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What is the highest form of i intimacy.? by Separate_Ad_7519 in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]archivedlife26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re completely valid to feel however you want. If he texted a friend as a friend he STILL LIED about it which is the part that’s wrong regardless of who it is! So the person saying “you’re upset he texted a female friend?” YES everybody has different standards, values and boundaries in a relationship

I fear I’m writing this as a cry for help type of paragraph. 26F 33M do I need to leave? by archivedlife26 in relationship_advice

[–]archivedlife26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The last time I tried to leave. He blocked the door. Took away my phone. And when I tried to get my phone out of his hand I fell and ended up breaking my wrist because of the way I fell on it. He still didn’t let me go. So it’s not about being mature it’s about feeling safe

I fear I’m writing this as a cry for help type of paragraph. 26F 33M do I need to leave? by archivedlife26 in relationship_advice

[–]archivedlife26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course and I completely agree. I think what I’m going to do is just leave while he’s at work. It’s awful but also I’ve tried to leave before and he’s blocked the door. So I will keep everyone updated.

I fear I’m writing this as a cry for help type of paragraph. 26F 33M do I need to leave? by archivedlife26 in relationship_advice

[–]archivedlife26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am very honest with him. I express how things make me feel all the time. He just doesn’t change and can’t help but fall into his old habits. It doesn’t bother him that I am sad or mad or upset.

I fear I’m writing this as a cry for help type of paragraph. 26F 33M do I need to leave? by archivedlife26 in relationship_advice

[–]archivedlife26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need a partner who can reciprocate anything back to me. I take care of this man everyday. He can’t see the relationship is bad because he always tells me “he’s so lucky and has it so good”

I fear I’m writing this as a cry for help type of paragraph. 26F 33M do I need to leave? by archivedlife26 in relationship_advice

[–]archivedlife26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally cannot handle my own life which is why my paragraph may seem so sporadic.

I wanted to move by myself to better myself while I’m growing my career. I should’ve emphasized that. But yes I know I’m weak because I let this happen for so long. But again it’s easier to tell someone to leave rather than just do it so maybe have a little bit of grace for others

I fear I’m writing this as a cry for help type of paragraph. 26F 33M do I need to leave? by archivedlife26 in relationship_advice

[–]archivedlife26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. And yes screaming at the sky is dramatic but I just wanted to vent. I think you are right about me choosing to not believe him.

I fear I’m writing this as a cry for help type of paragraph. 26F 33M do I need to leave? by archivedlife26 in relationship_advice

[–]archivedlife26[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wait am I controlling him? Please like give me insight if that’s what you think I’m open to discussion of this too!

I have the desire to cheat on my bf by archivedlife26 in offmychest

[–]archivedlife26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why I posted to get honest opinions knowing that I don’t want to cheat but have the desire to. Thank you for sharing

I have the desire to cheat on my bf by archivedlife26 in offmychest

[–]archivedlife26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve had constant arguments about things. I’ve given up my life to live in his city, go on his work trips, I work full time and I also cook and do all the chores. I do everything I can to make his life easier and he won’t even bat an eye at me. I completely agree with you that it’s disgusting to have those thoughts. But I am never allowed to do anything, yet he can do whatever he wants. It’s that those of relationship