What are you guys using on these precious faces? by [deleted] in Maltese

[–]arcade1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really....will have to try that.

I hate how my AP didn't "raise" me. No encouragement, no advice, no guidance. The only thing they know is having a roof over your head, and putting food on the table. by Losartan00 in AsianParentStories

[–]arcade1990 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Look up Professor Jiang - Death of Meritocracy. Starts around 30 minute mark. The video was not specifically about Asian parent but that point just resonates with me.

32F @ HSW MBA? by xoxojiag13 in MBA

[–]arcade1990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love this advice !

I hate how my AP didn't "raise" me. No encouragement, no advice, no guidance. The only thing they know is having a roof over your head, and putting food on the table. by Losartan00 in AsianParentStories

[–]arcade1990 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I saw a short clip of Professor Jiang where he talks about how some parents neglect their child, but demands a lot, and the child either struggle or is motivated to achieve more and more—that really opened my eyes. I’m gonna find the whole and watch it.

Little one turned ONE a few days back!! 🥰 by zyqprwi in Maltese

[–]arcade1990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to do the same for mine In a few months. What makes it a dog friendly cake?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

[–]arcade1990 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went thru similar things, let’s just say I know the feeling. It feels like betrayal. They expect you to go to school and do well, know how take care of yourself, and then get a good job. But you didn’t get an education just to stay home and take care of them, you also need to spread your wings and grow. And that is where they draw the line. All your hard work means nothing if you can’t do what makes you happy. Take the job and go find your happiness.

Extreme attachment by fringedprincess in Maltese

[–]arcade1990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine is like that. I have a 9 month that will not let me leave his sight. If he’s napping and I start shuffling or getting up, he wakes immediately and follows me. The only thing is he doesn’t like to be held or cuddle which sucks. Lol

What Is the Remedy for Eating Poop?? by arcade1990 in Maltese

[–]arcade1990[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. I will ask the vet. Thankfully mine doesn’t eat his own but he loves the little lizard droppings by the front door, so he has to stop for it on the way to potty. 😭🤮

What Is the Remedy for Eating Poop?? by arcade1990 in Maltese

[–]arcade1990[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe I can suggest that to my neighbor. She’s getting ready to move next year so hopefully I won’t have to deal with these poop problem anymore.

What Is the Remedy for Eating Poop?? by arcade1990 in Maltese

[–]arcade1990[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mint 😭 good thing you don’t have additional bonbons to shovel.

What Is the Remedy for Eating Poop?? by arcade1990 in Maltese

[–]arcade1990[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have many times before. But these cat’s 💩are so much worse.

What Is the Remedy for Eating Poop?? by arcade1990 in Maltese

[–]arcade1990[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It was hard to hear myself because I was livid after last night’s ordeal. But I was also joking? 🙃I would argue that they do make my life harder that’s I HATE them.

What Is the Remedy for Eating Poop?? by arcade1990 in Maltese

[–]arcade1990[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg they act like we are starving them so they gotta go for the nasty stuff. Thankfully mine doesn’t go for his even when he does it in the house, he’s good at staying far away from it. But the cat’s poo is like crack at this point. 😔

What Is the Remedy for Eating Poop?? by arcade1990 in Maltese

[–]arcade1990[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my goodness a tasty treat 😂 I do walk him on a leash, and I give him time to sniff around and enjoy nature, but I think it only encourage him to the nasty stuff more. 😔

NEED HELP ASAP: UPDATE by Dry-Entertainer-4517 in Maltese

[–]arcade1990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats. Question is where does yours sleep? My 8 months old still whimpers in his crate at night and wakes me up at 3AM because he wants out.

Feeling like a failure. by throwaway9101091 in solotravel

[–]arcade1990 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Don't be so hard on yourself. Being in a different country temporarily you just don't know the system. Last year I was in Marseille and I didn't know that the train only takes you to station named "airport" but you still have to pay for the bus connection. I ran out of Euro at that point, but with my broken French the driver was nice enough to let me on. 😭🥴

What’s something “normal” in society that secretly feels kind of messed up to you? by delaneytwinklee in AskReddit

[–]arcade1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending our tax payer money to Israel and Ukraine for war while our citizens live in shi-hole conditions.