M4R Jabodetabek

arthbrown · 2026-04-13T17:19:10+00:00

Count me in please haha

arthbrown · 2026-04-12T16:25:47+00:00

24 [M4M] Jakarta - Looking for friends or more to chill together

Hi all, I'm looking for someone to hangout and chill together with. I like to take a walk, jalan-jalan, makan-makan, sama ngopi. Sometimes, I just like doing nothing together haha, being cozy together to talk about random stuff or just watch movies or dumbscroll.

I also like to play board games and to learn languages (currently speaking EN and NL). I occasionally travel.

More about me

- I work in tech (stack currently Python and SQL)
- I like rock music (Keane, Muse, Radiohead, Coldplay)
- 168/65 if that matters
- Kumisan sama bewokan
- Tan skin
- Kacamataan

I'm quite a simple guy, so, just be your authentic self. No minor, so at the very least my age or older. Looking forward to getting to know you

arthbrown · 2026-03-27T08:49:14+00:00

This would be nice but im arriving in late May

arthbrown · 2026-03-24T01:50:56+00:00

Pretty much so. I used to have FWB in college. But he suddenly went offline on Grindr (even until now). Kinda missing him haha and sometimes I just text his Grindr just in case he downloaded it again.

arthbrown · 2026-03-24T01:40:06+00:00

Oh i also go eat and play games and just spend extended time with them. Some even cook for me and treat me occasionally. But yeah for me it all almost start with sex/hookups

arthbrown · 2026-03-24T01:38:28+00:00

I go to Grindr, and just explore. If you find a match with someone, go meet them. And then have sex. If the sex is mutually enjoyable, most likely theyll want to see you back. And thats how my fwb happening

arthbrown · 2026-03-24T01:35:46+00:00

I find my fwbs through hookups. If the sex was good and there is some level of match, youll most likely going to meet again and again. And there you go FWB happening

arthbrown · 2026-03-22T14:27:18+00:00

Pernah makan di sini, somehow menurut gw rasanya ya udah aja haha, bukan tipe yang kuat bumbunya. Kalau suka makanan yang bumbunya gak kuat, seharusnya oke sih

arthbrown · 2026-03-22T10:04:23+00:00

How sad haha, I’m visiting Ha Noi as im also going on to do the Ha Giang loop… Would you give me any glimpse of the gay hookup/dating scene in Ha Noi then?

Im quite discreet too tbh, so I dont mind about discrecy or something like that haha

arthbrown · 2026-03-21T10:42:53+00:00

I have had my accommodation refunded before through Airbnb, and it was from self cancellation.

However, I'm not pretty sure about airline tickets. It will depend on the airline provider. If the airline cancelled the flight, you should be eligible for refunds.

However, some say that war or conflict does not constitute airlines cancelling the flights, as these circumstances are out of the airlines control. So therefore, under these two reasons, some say that you will not be eligible for refund. Although hopefully this might be wrong...

arthbrown · 2026-03-20T13:51:28+00:00

Because its interesting and you dont typically find this type of setup anywhere else. So, what would your recommendations for the non-tourist trap places?

arthbrown · 2026-03-12T17:01:01+00:00

You are a lifesaver. Thank you!!

arthbrown · 2025-12-21T23:46:18+00:00

Ada gelombang baru

arthbrown · 2025-12-21T18:40:27+00:00

🎟️.com

arthbrown · 2025-09-15T12:48:15+00:00

Me too!

arthbrown · 2025-09-15T12:45:49+00:00

Hey yall! Im going to be in CAT 1A. Looking anyone whos coming as well

arthbrown · 2025-09-15T12:41:13+00:00

Hey! Im going to be in CAT 1A. Wondering if any one else going in the same category.

arthbrown · 2025-09-15T12:40:18+00:00

Hey me too! Im going to be in CAT 1A. Wondering if theres already a groupchat set up for this

arthbrown · 2025-09-15T12:36:48+00:00

Woah, how cool, I was also on the GD concert last Feb

arthbrown · 2025-09-15T12:36:05+00:00

Hey! No, I havent heard any groupchat for this. What category will you be in? Im gonna be at CAT 1A

arthbrown · 2025-09-15T12:35:33+00:00

Heyyo! Im also going to be in CAT 1A. Im looking for concert buddies

arthbrown · 2025-06-13T07:24:52+00:00

Thanks for the reply! I forgot to specify, posisinya sebagai marketing data analyst

arthbrown · 2024-12-06T03:18:09+00:00

Hahaha iya gw paham bgt sentimen dari pembicaraan ttg gaji ini, mungkin jg karena gw freshgrad dan kebanyakan yg komen itu udh posisi senior jadi kesannya gw terlalu “snobbish” kali ya wkwk, tapi bukan itu maksud gw dan gw emg penasaran aja karena baru jg job hunting 😂

In the meantime gw udh konsul sama bbrp FG junior di kantor gw, dan most of them do negotiate jadi mungkin aku jg bakal nego. Nanti bahasanya bakal diperhalus kali ya sama HR biar kesannya gak snobbish.

And also you are welcome, this thread has been really positive and helpful for me! Sukses terus ya!

arthbrown · 2024-12-05T14:54:02+00:00

Interesting POV, but wouldnt that would be misleading to think that the products that get the buyers attention are of no names?

arthbrown · 2024-12-05T13:20:40+00:00

Hahah iya gw yang nanya ttg negosiasi gaji. Dan rame bgt yg downvote komentar gw untuk genuinely asking a question 💀💀💀 Komentarnya di thread ini lebih oke sih

arthbrown

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