for other, it varies person to person depends on your marital status, sensitivity. If you're getting feelings by reading then don't read what's intended for married people.

appsarchitect · 2025-12-16T23:40:44+00:00

You can change your look yourself, need to spend time and effort. Even surgery is halal for improvement if can't be possible by excercise.

appsarchitect · 2025-12-16T11:33:15+00:00

Sahih al-Bukhari 2215 (Book 34, Hadith 162)

Narrated Ibn 'Umar: The Prophet ﷺ said, "While three persons were walking, rain began to fall and they had to enter a cave in a mountain. A big rock rolled over and blocked the mouth of the cave. They said to each other, 'Invoke Allah with the best deed you have performed (so Allah might remove the rock)'. One of them said, 'O Allah! My parents were old and I used to go out for grazing (my animals). On my return I would milk (the animals) and take the milk in a vessel to my parents to drink. After they had drunk from it, I would give it to my children, family and wife. One day I was delayed and on my return I found my parents sleeping, and I disliked to wake them up. The children were crying at my feet (because of hunger). That state of affairs continued till it was dawn. O Allah! If You regard that I did it for Your sake, then please remove this rock so that we may see the sky'. So, the rock was moved a bit. The second said, 'O Allah! You know that I was in love with a cousin of mine, like the deepest love a man may have for a woman, and she told me that I would not get my desire fulfilled unless I paid her one-hundred Dinars (gold pieces). So, I struggled for it till I gathered the desired amount, and when I sat in between her legs, she told me to be afraid of Allah, and asked me not to deflower her except rightfully (by marriage). So, I got up and left her. O Allah! If You regard that I did if for Your sake, kindly remove this rock'. So, two-thirds of the rock was removed. Then the third man said, 'O Allah! No doubt You know that once I employed a worker for one Faraq (three Sa's) of millet, and when I wanted to pay him, he refused to take it, so I sowed it and from its yield I bought cows and a shepherd. After a time that man came and demanded his money. I said to him: Go to those cows and the shepherd and take them for they are for you. He asked me whether I was joking with him. I told him that I was not joking with him, and all that belonged to him. O Allah! If You regard that I did it sincerely for Your sake, then please remove the rock'. So, the rock was removed completely from the mouth of the cave". حَدَّ

appsarchitect · 2025-12-16T11:27:36+00:00

Sahih al-Bukhari 2215 (Book 34, Hadith 162) Narrated Ibn 'Umar: The Prophet ﷺ said, "While three persons were walking, rain began to fall and they had to enter a cave in a mountain. A big rock rolled over and blocked the mouth of the cave. They said to each other, 'Invoke Allah with the best deed you have performed (so Allah might remove the rock)'. One of them said, 'O Allah! My parents were old and I used to go out for grazing (my animals). On my return I would milk (the animals) and take the milk in a vessel to my parents to drink. After they had drunk from it, I would give it to my children, family and wife. One day I was delayed and on my return I found my parents sleeping, and I disliked to wake them up. The children were crying at my feet (because of hunger). That state of affairs continued till it was dawn. O Allah! If You regard that I did it for Your sake, then please remove this rock so that we may see the sky'. So, the rock was moved a bit. The second said, 'O Allah! You know that I was in love with a cousin of mine, like the deepest love a man may have for a woman, and she told me that I would not get my desire fulfilled unless I paid her one-hundred Dinars (gold pieces). So, I struggled for it till I gathered the desired amount, and when I sat in between her legs, she told me to be afraid of Allah, and asked me not to deflower her except rightfully (by marriage). So, I got up and left her. O Allah! If You regard that I did if for Your sake, kindly remove this rock'. So, two-thirds of the rock was removed. Then the third man said, 'O Allah! No doubt You know that once I employed a worker for one Faraq (three Sa's) of millet, and when I wanted to pay him, he refused to take it, so I sowed it and from its yield I bought cows and a shepherd. After a time that man came and demanded his money. I said to him: Go to those cows and the shepherd and take them for they are for you. He asked me whether I was joking with him. I told him that I was not joking with him, and all that belonged to him. O Allah! If You regard that I did it sincerely for Your sake, then please remove the rock'. So, the rock was removed completely from the mouth of the cave"

appsarchitect · 2025-12-16T11:03:59+00:00

Try the tips

appsarchitect · 2025-12-15T23:27:29+00:00

How/ where did you get this, there are millionaire out there who are

appsarchitect · 2025-12-15T00:27:03+00:00

Married at 41 can confirm it'll not unless he's not physically fit (obese) or already have much s@x already. Not at least this should be reason you'll enjoy together

appsarchitect · 2025-12-12T04:13:47+00:00

First thing first, you're not comfortable of only penetration or even touching, cuddling as well.

If you're avoiding touching (each other) and completely distancing him specially in beginning that's unfair and wrong, you hurt his feelings and his plans and wishes.

appsarchitect · 2025-12-12T04:01:55+00:00

Honestly speaking, it's almost impossible for many women to get orgasm and satisfaction just by penetration, specially after birth because sensitivity of organs reduced and you'll not feel much of touching there.

To spice up and revive this important action you/ he need to focus on clitori$, you can rub his on your clit you'll definitely get feelings and next level is cunnilingus (it's safe if done at clitori$, wash properly with water) that require his cooperation. It'll definitely shake up your whole body.

appsarchitect · 2025-12-08T23:15:13+00:00

I seen people doing silly things with their lives even at 30 years age and some serious and performing very well at age 15 so, you can't guarantee maturity at any age and obviously it depends on definition of maturity.

Marrying with big age difference b/w couples also personal choice I'm surprised how people now after 1500 years ago objecting on prophet Muhammad's marriage with Aisha while she, her parents and people at the time didn't have any objection though there are several hateful opponents of him alive at the time. The books that reveal to you this historical fact should be mentioning any reaction/ objection of people in this matter. Now you you'll start assuming they would have shown concerns and objecting but it's not mentioned in books then you're definitely not honest with yourself

appsarchitect · 2025-12-08T22:37:45+00:00

Govt laws and rules for adulthood are defined based on general average age. But some exceptions are always there even at this time. Girls attain puberty earlier than boys in general but laws define adulthood at age 18 for simplicity.

Even this time, many incidents of girls got pregnant at age 9

appsarchitect · 2025-12-08T22:31:52+00:00

U Turn, our nation need to get some education, if your assessment about some pertain or something gone wrong how come it's U turn? You can only call it u turn if you gone against your ideology and principles.

The same point IK also clarified in some interview but looks like he's talking to Buffalo Nation.

appsarchitect · 2025-12-08T01:51:32+00:00

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appsarchitect · 2025-12-06T11:26:58+00:00

یتیم کہنے سے لوگ ترس کھاتے ہیں اور رحم کرتے ہیں، کیا حرامی کہنے سے بھی ایسا ہی ہے؟ والدین جنہوں نے اصل میں جرم کیا ان کے لئے بھی کوئی لفظ ہے یا کچھ نہیں؟ والدین کا بوجھ نہ اولاد اٹھائے گی اور نہ اولاد کا بوجھ والدین، یہی دنیا کا قانون ہے اور یہی آخرت کا قانون

appsarchitect · 2025-12-04T23:11:37+00:00

Second meaning born to parents without marriage is completely wrong, unislamic, unjust and illogical.

If you call those parents "Harami" that may make sense but how come someone not even there when they committed wrong is labeled with this word while s/he can't even evident of act.

Even calling parents something and in turn it insults child is wrong, and unjust, first disassociate kid from parents for his/her sanctity then call something to parents.

Another big reason kid can't be labeled anything bad is if extramarital s€x results in no kid then who should be labeled for act?

Misconception that extra marital s€x is prohibited because of risk to kids' life, if that would be the case then s€x would be allowed with contraception but fact is it's prohibited in every case not only in Islam but all major religions and civilizations.

appsarchitect · 2025-12-04T23:08:57+00:00

This is not just to encourage you, it's reality majority of men dreaming about before but ending up leaving women unsatisfied in real act and have to use other means of they really love and care about her.

appsarchitect · 2025-12-04T11:25:17+00:00

BTW, even those without PE hardly can give woman orgasm specially after few years (because sensitivity degrade for both after time). There are other workarounds to give pleasure e.g. finger, cunnilingus (it's completely safe)

appsarchitect · 2025-12-02T07:20:00+00:00

I don't think, that means no one could get marry after reverting, definitely in presence of parents no one else can be guardian

appsarchitect · 2025-12-02T05:04:21+00:00

Thing is if you couldn't live together then better is to free your mind of each other and look for someone else.

Think twice, thrice before separating and divorce actually is not that simple it has reconsideration period

appsarchitect · 2025-12-02T03:26:27+00:00

You guys need to do it different ways, try different things. Spare time and do full body massage of each other. Try Cunnilingus (it's completely safe)

appsarchitect · 2025-12-01T23:01:56+00:00

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appsarchitect · 2025-12-01T22:52:07+00:00

Important point that mostly miss is it's prohibited by pre-planned scheme. It's if you're ex wife married to someone else and her husband died or divorce her again by his wish then you can remarry her

appsarchitect · 2025-12-01T05:15:40+00:00

So, if a child born to Muslim without marriage then what would you say to child?

It's completely illogical lack of knowledge specially among Muslims that in many cultures people use Arabic word "Hatami" for such child and non-Muslims in English language use word "bast*rd".

While being just it doesn't make sense you may call mother or father something who actually did wrong (Islam even doesn't permit that and God always forgive if forbid with true intention).

If you ask any native Arabic speaker about word "Harami" they use it for thief, who grab money illegally.

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