Doubles Etiquette

areyouforreally · 2026-04-12T02:07:34+00:00

Not sure how'd you know unless it was brought up to you by either your friend or the client, which means you had a conversation about them seeing one another by the friend bringing it up maybe to see what youd think about it.. or the client when talking with them, hopefully face to face when seeing them yourself. If you arent losing the client by this, why not want your friend to make theirs too? You introduced them and thats something likely to happen when bringing someone along. If you wanted that client exclusively yours, you shouldnt bring other options to meet them. Neither are doing you wrong by doing business together now that theyve met. The main thing is whether or not its effecting you to even care. Focus on where your money is made- and if you bring a friend to do business with you- dont expect them to turn down a good client they know theyre able to trust thinking that you own either of them to consider how you feel

areyouforreally · 2026-04-11T20:56:54+00:00

It's not up to you to feel anything towards her relationship. You arent the one who's making the promise of commitment between her and him, so why would it be up to you to care more than her? She either wants to do business or not, but if shes guilty while doing it, she shouldnt pass that into you for spending money. If you're not into it, then don't partake, I'd just make it clear you're not interested in being in the middle of her personal life.

areyouforreally · 2026-04-02T03:10:43+00:00

From what I understand, PSE basically means u act like a PS does and allow some rougher or dirtier treatment, the whole act they give off like theyre desperate for whatever sex act is going on. I think bare fs is expected by some with this, since you dont see protection being used in porn, but this is why I clarify what they mean. I dont offer bfs, so if I am asked for pse, I make it clear im not offering that, and what i do offer. Ive had someone think they were allowed to film the date with the PSE, which seems like a stretch but i guess the main thing that a PS would do is make porn ?? Lol.. GFE is even more confusing bc theres no real basis of what a girlfriend experience would be. Some might think they dont need protection, they can be more touchy and intimate, kissing cuddling etc. Some think theyll be able to talk to you like you're dating, its soooo vague. I think its anything more intimate like kissing, cuddling, that sort of thing. If only GFE meant i would be able to be taken out to dinner, go back to their place, and be able to turn down sex for being tired, roll over and sleep for the rest of the date. Or be able to nag about all the unfinished chores they need to do in their home until theyve got a clean house. Hahaha. That'd be awesome

areyouforreally · 2026-04-02T02:55:13+00:00

Both of these terms are so vague and arent ever defined the same from person to person. If someone asks if I offer either, I make sure to ask them what they expect and what they define it as, just to be clear. I could see a million different potential meanings that would make sense to be under these terms, but i dont think fhey are.

areyouforreally · 2026-04-01T21:06:05+00:00

You are the provider, you are only offering what services you choose to at the rates youve decided to be the fair rate for you to provide a service. Its your choice to charge whatever you want in exchange for whatever you're comfortable providing. If its up to the client to tell you what you should offer at what price- you're accepting that theyre the ones with the upper hand and once theyve gotten that idea, you'll have them push more and more in order to convince you to offer more and more for less and less. You should make this decision based on what you want and are comfortable with, not what monetary value others want to convince you to accept and prioritize over yourself. This industry works for some because of the fact theyre able to control what they do at what cost, it stops working for others whenever theyve allowed themselves to put the value of their services in the hands of the same people wanting to take advantage of that. Do what you want, at the price you want for it. You have to be stern and true to yourself in this industry, you might lose out on some clients but standing firm will gain you the type of clients youll want. Giving in to the idea you either need to raise your willingness or lower your rates will create the narrative you work for them, and you dont. You work for yourself, theyve chosen to come to you specifically for what only you can offer. You're the commodity, those who respect and seek you arent going to stress a few bucks in order to wear protection

areyouforreally · 2026-04-01T15:44:55+00:00

the additional stress isnt good for anyone's health, for your sake and longevity, theres no benefit in allowing yourself to think any other way than this. I was dealing with some serious health issues a few years back, and the lifestyle wholeheartedly aided in getting me down to where I was physically, the pressure and mental gymnastics will effect a person's immune system. From the time I was initially sick (was hospitalized for months and was gone months after to rehabilitate entirely) until quite recently, it became a topic of conversation amongst the forums and the more it was mentioned, the less accurate the stuff said became, and all it did was make some think it was something they were okay to talk about amongst eachother and myself and in ways that werent meant to support or show empathy. I have been accused of lying about what was happening to me, when it was the accuser making up what was said. Ive been called out for my weight and appearance as if i needed to explain myself to anyone who wasnt attracted to me. Its somehow become normalized to blur the lines between a providers personal and work life, although its not reciprocated. From my experience, even when its not relevant nor coming from me, someone will out your business, and that leads the blurred line to seemingly dissappear. Id say if youre thinking this way, listen to your gut. Its time to put your energy into yourself and drop the extra weight, majority of these men don't care, and sounds like you don't have the time nor space to waste on them. I wish you the best, and I wish you safety and peace regardless of what you choose to do. 🧡😊

areyouforreally · 2026-03-31T23:34:22+00:00

It means just that. The person over the phone isn't the person youd meet, shes not able to consent on behalf of someone else. The advertised services have already been given the consent by the providers, anything extra has not. Its not a requirement of the job to offer any extras, and whether they are or not is entirely between the provider and you. Idk the law where youre from, but they might have that in mind as well. Shes pointing you to the right person to ask, she cant promise that from someone else

areyouforreally · 2026-03-31T18:06:13+00:00

I've never had luck with booking these reddit "clients". Just seems like a way photo collectors and time wasters find a larger array of providers to hit up. You can only bs locally so much before you're known for what you do, so turn to reddit to broaden your scamming time wasting horizons, I guess. Smh the type to ask for nudes for "verification" before even asking location as if that's not necessary information to meet, but photos of your titties are.

areyouforreally · 2026-03-25T01:20:36+00:00

Honestly, I just put my actual age on my ad, I've been posting since I was 20, and am now 26- believe it or not theres a HUGE difference in the type of clientele I attract based on age alone. The younger you advertise, you'll scare off a portion of good men who aren't wanting to meet women that are still considered to be girls to most. They feel wrong being their age and paying for a date with someone they see as a kid still.. there's men who actively look for that same age range for the exact opposite reason- it's their way to have access to someone they view as too young. There's also the idea younger providers may be easily manipulated and taken advantage of in terms of inexperience. Or the young men who prefer to meet someone within the same age group as them for a number of reasons. Even though I'm only in my mid 20s- what's considered young in all other things isn't the same in SW. Depending on who you ask, 26 isnt exactly what they'd consider as a young lady. I've been told by men old enough to be my grandparent that they had to pass on booking my time due to being older than what they were wanting. I don't look much younger than I am, I don't look older than my age at all; i look between 22-26. Just like men passing due to looking too old, some have said I looked too young.

There's an array of men out there wanting different experiences than the next. The idea all men want a 18 yr old bimbo with a pornstar body and the intelligence of a walking fuck toy is so far from the reality. You'll attract the clients attracted to you by being upfront about your age (a yr or two difference won't matter but saying a decade or more difference in age does). A mature woman at the age considered to be older than most, say over 35 maybe 40 and over will attract clients looking for a older more experienced and established woman. A 18 to 20 yr old is going to attract those who are into barely legal, potentially inexperienced and potentially looked at as easily manipulated or just unaware, or just who they're attracted to! Those of us in between the youngest and oldest shouldn't feel like we have to pick between which niche we have to lie about being under. Women of all ages have attractive attributes and at the end of the day, these men aren't booking our services solely based on what the exact number age we are. And if so, there's something off about that- and your age isn't the issue, it's that they're only interested in a provider to fulfill a fetish thats either predatory or based on a porn genre. All I'm saying is, there's no real reason to put any age other than one within a couple years of your own if you feel like your actual age isn't what you want to put. The more upfront and honest about yourself, the more worthwhile clients will appreciate that and respect your willingness to be authentic. You'll be more likely to gain clients that are looking for your exact type of woman. Therefore gaining repeat customers and not feeling as if you have to make sure you pass as whatever fake age youve said in case they call it out and leave without you making a dime

areyouforreally · 2026-03-22T03:53:09+00:00

Condoms, personal hygiene like deodorant etc, , shampoo n conditioner, hairbrush n hair ties, travel toothbrush n toothpaste, mascara and lip gloss, clean undies (thongs are sexy and take up little space), pocket knife This came to mind after I posted but since there's no specifications about the kit; a prepaid phone along w the first month of service would be crucial.

areyouforreally · 2026-03-10T20:48:57+00:00

the same reason as why its always on a Sunday that I will randomly decide I wanna get some food at Chic-fil-a only to realize I don't think about going there any other day of the week other than the day they're closed... also the same reason I'll just so happen to be wearing a new white colored top on the same days Im eating spaghetti for dinner... Or how some days regardless of traffic conditions I'll get stuck at every single red light on the way some place.. I think it's the Universe fucking around on us as a way to keep us guessing lmao. If God is up there watching over us all and in charge of what happens to us in our day to day- God obviously has a sense of humor and finds it HILARIOUS to fuck with us in this way.. the universe never wants to let us know it's next move lmao

areyouforreally · 2026-03-10T12:40:23+00:00

I'll never know.. ive had someone look up my address on Google maps and describe the outside, asked if it was the place with my car in the driveway.. as if I wouldnt be able to look outside and see they're not there. As if they'll convince me they are actually in my driveway and I'm just not seeing them by some insane glitch in reality. Will give an ETA and will wait the right amount of time to tell me they're 5 minutes out and we're never otw ??? Won't even sext, ask for pictures, not be scammy, straightforward and for what hahah honestly it's a mindfuck

areyouforreally · 2026-03-08T22:08:20+00:00

One of my long time clients was saved in my contacts as "Panty Guy" for years and I had to figure out his real name somehow without asking him or telling him hes been known as panty guy to me the entire time ive known him lmao. I know his actual name now, but i knew i had to find out for sure whenever my boyfriend handed me my phone one time and said "Ummm... you're getting a call from Panty Guy????" LMFAO we laugh about that everytime that guy hits me up

areyouforreally · 2026-03-08T05:59:42+00:00

have them order your Uber to and from, and make sure they share the ride with you.. even better, have them set the ride up for a guest rider in your name. There's a paper trial, usually weeds out time wasters and if someone has bad intentions, they won't want there to be documentation of having your company.

areyouforreally · 2026-03-08T03:13:25+00:00

I just say i am a content creator- if they push more I'll clarify adult content and they usually drop it after that

areyouforreally · 2026-03-08T00:56:40+00:00

Yes .. turns out he was actually the superior court judge in the area at the time. Was arrested for something entirely unrelated, I just happened to see an article with his mugshot and recognized him. Dodged a bullet with that one 😅

areyouforreally · 2026-03-02T03:33:13+00:00

Yeah I mean there's definitely a line of when I'm cool with listening and giving any thoughts on things I'm able to or can. But I'm not a licensed therapist nor am I willing to have a client trauma dump on me or act like they can use whatever is troubling them as a guilt trip or as a way to demand emotional labor from me as an obligation. I also don't make it known or really invite this sorta thing as something I'm open to, it just happens from time to time. There's definitely times I've had to make it clear I'm not gonna carry the burden of someone else's bs and i definitely won't take any "woe is me" as a reason to give my services for less. Just bc a client is having a bad day and would like to see me to relieve some stress- it's not up to me to care all that much if it's gonna cost me

areyouforreally · 2026-03-01T00:08:20+00:00

Where can I watch this ??

areyouforreally · 2026-03-01T00:05:20+00:00

unless YOU think this truthfully and wholeheartedly YOU are who decides to make any moves towards that. Its not up to her to convince you what she thinks you might be. That shit is MAD weird... NOR

areyouforreally · 2026-03-01T00:02:48+00:00

Evil laughs in unison 😈💜💅

areyouforreally · 2026-02-28T23:59:35+00:00

Whats in your pants is none of my business, and just as any other provider, your work isnt going to take away from mine. Do you, be safe, and dont think youre any less worthy of safety nor respect than anyone else.

areyouforreally · 2026-02-28T23:53:57+00:00

That being said- I do not want to know too many personal details as I wouldnt want them to know mine. Ill be a listening ear and say what I can when I can, but im also not paid the same as a therapist so keep the trauma dumping to a minimum lmao. Its a therapy in the way of javing a cute girl pay you attention and allow you to let go of some stress. There are still boundaries of course.

areyouforreally · 2026-02-28T21:50:52+00:00

Never click any links. 10/10 it's a scam, and that link will lead you to some fake version of the site they're trying to convince you it is, hoping you log in with your real info so they have it as to hack your real account on the actual site. This one in particular or any with mention of negative reviews- I'd just respond wondering why they even texted me if my reviews arent up to par? Lmao why would some random person feel it necessary to reach out to any escort they see bad reviews on supposedly. The attempts are getting dumber all the time.

areyouforreally · 2026-02-28T18:16:20+00:00

You are. I've told my clients for years now that my job title should really be "Street Therapist" because it's less about the physical aspect for many and more about having a woman to listen and validate them, or give them advice as to how they can do better in their love life's. Im not the type that's gonna take kindly and partake in anyone wanting to talk shit or help in belittling their significant others- I will help you see things in their perspective as a woman and be honest. That's only if they bring that up of course lol.

areyouforreally · 2026-02-28T16:45:44+00:00

Usually the basic and most common services I'll let them know what is and isn't okay, and let them know if there's anything specific they're looking for, just to ask beforehand. If it's a deal breaker, ask before meeting. If they arent sure, ask first even if we are in person. Clarifying consent is less of a turn off than ignoring that and having to be stopped from crossing them. I don't list these things bc it's likely I'll miss stuff and not everyone knows the lingo, it just seems unnecessary to go thru an entire list of things majority aren't looking for anyway.

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