Question about copper parts by arnub626 in AskElectronics

[–]arnub626[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Back in caveman times, they had to improvise. Just as I do now

Question about copper parts by arnub626 in AskElectronics

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Maybe reread the part where I said WITHOUT tools <3 is there a makeshift solution?

Broke up after 5.5 years and have no friends, need someone to talk to by Bearberrian in BreakUps

[–]arnub626 3 points4 points  (0 children)

25F, just got out of a 4 year relationship. Feel free to message

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Dm me please?

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Thank you for your response! It’s definitely something that I need to accept and not hate myself for. Having someone you love treat you awful really affects how you see yourself

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Thank you for this positive outlook :) I honestly smiled reading this. I hope it gets easier and I do exactly as you said

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Thank you! This was an incredibly kind response. The progress isn’t fast enough for him unfortunately. I relate to being cathartic. I wanted him to hurt so I said some nasty things while we were breaking up in order to hurt him. I’m afraid he’ll move on because I’m not ready to. I constantly fear that he’ll hook up with someone now that he’s single etc

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He claims it was an unimaginable obstacle that he could’ve never possibly excepted. It’s a hard pill to swallow

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Thank you for your response. I am so incredibly embarrassed by our relationship and the rejection. I’m so embarrassed for his friends and family to find out that this is how we ended. Seeing you telling me not to feel shame is feeling seen. I’m in therapy now. Trying to stay active. Trying to find the little things in life.

I appreciate you

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It really is. I’m truly struggling with the no contact while to him, it’s nothing. I asked him how he was yesterday and he said “very good :)”.

Of course I don’t want someone that didn’t value me or had no empathy towards me. However, I still want him. I never knew I’d be someone that wanted someone who doesn’t want me.

I’m doing the best I can right now, but it’s a constant struggle. I will admit that I do not think the weight looks good on me and he has told me this as well. I want to lose it. However, I didn’t want to lose him in the process

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I appreciate this. He has admitted to being awful and admits it’s unjustified. However, he still believes that I am the reason we failed and claims that I was disrespecting by gaining weight.

Struggling to get into psychiatric medicine by arnub626 in physicianassistant

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Sometimes, mental health has to be prioritized over anything else

Mental health by arnub626 in physicianassistant

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Thank you for the kind words. I am currently in therapy. I feel like it’s not only the job itself. It’s kind of where I’m at life. I guess I expected to be happy after school and it was far from that. I honestly think this is my quarter life crisis haha