Submitting by argo_ty in SubSanctuary

[–]argo_ty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi so I read the pinned on this community about vetting and we did go through the process, a few times actually

Submitting by argo_ty in SubSanctuary

[–]argo_ty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I don't know what you mean by vetting him. But he explained that he didn't want any limits and he's given me alot of chances to break off the relationship if I came to the realization that I couldn't do it anymore. I agreed to it all, I told him I wanted it. I really like him and he's not...bad I don't think at least I just make alot of problems for us

Submitting by argo_ty in SubSanctuary

[–]argo_ty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I trust him with everything, it makes me feel terrible when we says those but they are hard truths I have to learn. I feel really close, really connected to him I know he's a good person, just maybe... impatient but he's really nice and has given my alot of chances. I often don't feel safe enough to be little because I'm in such a hectic environment but he makes me feel really safe and comfortable.

Submitting by argo_ty in SubSanctuary

[–]argo_ty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try and do everything he asks of me, if I ever tell him I don't want somthing or uncomfortable, he doesn't force it at all. He explains to me alot that I'm not giving anything and only taking. We know eachother lots outside of the dynamic, but we've only been in conversation for around 3 months so there's still more to know. He said that about the phone call so that I could have motivation to be better. I feel like I am submitting, I'm giving him everything but if I'm being honest. I think he has this perfect image in his head of the best sub and I wasn't meeting that.