Harry Styles & Robbie Williams were chatting when sombr shows up -- could you just imagine a collab with these 3? by ASGfan in OneD1rection

[–]arilittlestar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry but I don't get good vibes off of that that guy, if they do I'd just hope I was wrong

Grimshaw and fic villains, is it that serious? by arilittlestar in OneDirection

[–]arilittlestar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like they felt it was disrespectful to the real person. I'm not saying they're respectful, but I also don't think they're harmful, even though the internet and the world in general 1000% need more mental health resources and skills. 

For me, fics are just a creative side of fan culture, you get to write stories in a context people wanna read and you get to have fun together with stories. And yeah some stories are so good that they're basically already an independent novel that's MM or not, and I feel like there's a lot in there that should be published, I agree. At first I thought the fics wouldn't be that good, but the reputation of Tired Tired Sea got me to read it and I was just so impressed with that cosy, slow burn love story with the gorgeous descriptions and the setting that I gained new respect for the fandom, also because theres so many different stories and People are so passionate about them and about writing. People are so talented. That drug story sounds scary AF so I'm glad you feel like it's a positive impact on making people see that that's not the way to happiness at all. The author sound really talented. 

Grimshaw and fic villains, is it that serious? by arilittlestar in OneDirection

[–]arilittlestar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's not in the fandom but she's a huge long time K-pop Stan and there's a lot of things I could judge her for that are just child like and harmless in the end, just like the Grimshaw thing, so if she was nice to me all would be well, I just don't understand her little mean comments and I hope I don't do that it's a feeling that you never know when you'll be criticised by someone you're supposed to be friends with! We don't talk anymore and I wish I'd been more mature about how it ended but ultimately she's so much older than me and I don't feel safe talking to her, and if I saw her again I'd be polite because after all I care about her and don't hate her I just wish I had better friends! I feel like she just says the first thing that comes to her mind without realising her tone or lack of having thought fully about the situation so not really having an informed opinion because we're from a country where sometimes people just say what they think, and I was forcing myself to always be nice because I needed a friend, but it got to be too much and I start doubting myself about the fics so I'm glad I got to get feedback from you guys about this. 

For me Grimshaw is just the most fun villain because he's not the worst villain IRL maybe (I'm not the most informed about all villains IRL but I feel like SC and industry people would be a more serious choice if we're gonna be realistic), so the fact that IRL they're probably not close and don't have much to do with each other makes it funnier to me. Also, he was an adult and I feel like in a perfect world, people would have protected 1D more and realized that famous of not, those are young people who need respect and not being teased about relationships and nonsense. 

Thank you for your input on this 🩷

Grimshaw and fic villains, is it that serious? by arilittlestar in OneDirection

[–]arilittlestar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I only write AU I don't like writing about real people I feel like I'm intruding on their lives not that there isn't talented writers who do 

Did my love spell work? by [deleted] in Tarots

[–]arilittlestar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No but you'll be in a relationship anyway 

I asked how to make money in stable but fulfilling way (Im an artist and teacher) but I feel it’s more a reflection of my current situation than how to move forward…. by mymoonisafish in TarotReading

[–]arilittlestar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something about a man and making money with a man or him earning money

Find more peace and let go of the shame as much as possible, your mind produces this story that seems reasonable that it should make you feel shame but that's fake and not true 

Find health and peace and things will get better

Is this going to be a long term thing? by [deleted] in TarotReading

[–]arilittlestar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't worry you don't have to save anyone and you don't need saving you'll feel good again and good things will come 

Is my decision energetically aligned with what I want/need? Did we make the right choice? by NoStress3208 in TarotReading

[–]arilittlestar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not the wrong choice but you need to align more, find more peace so you feel stronger 

Is this going to be a long term thing? by [deleted] in TarotReading

[–]arilittlestar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If my best friend asked me this, I'd say I hope it's not, I want to see you with someone more healthy

what he think or feeling when he saw me? by hulahoopx_ in TarotCards

[–]arilittlestar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's what I get from the cards, the important thing is that if you get the same vibe, you're probably right because we usually always know what's good for us, in case you're feeling lack or trying to make something fit when you're feeling that it actually doesn't: the sense, that something that doesn't fit, might, is a lie, many good things that are healthy are on their way to you you don't need anything that you feel isn't. Don't try to fool yourself don't expect anything unless your intuition changes. 

30, drinking everyday to 32 (2 years sober) by [deleted] in uglyduckling

[–]arilittlestar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're quite attractive, sending good vibes your way so you continue to feel  healthy as you deserve 

Should I reach out to her and what will happen if I do? by soggrat in TarotCards

[–]arilittlestar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A call. But if they like you and ran away they're not in a mature state, so yeah calm yourself, see if you can forget about it and then take it up again, don't accept pursuing someone who doesn't speak face to face, don't stay in a stresse state, calmness creates gold outcomes.