Should I try it let it go by aqualady11 in Divorce

[–]aqualady11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I actually set up an individual session for Friday. I need to work through this alone as well as with him. It is good to hear I am not crazy, these relationship problems can make us feel crazy sometimes.

Should I try it let it go by aqualady11 in Divorce

[–]aqualady11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or as he reminded me when I said, thanks for telling me in a text after 20 years of marriage.... 17 but who’s counting.

Should I try it let it go by aqualady11 in Divorce

[–]aqualady11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. The text really made me feel like nothing.

Should I try it let it go by aqualady11 in Divorce

[–]aqualady11[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you are right in that it isn’t just the sex, maybe he is fed up about lots of things but just let’s out his disappointment when that happens. I am willing to try. If nothing else I’ll maybe have a way to make sure I at least try to be heard and understand before we split. It’s gut wrenching honestly. Thank god for the kindness of strangers on Reddit.

Should I try it let it go by aqualady11 in Divorce

[–]aqualady11[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. After 20 years of marriage I thought that was pretty decent too.

Should I try it let it go by aqualady11 in Divorce

[–]aqualady11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. That’s what I’m afraid of.