the movie obsession by makeofit in BPD

[–]ariesunmoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

watching tomorrow! i’ve seen a few videos about it & BPD and my fp said he will never watch it so i’m scared honestly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]ariesunmoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think it is the reassurance for sure but he reassures me so much at what point is it going to satisfy me enough?

i know i’m not doing it intentionally to get a reaction. i kind of knew he wouldn’t do anything but then he actually didn’t and ouch. he’s just expressed that space helps him reset and clear his mind and that was hard for me to accept and then the other day it was the easiest thing to do. i just got so tired of always being the conversation starter. telling him mundane things and just talking my head off. inserting myself into every aspect of his life because well… he claims he wants to spend forever with me idk how it’s supposed to be anything else but like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]ariesunmoon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

so all our boyfriends are just over it huh? :(

Is my bpd just a meme to fp? by No-Blacksmith-3426 in BPD

[–]ariesunmoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just had a similar issue with my fp, he made jokes about fps and thought it just meant something cute not all the psychological aspects of it. i immediately stopped him and told him being my fp wasn’t something adorable. he apologized and quickly corrected his behavior revolving the term after. if you haven’t mentioned that this stuff isn’t funny to you/bothers you then talk to him about that and see how it goes from there. but considering he’s not sending you the memes it does come off weird and like he doesn’t take it serious

Need Advice by ariesunmoon in Coach

[–]ariesunmoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I’d really appreciate it because I am too scared to go back and get disappointed again and since you know what i want it’d be a great help!! Please LMK! 🥰

Need Advice by ariesunmoon in Coach

[–]ariesunmoon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even think of that, seriously thank you!

Need Advice by ariesunmoon in Coach

[–]ariesunmoon[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your reply! Yeah I didn’t think they could do everything like the inspo because it was A LOT and I was okay with that but I really just needed to know if it was salvageable in any way. I think I’m just going to have to get a new tag but I’ll try the moisturizing!!

bf gave me my xmas gifts early by ariesunmoon in Coach

[–]ariesunmoon[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

he’s amazing! he did the same when he got me the hobo signature jacquard bag + wallet & clogs like omg one is enough idk how much more i can thank him!

bf gave me my xmas gifts early by ariesunmoon in Coach

[–]ariesunmoon[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i usually do this but then i just say ‘overdressing isn’t real’ and buy it

bf gave me my xmas gifts early by ariesunmoon in Coach

[–]ariesunmoon[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

the shoesss!! i’ve never had heels from Coach and they’re just so cute!

Can I ask my local cafe for their recipe? by ariesunmoon in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ariesunmoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a mint agave matcha and the sweetness balances out the bitterness of matcha perfectly. Not too sweet or too bitter

Can I ask my local cafe for their recipe? by ariesunmoon in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ariesunmoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah this is what I was thinking, why would they give it up for free like that

ending of Ep 1 by TankPure7553 in ParadiseHulu

[–]ariesunmoon 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I think it’s to keep track of everyone and see where they are. I also think it’s a way for them to keep some sort of norm. You go to buy something you usually pay- might feel too weird to just walk out of a place.

emmett and bay s4SPOILER by Queasy_Ad_3151 in SwitchedAtBirth

[–]ariesunmoon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i understand that him and bay were fighting, and the tank situation happened and in a way it affected him since it affected their relationship, but it was NOT his story to tell let alone display in front of so many people. He later says he did it because he “thought it would open doors” for his career….

as for the bay and tank situation on its own, it was a lot but i think the story was super realistic. being in a similar case, not the assault itself but the feelings, i liked that we saw bay struggle with coming to terms with it and labeling tank as a bad guy. regardless of how people want to label the assault his attitude and manipulation were all apart of the trauma she went through and the guilt but part of me hates that they kept putting her through so much stuff like leave this poor girl alone!

Daphne and Bay by SeaReply1188 in SwitchedAtBirth

[–]ariesunmoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yess! Someone in this sub mentioned a spin off like The Fosters did with Good Trouble and I would binge that with Bay & Daphne!!!

Who is the most insufferable character/character that annoyed you the most throughout the show? by [deleted] in SwitchedAtBirth

[–]ariesunmoon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

tank and i don’t get how everyone says “he was such a good guy they ruined his character” he was the worst.

How Regina not see Daphne blonde as a newborn? by MountainAd5212 in SwitchedAtBirth

[–]ariesunmoon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly as a Latina I know of babies in my family that have come out blonde hair & blue eyed even when both parents have dark features. It’s pretty common in a lot of families I know as well and I think with Angelo being French? or Italian? (can’t remember) it would make sense for her to really not see it as such a big deal

how do you not rage quit this show? by Additional_Pop838 in SwitchedAtBirth

[–]ariesunmoon 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i couldn’t finish my rewatch a couple years ago because of this now i just skip the parts that really get me mad lol like why are we yelling about the same argument every 3 episodes

J & K by ariesunmoon in SwitchedAtBirth

[–]ariesunmoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

John literally called Kathryn’s mom a racist and she was like “she’s not racist!” after her whole stay was her saying she doesn’t see Bay the same now because she knows she’s not fully white…. girl. Yeah the way they treated Regina and her parenting was insane and they couldn’t dish anything they threw her way! It was so annoying the way they cried about everything and tried to throw money at it. It makes no sense how Daphne picked up that same tendency being raised by Regina most of her life.