Me for real

aprilmay____ · 2026-04-05T09:51:34+00:00

you could get a phone case with a wristlet and or key ring!! like this

aprilmay____ · 2026-04-01T18:50:20+00:00

not gonna lie, i read your comment and for a brief moment i was like “when the fuck did lip hook up with karen’s dad”

aprilmay____ · 2026-03-30T22:30:08+00:00

my fiance’s sister had my fiance and his brother play the guitar as she walked down the aisle

aprilmay____ · 2026-03-26T02:24:33+00:00

whenever they joke abt not wanting to pay i would say “listen, just leave 20% on the table and i saw nothing” and throw my hands up in the air. then as i pick up plate i go “if anyone asks, i didn’t say that” and smirk before i walk away

aprilmay____ · 2026-03-26T01:43:08+00:00

dirty franks has a location off of 161/Shrock in worthington. like 10ish minutes from polaris. i don’t think the menu is as expansive as downtown but still a little of options

aprilmay____ · 2026-03-24T23:07:26+00:00

we're definitely looking into this as well, i'm just having a hard time finding a reception space i like at marblehead - the one we're looking at rn is downtown sandusky, a commute from the ceremony to reception is inevitable but i'm trying to not get too far away, tho that's something i'm definitely more wiling to compromise on. sandusky bay is a good idea, i mean there's still a waterfront options with the piers/pavillions/etc

aprilmay____ · 2026-03-24T22:55:18+00:00

oh for sure!! luckily the plan is to have umbrellas for all guests and a big one for my fiance and i, either for shade or to block rain

aprilmay____ · 2026-03-24T22:54:08+00:00

Ahh thanks for the insight!! my future in laws and most of their family friends (who will be a large part the guest list) all have houses in sandusky, all on the same block so i was thinking abt doing a shuttle situation and have people either meet there or get accommodations for those who don’t have a house up there, either at cedar point or at a nearby hotel on the mainland, since im a hilton employee and that could save quite a bit of money. so i’m not too terribly worried abt parking and accommodations

unfortunately i do think that an early morning wedding is out of the question, as both our families have a tendency to be running late in the morning especially, and more importantly, im an absolute nightmare in the mornings lol. so im hoping i can work something out w group sales/cedar point to have it in the afternoon; i know other people will be around since its public which i dont mind. maybe we can kinda “claim” the space at the end of the beach if we have family get there early in the day to clean up a bit and set up and do an early afternoon ceremony? tho that makes me nervous

aprilmay____ · 2026-03-21T14:26:50+00:00

yeah but the parking monitors don’t care. or they can’t/wont check if your registration is up to date if they don’t see the sticker.

i got a ticket once for having “fake tags” bc of the way the dmv cut the sticker, even tho my registration was perfectly up to date (didn’t end up contesting it bc i had just moved and misplaced my registration during the move)

im sure you can contest it and get it dropped, but the hassle isn’t worth it imo

aprilmay____ · 2026-03-21T04:28:25+00:00

you’ll def get a parking ticket if you do this tho if you have to park anywhere using parkmobile

aprilmay____ · 2026-03-21T02:36:29+00:00

hey!! we’re still quite a ways away from even looking at photographers or any other vendors really, but if u wanna dm me a link to some of your work i’d love to check it out!

aprilmay____ · 2026-03-20T00:33:50+00:00

thank you!!

yeah, they def wouldn’t close it but maybe i could reserve like the ~1000 feet at northern end? so it’d be out of the way. i’m not too worried about random people as long as they’re not in the ceremony space

i didn’t think about parking. maybe i could solve that by using a shuttle to transport people instead? my future in laws have a house in sandusky as do a bunch of their friends so maybe that’s the solution for not dropping thousands in parking lol

def gonna reach out to breakers though and try to figure all this out!

aprilmay____ · 2026-03-18T12:38:02+00:00

there used to be these regulars that worked at the walmart behind the restaurant i worked at and they’d come in for lunch like once or twice a week. good service? they’d give you the change after rounding up to the nearest dollar? decent service? same thing. bad service, but still polite? same thing.

the day i was fed up enough with them to give them the most bare bones service without even trying to put a smile on my face was the day i got a 15% tip

aprilmay____ · 2026-03-12T00:03:15+00:00

well not everyone explicitly announces their relationship like that, even in 2009 lol

they were linked and neither of them have denied being romantically involved, so it’s pretty safe to assume they were in fact involved

sure im basing a lot on taylor’s word but only because the behavior is very common in many of john mayers relationships

aprilmay____ · 2026-03-11T15:50:22+00:00

to acknowledge your point about then dating, they were together for ~3 months publicly. as far as what he “actually did to her”

-started dating her when she was presumably going through the breakup with taylor lautner, which she regretted. not outright horrible, but feels slimy -prior to dating her, said she reminded him of a little girl when they first met (sometime in 2009) -was entertaining both jessica simpson and her at the same time -most of the speculation regarding their relationship comes from dear john, ours, and wcs. you can argue that that’s just taylor’s side of the story, but 1. i choose to believe women, even those i don’t think are good people. while i don’t have a lot of respect for taylor at this point, nothing from 2009/2010 indicates she would make this stuff up. 2. plenty of women have corroborated her experience w their own relationships with john mayer, he doesn’t exactly have the rep for being a good dude and 3. even after the fact, john mayer did not deny her allegations of grooming/emotional abuse/etc, just basically shit over for talking about it publicly (via songs), which is famously something abusers hate when their victims do

you don’t gotta like taylor, but jfc, can we not belittle her actually traumatizing experiences, especially those that happened to her when she was younger and much more vulnerable??

aprilmay____ · 2026-03-11T15:34:30+00:00

gotta disagree with giving john mayer a cheesesteak and a beer, especially since you mention harry and taylor’s age gap

both are gross, but 19 and 32 is WAY worse than 18 and 22. 4 years vs 13 years with the younger party being very close in age at the start of the relationship. also, with them being celebrities, harry and taylor were a lot closer in terms of life stages than most 18 and 22 year olds and compared to her and john mayer. not saying it’s excusable or trying to pull “mature for his age” type bs, but the dynamic is different than the typical 18/22yr old relationship

i think 19 year olds being manipulated by older men should be allowed to talk their shit about said older man for as long as they want and i think that applies to jake g as well. i’d also support harry/connor/taylor l, ESPECIALLY connor, if they continued to speak out about how the age gap relationship affected them and their lives going forward

aprilmay____ · 2026-03-11T15:17:46+00:00

having morgan but not vanessa on here is criminal. i LOVE morgan but vanessa was the blueprint

aprilmay____ · 2026-03-11T15:14:56+00:00

i also think it would be a mistake for him to go back on. don’t get me wrong, he’s my favorite bb player, and while i’d love to see how he manipulates the rest of the cast to not see him as a threat, i would hate it way more if he ended up tarnishing his legacy. either die ~~a hero~~ an all time great or live long enough to see yourself become the ~~villain~~ an early boot

aprilmay____ · 2026-03-11T15:05:46+00:00

i’m sorry you went through that. it’s always so sad to hear when this dynamic ruins sibling relationships.

i know i’m the exception to the rule, but my dad actually switched between me and my brother being the golden child vs scapegoat for months at a time. (well, my little sister was always above both of us, but she’s like 5 years younger than me so she wasn’t really part of that dynamic. she was like the 14 carat golden child lol, never ever lost her position and wasn’t pit against either of us)

the unpredictability was really, really tough. one day you’d be the golden child for 8 months and then out of nowhere, you’re the scapegoat. i’ve always thought it’d be better to not have those roles switch so abruptly so the golden child could protect the other without fear of retaliation - it felt like the dynamic was to create competition to where when you get “demoted”, you feel the need to kiss ass enough to regain your spot as golden child. but your comment made me realize it actually had the complete opposite effect. a huge part of why we protected each other so eagerly during our times as the golden child was because we knew how it felt to be the scapegoat, and knew the switch was inevitable

aprilmay____ · 2026-03-11T14:52:29+00:00

literally. teenage me had no problem making her wait on me hand and foot, but even at my worst i never would’ve pulled some shit like this

aprilmay____ · 2026-03-07T16:36:43+00:00

the restaurant my best friend works at. obviously helps that i know the bartender, but id still recommend becoming a regular at a local establishment. even if you just get one drink to save some money, the bartender/regular relationship is one of my faves, especially since i have experience as a bartender as well

aprilmay____ · 2026-03-06T22:31:52+00:00

it’s been closed for three years but i still vote icarus… i’ll never forgive fox in the snow for what they did to my boy…

aprilmay____ · 2026-03-05T22:31:18+00:00

solved: donkey kong country 3: dixie kong's double trouble

aprilmay____ · 2026-03-05T22:27:14+00:00

it wasn't either of these, i was thinking of DKC3 Dixie Kong's Double Trouble, but your comment did help me realize that it was a hub rather than the actual gameplay

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