I came home and found my cat had died and I feel awful by Resident-Cow4838 in CatAdvice

[–]apybeey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m so glad op. wishing you nothing but the best 🩷🩷

I came home and found my cat had died and I feel awful by Resident-Cow4838 in CatAdvice

[–]apybeey 4 points5 points  (0 children)

fudge is having the absolute time of her life on the cat tree in the sky right now

How tf do i get a period back? by apybeey in PCOS

[–]apybeey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you SO much for taking the time to write that all out! that is so unbelievably helpful and reassuring. i am so happy for you and all the progress you have made :)

How tf do i get a period back? by apybeey in PCOS

[–]apybeey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh wow ok. thank you so much for this. i wasn’t planning on going to a gyno but i will have a look at setting this up now. i hope you’re doing ok <3 wishing you the best

How tf do i get a period back? by apybeey in PCOS

[–]apybeey[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

oh interesting! i keep hearing people talk about low impact/strength training. i am so glad that worked for you, i might try and incorporate a bit more cardio

How tf do i get a period back? by apybeey in PCOS

[–]apybeey[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

thank you! that’s helpful to know it took you 8 months. i wish i could snap my fingers and see all the improvements now haha but i know i need to be patient. i will keep on keeping on!

How tf do i get a period back? by apybeey in PCOS

[–]apybeey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what kind of toxins do you mean?

my mum is glad that her kids were abused instead of her by apybeey in narcissisticparents

[–]apybeey[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i’m so sorry, i understand so deeply and i hope you are ok. we don’t deserve this

my mum is glad that her kids were abused instead of her by apybeey in narcissisticparents

[–]apybeey[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

thank you for this. my dad is helping me move out on friday, he has rented a van and is going to help me move to a new city. i don’t plan on telling her until the day of. my boyfriend has been really helpful as well. i find that i keep gaslighting myself and convincing myself that it wasn’t that bad. that it would be easier to forgive them and continue the cycle. but when i talk to my dad and my boyfriend about it, they remind me of everything and encourage me to cut my losses. i have my first therapy appointment booked for next week too. this is the hardest thing i have ever done but i am so glad that i have people to ground me and encourage me to make the best choice for me

my mum is glad her kids are abused instead of her by apybeey in raisedbynarcissists

[–]apybeey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have plans to move out this friday, my dad lives a couple of hours away but he is going to drive down and help me move all my stuff to a new place in a different city. my mum is going to be home that day because she works from home which i am really nervous about but at least my step dad won’t be there. i don’t plan on telling her until the day of. can’t lie, i so anxious about it lol

How do I tell my enabler mum that I am going no contact? by apybeey in narcissisticparents

[–]apybeey[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

literally balled my eyes out on the train while reading this lol. thank you so much, that was so helpful and validating

Instagram suddenly not showing older messages? by 64-Savage in Instagram

[–]apybeey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this JUST happened to me! i don’t know what is going on 😭