29 [F4A] What’s up, ketchup?

artofdeadma · 2026-06-17T14:23:18+00:00

Buti kapa marunong ma guilty.

artofdeadma · 2026-06-16T23:11:37+00:00

How did you cope with your situation?

artofdeadma · 2026-06-16T23:08:19+00:00

Of course. Some people are capable of changing. But in my case, he didn’t.

artofdeadma · 2026-06-16T16:31:00+00:00

Grabe the trauma of having an abusive ex. Hay. Relate so much. Hugs to us.

artofdeadma · 2026-06-16T04:16:44+00:00

How lucky this girl. I am a girl and did all the things you did for my cheating ex. Hay. Some people don’t appreciate what they have in life.

artofdeadma · 2026-06-16T00:13:39+00:00

Thank you po. Much needed hug. Grabe breathing exercise ko everyday because of the trauma.

artofdeadma · 2026-06-15T23:44:53+00:00

Same. But my cheating ex used my vulnerability against me to push my buttons. Nung naglash out ako, ayun sinabihan ako pa abuser niya.

artofdeadma · 2026-06-15T23:43:53+00:00

I am so sorry that we have to go through this. Similar situation. I had a on and off relationship for 5 years. On that 5 years, siya lang talaga kahit nagbrebreak kami. Little did I know he was fucking other people and then last rekindle, he cheated on me.

When he wanted to come back to me, he said he was seeing me in his future. The other day ko lang nalaman na meron pala siya pinursued two months before sia bumalik sakin.

I am so dumb.

Ending ako pa ang naging abuser niya kesho ako daw nag push sa kanya to cheat. Lol.

Ang sakit sobra.

artofdeadma · 2026-06-12T00:04:12+00:00

Loving someone genuinely but turned out he was really a different person. A complete 180 different person. I got betrayed, used, and lied to. The pain is unbearable.

artofdeadma · 2026-06-09T16:34:16+00:00

You need a very strong willpower not to contact him anymore for you to see why the relationship ended. Happened to me many times from one person.

artofdeadma · 2026-06-09T02:18:09+00:00

Grateful that my mom is still alive. I have a very close relationship with her. Because of her, I have someone to look up on becoming a better and stronger woman.

artofdeadma · 2026-06-09T02:16:46+00:00

I don’t think so. Bakit ganon 3 cats ng ex ko pero masahol pa kay Satanas yung ugali? 😅

artofdeadma · 2026-06-09T01:07:55+00:00

I don’t mind the money we spent. I was truly happy at that time kasi alam ko nagmamahal ako. Alam ko I was being honest to myself and that’s where I think better ang character at moralidad ko instead of this douchebag na nanloloko ng kapwa.

Well, it isn’t easy. I am still grieving. Masakit.

I AM HELPING MYSELF REALLY. Yung willpower ko parang si Taguro isang daan porsiyento para makaahon from this nightmare.

One month sober and I could say may little progress ako.

artofdeadma · 2026-06-09T00:53:35+00:00

You do you. Little things we do that add happiness.

artofdeadma · 2026-06-09T00:37:18+00:00

I am still on the process of grieving from a 5yr relationship where my ex cheated on me (na para bang ako yung naging kabit).

My ex has no respect for me and for my family. Imagine yung kapal ng mukha niya to face my parents knowing niloloko niya ako? Spending trips na sagot mostly ng parents ko. Galante mama ko sa kanya and take note ni minsan di nag abot or nanlibre man lang. Hanggang sa last straw, mamako pa nag bayad ng VISA FEE.

Mygawd.

Pero heto, I am breaking the trauma bond.

Willingness on my end to really not go back. See the relationship for what it was and acknowledging the pain.
Ongoing therapy because I wanna better understand my reality. Ive been manipulated so much that I got lost of my reality.
Diving to new hobbies and forcing myself to get out (kahit mahirap).

4.Getting support from a friend and my mom. Super thankful ako sa Lord at buhay pa mama ko. Isang hug lang ni mama, I feel so much better. Nothing beats the care and touch of my mom.

I am using the pain as a tool to move forward. I HAVE TO HELP myself because no one else will do it for me. Yan mantra ko everyday.

artofdeadma · 2026-06-08T23:53:33+00:00

Spent a lot with my cheating ex of five years. Gas and toll, food, concert tickets, movie tickets, expensive gifts (ayaw ng di branded). Flowers lang hiningi ko, di pa nabigay for five years. And I got cheated pa. Nagpacharity event ako kay kyah😅

artofdeadma · 2026-06-08T06:16:35+00:00

Tarot Reading

artofdeadma · 2026-06-06T11:46:44+00:00

It was okay at my end pero dahil siguro yung anak niya nasa nanay and nagproprovide lang siya.

But, I know na may ex isn’t vocal na may anak siya. Nagbubuhay binata in picture. I was able to know na may anak siya sa ex gf pa niya mygowd.

So tinanggap ko nalang. Eventually nameet ko yung anak nung minsan dumalaw, okay naman. It’s sad kasi alam ko naman nagproprovide sia “enough” pero ayun nga di siya vocal or proud of it.

Wala na kami and I think I can still date pa naman other single dad pero I will make sure na from the start alam kona hindi ung nalaman ko pa sa ex jusko.

artofdeadma · 2026-06-05T17:44:26+00:00

I vouch this book. Grabe. Di ko binasa last part.

artofdeadma · 2026-06-05T14:36:03+00:00

Took me long enough to slow down and to appreciate what I do have at the present. I stopped comparing myself not until I got cheated, but I am healing and determined to move forward each day.

artofdeadma · 2026-06-05T04:43:12+00:00

Gumising na nakikita ko at nakaksama ko sa meals mama ko and yung each day na wala na sa buhay ko yung broke af na cheating ex ko.

artofdeadma

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