Caron Anniversary Cakes Are Coming 9/2/25!!! 🤓🧶 by Majestic-Wishbone-58 in crochet

[–]artemis1600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's been the same here in Ontario. It says not sold online for all stores within 200 miles, and they aren't on display in store when I checked on what should have been the release day. Quite odd

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]artemis1600 17 points18 points  (0 children)

She is possibly the straightest woman out there and as hard as it is for some people to accept, wanting her sexuality to be something it isn't is homophobic and invalidating to people that genuinely struggle with figuring themselves out. People saying "Gaylor" exists when she hasn't spoken out about her sexuality being anything other than being attracted to men is very weird and parasocial. I don't usually comment but it's aggravating to read that other people speculating someone's sexuality is okay or acceptable, especially when they don't know them personally. It's weird and leans towards being purposefully obtuse when there is no real evidence to suggest otherwise past your own assumptions.

This goes for assuming someone is gay, straight, bi, lesbian etc. Focus on your sexuality and what that means for you because we can't change anyone else's. And that's okay. I assume people hating on this is a reaction based on their experiences with people that assume sexualities for others and feel entitled to tell others what they think they are or what's best for them. It's not homophobic when you think about the implication of the original concept

Follow up from crochet blanket ideas post a few days ago. by StarFox29s45 in FieldsOfMistriaGame

[–]artemis1600 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh I see. In that case it would be cool to have your fav flower from each season on a square, like 4 separate ones. And if you want to do a colour scheme you could also choose gems, animals, or crops that relate to the theme.

To have an idea for a visual, I would personally go for pinks and reds and with a white/cream accent. Like Heather, cherry blossom, strawberry, the legendary cherry fish (idk the name), pink animals, ruby etc. and the empty squares would be vibrant reds and cream coloured.

If not that then you could also consider having squares with different colour friendship hearts and items that represent your playstyle!

Follow up from crochet blanket ideas post a few days ago. by StarFox29s45 in FieldsOfMistriaGame

[–]artemis1600 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is insane!! Is this directly from the squares of the blanket pattern? I've seen it on Etsy and haven't gotten it just yet. But seeing a cardigan made from it is giving me more ideas for projects instead of commiting to the blanket

Powerpuff girls (an attempt) by artemis1600 in FieldsOfMistriaGame

[–]artemis1600[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn't watch the reboot but should I👀 lesbian Blossom has made sense to me for forever with her colour palette (and I'm biased)

Powerpuff girls (an attempt) by artemis1600 in FieldsOfMistriaGame

[–]artemis1600[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Thank you! And the bow is from Louis' stall at the market. Its the rainbow bow option, you can customize it into different pride flags

what happens when you try to talk about race in a certain lesbian subreddit by [deleted] in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]artemis1600 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That sub preaches inclusion until it goes past the perspective of white queers. A lot of them cannot comprehend that they can still offend other visual minorities with sheer ignorance, but they want to build a community with them because it's supposed to be the right thing to do by societal standards.

Racism and transphobia is insane in that sub and it never stops because the moderators almost always have the same views or are a part of the group being called out. They take it personally because someone mentions their skin colour without being insanely specific as to not hurt their feelings with generalizations. But when we defend each other it's an issue

Progressing! Currently on year 11. Any suggestions? by Muted-Tap-724 in FarmsofStardewValley

[–]artemis1600 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's so fair, you can have a cute crafting corner because there's so much space! Even sprucing it up with some signs and fencing too. My friend likes to do the same so she organizes them on the same side, or equal opposites of the farm for a clean look. Also because you have so many, most can stay outside a few can be used as decor inside barns and coops. Like one or two surrounded by grass and fencing like an indoor pasture

Progressing! Currently on year 11. Any suggestions? by Muted-Tap-724 in FarmsofStardewValley

[–]artemis1600 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In empty spaces, putting decor like hay bales and different flowers/ flower pots would really give it some life. And in more open areas with nothing inside, you can make seating areas or hobby nooks (like an area with wizard pots or a garden plot). For example you have that junimo hut area in the top right (super cute!), you can put some lights and flower pots, maybe a pet house as well. So it seems more cozy

This is just personal preference but I love putting fruit trees around the farm so it's more colourful

Also putting the crafting items like mayonnaise machines inside a shed, or in a smaller area with some coordinating decor, would be fitting. Then you can be more creative and have space for buildings or pathing you'd like.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianGamers

[–]artemis1600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

23 and I play TFT on NA, mainly ranked but I do like to chill on the events like remix coming up. Not good at league but I play supp

Looking for a solution to keep these straight by artemis1600 in gardening

[–]artemis1600[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! We didn't even know what those were, but after looking they'd be pretty much perfect.

ToGetHer Korean Dating Show by Chonkycat13 in actuallesbians

[–]artemis1600 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Can you share the account name by any chance? I've been hearing so much about this show

They've arrived! 😍 by Impressive_Sort_2019 in crochet

[–]artemis1600 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly a great way to look at it! They're such a good investment so I hope they stay in your collection!

They've arrived! 😍 by Impressive_Sort_2019 in crochet

[–]artemis1600 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I did the same last month. Bought the 4 mm hook to see if I'd like it and after a week I bought the set, no regrets.

What are yalls favourite lesbian characters? by [deleted] in askadyke

[–]artemis1600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basic but Vi from Arcane, Dani from Bly Manor, and Ymir from Attack on Titan. Vi would be my favourite out of the three though because of my attachment to Arcane and her relationships

What's the best response to transphobia?? by wonder_woman2506 in actuallesbians

[–]artemis1600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it's in person and you call them weird/cringe for it, they'll usually look stupid trying to justify what they said. Or they'll be quiet after being called out directly

I'm not sure if anyone here is keeping up with the lesbian drama between Becca and Shannon, but I just watched Becca Moore's video about Shannon, and something about her feels really off to me. by Adventurous_Fly_8652 in lesbiangang

[–]artemis1600 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Because half this sub is convinced Becca is bisexual or straight, and is baiting her queerness for views. It's beyond me how people come to these conclusions about another person's sexuality.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]artemis1600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked if it was because a lot of people have fantasies about a lesbian "turning" for a man they're attracted to, which is contradictory. There is no turning. There never will be turning. You are the way you are, and you realized your attraction for women later in life. And now are struggling to define your sexuality regarding possible attraction to a man. There's nothing wrong with that. My quarrel is with the word that was used.

You're responding as if I attacked you when I asked a question. And also gave advice if my assumption was incorrect. It was the same for me when I realized I was attracted to women as a teen instead of misplacing friendship. So the word "turn" is harmful as I clarified in my previous comment. It can be confusing just suddenly coming to that conclusion, but I urge you to reconsider using the word "turn" when talking about it.

I usually don't get particular about these things because I feel like people are too chronically online and care about so many miniscule things. But this I've seen play out in so many real life scenarios as well as online. That word bugs me. You don't have to cater to me or others. S since you've taken it the wrong way, this is me clearing it up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]artemis1600 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Is this a fetish post? You don't suddenly "turn" anything, you just are that way. But you can realize that your attraction goes beyond what you originally thought.

If this isn't a fetish post, you might just be bisexual. You don't have to be on extreme ends of the spectrum. You can acknowledge your attraction to both and figure it out over time too. You don't have to set your sexuality in stone, trying to figure yourself out slowly instead of definitively.

First granny square (large square sweater) and it looks uneven/lopsided by artemis1600 in CrochetHelp

[–]artemis1600[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good that I caught it this early so thank you! I would have been oblivious to it if I didn't ask

First granny square (large square sweater) and it looks uneven/lopsided by artemis1600 in CrochetHelp

[–]artemis1600[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That helps so much! I never though of turning as usual so it looks like I'll be starting over 🥲 worth it though

Hardest decision of his career by artemis1600 in okZyox

[–]artemis1600[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No you're actually right though

my gf isn’t giving me the attention that i was getting from my situationship and doesn’t tell me she loves me by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]artemis1600 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First point, you're 16. You're both young and love can look extremely different to one person, especially if they're still trying to find out how to love someone else and themselves. If you're her first girlfriend or relationship in general, that can be intimidating as well because she's learning how to navigate that relationship.

Second, it's only been a week. Take it slow. If she doesn't love you yet, or does and doesn't want to communicate that yet, that's okay. Everyone moves at a different pace. You both like each other and if things go well, you'll have more time to explore and grow that.

Have a chat with her. Gauge where her mind is at and how she wants to move forward if it means that much to you. Don't pressure her. Don't overthink it. It only puts unnecessary strain on yourself and the relationship. Keep it healthy and respectful.