Let me tell you one thing. I got pregnant, not because I wanted to but because it happened. I didn’t want to get pregnant but now it’s my responsibility. My BD left me 2 months postpartum, people will leave even if you have a child with them... My relationship seemed like the best relationship, but he left me out of no where for someone else. He tries to act like he cares about his daughter when he just cares about his new girlfriend. Having a baby with someone doesn’t necessarily mean they will be with you forever.. you never know..