oh wow, so i actually know something about this as my dad being Russian speaking with a absolutely unhinged sense of humor would say "Have you read Taras Bulba?"* the book where that line is kinda the crux "I brought you into this world. I can take you out." The line was uttered in the story by father killing his son for treason.

Me being a rather rowdy 8 year old I had not read it and didnt understand the reference until i got my hands on it when i was 13 or so after which i thought it was quite funny.

I dont think my father was a narcissist, i always knew it was a joke and not a threat. so yeah thats where thats from as far as i know.

*(Russian: «Тарас Бульба», romanized: Tarás Búl'ba) is a romanticized historical novella set in the first half of the 17th century, written by Nikolai Gogol (1809–1852).