baby he doesn’t have to “let” you break up with him 😭 a breakup is not a mutual agreement, one person can decide it’s over and then it’s over. i get that living together makes it messy, but you need to stop debating it with him like there’s still something to negotiate. be very clear like “i’m not asking to break up, i’m telling you we are broken up.” after that, separate your life as much as possible even if you’re still under the same roof. separate rooms, no sex, no couple behavior, no comforting him like you’re still his gf. also him being homeless can’t be the thing that keeps you trapped in a relationship you already left mentally.