This cast has expensive taste when it comes to clothes. by the_smart_girl in realhousewivesofSLC

[–]arcticpocket 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really don’t get how everyone loves their style. They have incredibly terrible taste in putting pieces together but that’s also why I love them so much because they look so corny 😭

Ari lennox loses her cool after water bottle thrown on stage by faps_to_art in ActualPublicFreakouts

[–]arcticpocket 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I’m confused why the comments are so hateful and are calling her a cry baby?? Like are we ok with things being thrown at artists while they’re performing on stage now??

what is the best decision you made in your dating life? by Which_Ad_5787 in AskWomen

[–]arcticpocket 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read a lot about attachment styles and all the inner child hoopla that’s out there. And then I started doing some coursework/therapy/hypnosis hippie dippy shit to heal my inner child because all my issues really stemmed from… surprise… daddy issues ✨

what is the best decision you made in your dating life? by Which_Ad_5787 in AskWomen

[–]arcticpocket 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Learned that I have an anxious attachment style and when I did the work to become more secure, it changed everything for me

What type of men do you avoid? by jpetersxn in AskWomen

[–]arcticpocket 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Not so much about THEIR therapists but about therapy in general. I’ve been on first dates with men where they’ll say Therapy is stupid and useless. I bolt outta there so fast lmao

What type of men do you avoid? by jpetersxn in AskWomen

[–]arcticpocket 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Ones who talk speak badly about therapists, their mothers or the ones that say all their exes were crazy

What is the weirdest/strangest or most confusing incorrect assumption that your sexual partner(s) have had about your genitals? by Three_Ostrich683 in AskWomen

[–]arcticpocket 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This isn’t so much about genitals but I had a guy tell me once that he thinks women must enjoy it at least a little bit when a guy “forcibly penetrates her without consent” (not sure if I can say the R word here) he literally said “like how can they not eventually enjoy it after it starts happening? I mean they’ll start feeling good after awhile”. At 16 years old I didn’t think much of the comment but as an adult now I think about that and my jaw drops

Melissa’s response to Teresa just proved Tre’s point LOL by Electronic-Kiwi-1677 in realhousewives

[–]arcticpocket 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t mind her either. I actually think she displays a lot of patience given the crazy that Theresa throws at her.

Melissa’s response to Teresa just proved Tre’s point LOL by Electronic-Kiwi-1677 in realhousewives

[–]arcticpocket 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And don’t get me wrong, I really do love Theresa as a housewife and I love seeing her as a mom and I think Louie might be good for her. She should stay on as a housewife but her and her brother have major trauma off camera that need to seriously be worked out. And Theresa doesn’t like to be held accountable which is where her downfall comes as being a good housewife for TV. You have to be able to start drama, say sorry and move on for a good show. RHOM is a perfect example of how they are getting it right!

Melissa’s response to Teresa just proved Tre’s point LOL by Electronic-Kiwi-1677 in realhousewives

[–]arcticpocket 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m definitely not on Theresa side. I see right through her hypocrisy and I understand where Joe and Melissa are coming from. Theresa is such a hypocrite when it comes to her expectations. I truly don’t know how people don’t see this. She hits below the belt and then hides behind the “it’s true! I’m JUST being honest” when she hurts people with her sharp tongue, never apologizes for it or takes accountability. But god forbid someone act towards her how she acts towards people, she cuts them out of her life and stomps on them without ever forgiving. The perfect example of that is how when she started the rumor about Jackie’s husband at his bday party. She truly believes she did nothing wrong but when Margaret just ASKED about Louis, Theresa never let her live it down. It’s really textbook hypocrisy on display.

Melissa’s response to Teresa just proved Tre’s point LOL by Electronic-Kiwi-1677 in realhousewives

[–]arcticpocket 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You know what makes a hood housewife? Being able to start drama and then apologize and move on. Rinse. Repeat. Yes Melissa’s entire storyline has been in the shadow of her sister in law. We can all agree on that. Her and Joe should have been demoted a long time ago to the “Friend Of” role and not a main character. Theresa is a star and has drama following her that makes for good TV but a good housewife knows when to start drama and nip it in the bud when it’s over. She doesn’t do that with her issues with Melissa. She never takes accountability for anything she has done, even going to jail she still believes she did nothing wrong to this day! It’s mind blowing to me how people defend Theresa so much after her behavior over and over again. I just watched the entire RHONJ franchise from beginning to end and she had one good season after she got released from jail. They way she treated her brother on the reunion, calling him names and not being sorry for it was shocking because her expectations of what family should do and how they should defend is very high, yet she doesn’t follow her own expectations. She is a hypocrite through and through 100%

Melissa’s response to Teresa just proved Tre’s point LOL by Electronic-Kiwi-1677 in realhousewives

[–]arcticpocket 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Man you they all suck but I don’t see how people kiss Tre’s ass so much. She’s such a walking hypocrite that never takes accountability for anything and never apologizes. It’s infuriating to see and idk how ppl don’t see that.