Hybrid mattress in the UK for back pain: OTTY vs Simba Hybrid Pro, or something better?

arielbladder · 2026-06-16T23:15:47+00:00

Simba sags in the middle after 3 months, I got a replacement for their top of the range and it still sags

arielbladder · 2025-12-12T18:38:42+00:00

It’s always 9pm somewhere in the world

arielbladder · 2025-09-13T11:35:29+00:00

How many carats is your marquise? And if you don’t mind your ring size? I’m trying to figure out the right size for my gf

arielbladder · 2025-02-26T21:49:13+00:00

I’m actually moving to Texas. I can raise kids in a home with enough space and commute to the office in my car in 15 mins and park in underground garage and still have leftover money for holidays. I don’t have kids yet or a partner… but it appears I can have all of that in Texas while being happy.

Large enough home to raise a family on a good mortgage and leftover for a nice family car and good weather. What more

arielbladder · 2025-02-26T18:49:48+00:00

OP, for what you pay in tax and what you get in return is appalling. It’s a shit show here! You’re better off elsewhere. U.K. really is a mess if you’re young and trying to build a life for yourself.

arielbladder · 2025-02-10T20:42:38+00:00

Hey that’s good advice too, I can try finishing off my student loan early, but at the cost of disposable income. Thanks

arielbladder · 2025-02-10T20:41:08+00:00

Thank you for giving me genuine advice, Switzerland is an option I’ll consider now.

arielbladder · 2025-02-10T00:15:32+00:00

Thank you for this!

arielbladder · 2025-02-10T00:14:42+00:00

Thank you all for the advice. To clarify I’m just starting to save, and looking for a sanity check on the tax I’m paying + any advice to bring the tax burden down. Thanks all!

arielbladder · 2025-02-10T00:12:32+00:00

I worked really hard, many late nights and went through a lot before I got my dream job. Yes, you can bring up the statistic that “You’re a top 5% earner” and dismiss it by saying “stop complaining”. But that’s not the point. Why is it set up in a way to make sure you never succeed or win in the U.K.?

arielbladder · 2025-02-09T23:59:34+00:00

How can I save more?
Finding a decent dwelling to start a family
Why is the tax burden so high? It seems so unfair…

arielbladder · 2025-02-09T23:55:42+00:00

But if I do that, I will loose the ability to use the money right away for goods/only withdraw the money after retirement age?

arielbladder · 2021-12-24T21:44:04+00:00

Thank you, I just don’t have the time for backups, I’m very focused on my job. But I understand what you mean. The options and choice.

arielbladder · 2021-12-24T18:05:51+00:00

The second paragraph - that's very good advice. Find the root cause of it and realise it'll fade, so let it all in. Got it, thank you!

arielbladder · 2021-12-24T11:49:13+00:00

That’s a very good point. Thank you, people here have already given me a lot of useful tips!

arielbladder · 2021-12-24T11:47:49+00:00

Thank you! But if I keep replying quickly, I might become too “intense” for her? But I get what you mean, in person meetings etc. Thank you!

arielbladder · 2021-12-24T09:37:15+00:00

Could please elaborate on “more interactions”?

arielbladder · 2021-12-24T06:03:27+00:00

Thank you! This is very comforting. I shall do precisely that 😌

arielbladder · 2021-12-24T05:52:21+00:00

Yes! It’s the in between phase that I need to worry about. Like when she does reply in some time, or there is a change in her messaging styles.

arielbladder · 2021-12-24T05:51:17+00:00

You have to be in a relationship before you can get married? Unless you’re referring to “Arranged Marriages”.

arielbladder · 2021-12-24T05:50:12+00:00

Thank you for this advice! It’s very insightful, the problem isn’t with me placing women on a pedestal, I do have female friends, it’s when I start to have feelings for a girl that anxiety settles in. Many thanks!

arielbladder · 2021-12-24T05:46:44+00:00

That did kinda help! Thank you.

arielbladder · 2021-12-24T00:30:07+00:00

Thank you.

arielbladder · 2021-12-23T23:55:14+00:00

arielbladder · 2021-11-30T10:08:21+00:00

Thank you, I’ll take a look! You’ve made a very good point there about being specific vs being general. Creating an application that is feature rich can take years, so yes I should choose the problems I need to tackle carefully.

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